Unmarried guys with the implant

[Lost Sheep]

My experience with a dating site (Plenty of Fish) was that disclosing that I was functinally impotent but on the road to an implant, on which journey I was inviting a woman to accompany me on that "journey" was a positive one. My posting there clearly indicated that sexual intimacy (before and after implant) would be involved. Comments often included that my attitude was courageous and refreshing. I concluded that women appreciate a man who faces challenges (even sexual inadequacy) rather than hiding from them or going into denial. My experiences with women even before posting on PoF were that being up-front about my "penis does not work as well as it should, but I will do all I can to make sure you (my intended lover) are satisfied" was met with positive receptions.

What's your opinion of that site?
I've found most sites of that type are absolutely overrun with fakes and scammers.
Does pof seem to be better than most?

Plenty of Fish (PoF) n 2016 was well populated with real people and well-run by the owners. 2017-2018 seemed to change a bit, with more spurious responses and I left the site not long after.

[Pamen116]

we need more people in the 40 year old bracket and below- no offense old timers but the game is definitely different in the year of 2023- size queens everywhere who don’t care about you just sex. If you’re over 45-50 your opinion is based in a more better time.

[Lost Sheep]

we need more people in the 40 year old bracket and below- no offense old timers but the game is definitely different in the year of 2023- size queens everywhere who don’t care about you just sex. If you’re over 45-50 your opinion is based in a more better time.

I will concede that sexual tastes, proclivities and styles change.

I am compelled to finish with this:
I once saw an ad (2016-2017) from a woman specifying ony men 8" or more need apply. I was not implanted yet, but was tempted to write to her asking if she would prefer 10 inches for 10 minutes or 6 inches for 60 minutes? (My own measurements are 11"...but only if you add length and girth together)

[Frenchie]

Noted but I still wouldn't have any problem to disclosing my implant to a 24/34 year old if I could still meet & f*ck one now because she'd probably be a "working" girl and wouldn't care anyway. LOL!

Also, FWIW, I was married when I was 22 and my ex was 19. We remained married for 25 years and, back then, she cared more about me than my just my dick.

I don't think you guys give young women enough credit.

Sure it's "different" but, if the women likes/loves you, it shouldn't matter as long as it "works" and if it does matter to her, then it's better you find that out early that she doesn't deserve your time & attention.

There are way too many fish in the sea to worry about some b*tch who's going to judge you in that way.

Just dump her and move on if that happens!

this is your thought, tell it to a 26-year-old girl, there is a sea between saying and doing

I agree with Frank here. Younger girls don't really care about your struggles they care about how you can make them feel and if your confident. My last gf was 27, before that 20, and 22, and 30. They loved injections results but I never told them (except the 22 year old because she was a nurse and liked injections) I was injecting pills also worked at that time too so I didn't have to worry about relying on injections.

I think older women are way more supporting with ED because they are past their prime and they have had other old partners with ED which is way more common in men older than 40.
A girl in her 20s has 20 guys lining up in the DMs ready to fuck in any moment and stay hard all the time. ED isn't common in the 20s so we young guys with ED are always seen as an anomaly or less of a man. You gotta look at it from a woman perspective : Why should she waste the best years of her life with a limp dick dude when there's hundreeds of men there who are able to fulfill the basic human function that we guys with ED can't. And I kinda understand it. I have never told women that I use pills or that now use injections. When these fail i will get the implant once I'm 30 years old before i get married. I don't want mercy or to be looked as a weirdo or less of a man by my wife when all her other boyfriends have been ready to fuck in any moment while I can't.

[Reshuffle]

this is your thought, tell it to a 26-year-old girl, there is a sea between saying and doing

I agree with Frank here. Younger girls don't really care about your struggles they care about how you can make them feel and if your confident. My last gf was 27, before that 20, and 22, and 30. They loved injections results but I never told them (except the 22 year old because she was a nurse and liked injections) I was injecting pills also worked at that time too so I didn't have to worry about relying on injections.

I think older women are way more supporting with ED because they are past their prime and they have had other old partners with ED which is way more common in men older than 40.
A girl in her 20s has 20 guys lining up in the DMs ready to fuck in any moment and stay hard all the time. ED isn't common in the 20s so we young guys with ED are always seen as an anomaly or less of a man. You gotta look at it from a woman perspective : Why should she waste the best years of her life with a limp dick dude when there's hundreeds of men there who are able to fulfill the basic human function that we guys with ED can't. And I kinda understand it. I have never told women that I use pills or that now use injections. When these fail i will get the implant once I'm 30 years old before i get married. I don't want mercy or to be looked as a weirdo or less of a man by my wife when all her other boyfriends have been ready to fuck in any moment while I can't.

Just, my two cents.... 'older' women (sounds like you're talking about mid 30-40ish y/o women) are at their sexual prime according to the research. They also have 20 guys (many of those guys in their 20s) lined up waiting to fuck them if they want to give those guys the opportunity. You're right that ED is more common among older guys so they've likely seen it before, but it's not necessarily any different of a situation dating them when they're older, especially if they're divorced after a sexless marriage or one that failed in part due to ED, which is probably not uncommon. If anything it's taught them they don't have the time for being patient and understanding anymore they just want to get fucked.

With that said, try giving women the benefit of the doubt....I told girls I used pills in my 20s, it didn't bother them so long as I could get it up often enough. It didn't bother them that much even when the pills didn't work if I was good at getting them off other ways...although it bothered me, and eventually as we all know it causes lots of issues and just gets worse over time. There's no reason to feel shame or like a weirdo doing what you need to do to fix a problem, women like guys that are proactive in identifying that they have an issue and are doing everything they can to fix it.

[Hillywilly]

this is your thought, tell it to a 26-year-old girl, there is a sea between saying and doing

I agree with Frank here. Younger girls don't really care about your struggles they care about how you can make them feel and if your confident. My last gf was 27, before that 20, and 22, and 30. They loved injections results but I never told them (except the 22 year old because she was a nurse and liked injections) I was injecting pills also worked at that time too so I didn't have to worry about relying on injections.

I think older women are way more supporting with ED because they are past their prime and they have had other old partners with ED which is way more common in men older than 40.
A girl in her 20s has 20 guys lining up in the DMs ready to fuck in any moment and stay hard all the time. ED isn't common in the 20s so we young guys with ED are always seen as an anomaly or less of a man. You gotta look at it from a woman perspective : Why should she waste the best years of her life with a limp dick dude when there's hundreeds of men there who are able to fulfill the basic human function that we guys with ED can't. And I kinda understand it. I have never told women that I use pills or that now use injections. When these fail i will get the implant once I'm 30 years old before i get married. I don't want mercy or to be looked as a weirdo or less of a man by my wife when all her other boyfriends have been ready to fuck in any moment while I can't.

Good point I never tell a women about pills or injections either. Not sure what the point is. In the realm of atraction you typically should avoid disclosing your weakness and insecurities because at the end of the day womens biological programing wants to know only one thing is this man’s genes strong or weak because the latter is important for the survival of her offspring. All men have ED at some point though. I think as long as you have success frequently via pills, injections or implant your good to go.