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There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
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Re: Sex toys

Postby Old Guy » Wed Dec 31, 2025 3:36 pm

Scott59 wrote:My wife is very reserved, Chatholic. How do I convince her to try a sex toy? or just get one and spring it on her??

That's what I did years ago to my vanilla wife. Bought a corded vibrator with a nubby tip. Left it in the bed one night, she asked what it was for and told her buzz it on her clit and see if you feel anything. She had an orgasm in seconds. Since then she's always liked a clit buzzer but never got into any other toys. Although she does like sex in our swing. That's another surprise I did to her. My bad back and her bad knee made for a good excuse.
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Re: Sex toys

Postby Scott59 » Mon Jan 05, 2026 1:53 pm

Thank you. Looking to get a finger vibrator so I can use in on her

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Re: Sex toys

Postby Claywcl » Tue Jul 21, 2026 11:45 am

My wife has always been rather reserved and bashful when it comes to sex but really enjoyed it after I get her started! I have used toys before for her but she always said no or was reluctant for me to use them because she felt uncomfortable. Then I bought her a clit sucker! As usual she was reluctant to try it but I convinced her! The very first time we used it she had a screaming orgasm! Yes, my wife is a screamer!
After our first time using the clit sucker, my wife has loved it and even asked me to have it ready when her have a romantic moment!
I highly recommend the clit sucker especially for women who have a hard time “ finishing inside” which my wife does. She is absolutely a clit orgasm girl and this thing works great!


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