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[Larry10625]

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Can we PLEASE get back to the topic of this forum ED and/or PE. (By the way, PE stands for premature ejaculation). Maybe it would be helpful if, in General Discussion, someone would start a post with acronyms. I for one have had a question regarding the meaning of some of them. Any takers? Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeese?

Sorry I wasn't around on the weekend, I was sailing in Kingston.

Larry

[David_R]

Not one of us knows exactly how another man feels, what his life experiences have been, and what he needs to achieve here to feel whole.

Through the years I have talked with other men (at this site and at other support sites) where men have shared how they were made fun of in the locker room because of what other guys thought about their dick (too small, how it's shaped, whether or not it has a foreskin, etc.). And in today's world, that also include women since it seems to be perfectly acceptable nowadays to talk outside the locker room with others about another guys' dick so everyone can laugh at the poor guy.

And I don't even want to think about the possibilities that are out there in misusing cell phone cameras. I had this happen to me in a locker room, and I didn't know what to do. I reported it to the manager of that YMCA and he came back to the locker room to see who I was talking about. He told me -- and this is true -- that that guy was a leading member of the Y so he (the employee) couldn't do anything about it. And besides, he said, he has probably uploaded the pictures anyway. (And in case you're interested, I am not a slim and trim young hunk with a big dick -- I am the opposite, actually. But I understand that there are websites for just about any sexual fetish, and there are ones that are for seeing photos of guys with my kind of body.)

[Greg1956]

Not one of us knows exactly how another man feels, what his life experiences have been, and what he needs to achieve here to feel whole.

Through the years I have talked with other men (at this site and at other support sites) where men have shared how they were made fun of in the locker room because of what other guys thought about their dick (too small, how it's shaped, whether or not it has a foreskin, etc.). And in today's world, that also include women since it seems to be perfectly acceptable nowadays to talk outside the locker room with others about another guys' dick so everyone can laugh at the poor guy.

And I don't even want to think about the possibilities that are out there in misusing cell phone cameras. I had this happen to me in a locker room, and I didn't know what to do. I reported it to the manager of that YMCA and he came back to the locker room to see who I was talking about. He told me -- and this is true -- that that guy was a leading member of the Y so he (the employee) couldn't do anything about it. And besides, he said, he has probably uploaded the pictures anyway. (And in case you're interested, I am not a slim and trim young hunk with a big dick -- I am the opposite, actually. But I understand that there are websites for just about any sexual fetish, and there are ones that are for seeing photos of guys with my kind of body.)

David,
I think it's disgraceful that our society has come to a place where men see their masculinity in terms of their penis size. I was well hung most of my life, but never flaunted it and never lauded it over my friends or brother who were not well endowed. As age, ED, and prostate removal stole much of my penis size, I never let it bother me. As a nude model since age 18, I continued even when I had a retracted acorn instead of the 5" flaccid I had enjoyed since age 16. I saw the difference in how people looked at me. in the locker room there were smirks, laughs and hung guys taking a look and then showing off their superior size in a way they did not need to.

I have traveled to other countries and think the U.S. Is the worst when it comes to this topic.

[David_R]

Many European countries (and Canada? and Australia?) are more comfortable with male nudity than we Americans are. But I don't think that's going to change anytime soon.

[ShopMan]

Random question, how does your flaccid glans feel? Would it be uncomfortable if you suddenly just rubbed your finger on your exposed glans, or would this produce a good sensation? Or would it change depending on the day.

Mine feels great. Nothing uncomfortable at all. However, it does depend on how it is rubbed. Still not what you would call painfull.