Female opinions on sex after implant

[ThailandBound]

There’s a lot of discussion here on how to approach a partner from “stealth mode”

TB where can I find some of these threads man? I'm interested in stealth mode haha

I am too. Trying to learn about all the tricks of the trade before I go live. I just put something like "stealth pumping" in the search box above and this popped up:

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=19369&start=20&hilit=secret+pumping

The thread goes a little into the weeds on other stuff, but you'll see some good stealthy tips in there. But trust me, there are many more buried in the forum. Just keep exploring and use the search box.

One theme i keep seeing is the notion of being pumped up to about 50% before the action begins. When your partner feels that, there is indeed something there, yet it's not uncomfortable at all to keep bent in the pants until showtime. That sounds good to me. After some foreplay, some guys pump while going down between their partners legs. Others take a quick bathroom break, pump up and return "Sweetie, i was thinking about you in there, and well, check this out!".

Probably the variations are endless. Maybe we should start a new thread and see what the active members now do. This forum goes back years and it seems that there are numerous evolutions of participants. It's kind of like a group of guys suddenly find themselves in a rowboat (the forum) and all hang together and pitch in until they reach safe shores. Then the next generation comes. Still, some valuable stuff in this forum.

[Mark1974]

From a non implanted man’s point of view I would and will definitely take it for some extramarital test drives. When I first started using viagra about 15 years ago I definitely took advantage of the enhanced performance outside of the marriage. But then I have issues with monogamy.

Yes, I think this is the real reason for the OP hearing alot of stories of people getting divorces or losing their partners after implant.[/quot

I don't think so. I think for a lot of women it's a turn off plain and simple

[phliptrip]

I don't think so. I think for a lot of women it's a turn off plain and simple

I am curious why you feel that way?

I asked around a good bit in my friend group (30-50 at the time, male and female) and had wife do the same when I first heard about the implants (few years ago, had no real meaning for me at that point, cialis still gave me long and strong for several more years), largely the reaction was universally positive or neutral with no personal frame of reference regardless of orientation (gay/straight). The biggest questions we heard was (the last one followed the first two almost every time by women)--

Would they feel anything? Could they still cum? Could they still get someone pregnant? (they being ipp recipient.)

Bar none, men and women both. It's like they think out of the gate it's like an amputation and then replacement with a dildo or something... in which case I can see why they might not be interested. After clearing up how it worked, the questions became more along the lines of "how long can it stay hard? can it be made larger than it was originally?"

Consensus largely ended up being "eh, whatever, long as its a functional dick that works as it should." Fair amount of curiosity too ("I'd like to know if it feels the same", "I'd like to know if it looks the same", etc.)

Just asked wife what all she remembers, she said there was only ONE negative response in her friend group "<female name redacted> didn't like it, it was the "that doesn't seem natural, you have what god wanted you to have, and to change that is disgusting and against gods will." Wife is like (to me), and I quote-- "yeah, the divorced pure romance distributer who has a bigger dildo collection than any one in the world is preaching about using only the highest rated organic pure natural dicks. Whatever."

That all said, sample size of ~30 people from 30yo-50yo at the time... wife and I were late 30s/just about 40. It may be quite different in both younger and older demographics... younger might feel its bad because they've not had a dude go limp on them over and over and over again... older might be a bit more "traditional". Shrug. In the grand scheme I don't care too much what anyone else thinks, long as it works... but I've never encountered the kinda negativity you're describing when discussing it. Regardless, I don't have any intent on hiding I've had it done from friends and family, no plans to use it on anyone but my wife either... and I can make her happy (orgasm) with or without it based on the past 20 years or so of experiences.

This was a procedure done for my sake.

[Mark1974]

Well I say that because for a woman a penis is the sensual extension of a man's virility and his hard cock says he is virile and that he desires her. An implant doesn't represent either of those two things.

Women tend to be romantics and men tend to be pragmatic and mechanical. These are gross generalizations, of course, but I think there is some truth to them.

That said I'm not saying all women will not accept it, but it takes a nuanced psychological adjustment and in today's culture of human disposability it takes a woman willing to make that adjustment.

Personally I want to get an implant anyways for my own sexual satisfaction. I would love to be in a relationship again, but if I'm the only one I can please then that's enough.

[Randalltx]

I kinda like the oval. I was oval before implant though. Wife is just happy we will regain something lost. Best wife ever, so she will be my sole customer. Nobody leaving anybody over here either way, with or without it.

[atul21]

Fwiw my wife actually chose to leave me when it was clear that my ED is organic and I will need an implant. She kept taunting me and telling me that I will always have an artificial dick and she does not want to live with a man who has an artificial member in his body.

So yes, it does happen.

[Mark1974]

Fwiw my wife actually chose to leave me when it was clear that my ED is organic and I will need an implant. She kept taunting me and telling me that I will always have an artificial dick and she does not want to live with a man who has an artificial member in his body.

So yes, it does happen.

I believe this is the perspective that a very large percentage of women will have on the matter. I don't say that to be cruel, but to be realistic.

I still think it's the best option for a lot of us, but it's best to approach life with eyes wide open

[Reshuffle]

Fwiw my wife actually chose to leave me when it was clear that my ED is organic and I will need an implant. She kept taunting me and telling me that I will always have an artificial dick and she does not want to live with a man who has an artificial member in his body.

So yes, it does happen.

I believe this is the perspective that a very large percentage of women will have on the matter. I don't say that to be cruel, but to be realistic.

I still think it's the best option for a lot of us, but it's best to approach life with eyes wide open

Personally I don't think there's any basis for that statement Mark and the evidence that does exist does not support it. I believe most women would be far happier with a working dick no matter how it works than a limp noodle. Certainly ED over time had a big part in destroying my marriage. I've read very few people saying their partners have complaints post IPP. The studies that have been done show very high partner satisfaction

[phliptrip]

Fwiw my wife actually chose to leave me when it was clear that my ED is organic and I will need an implant. She kept taunting me and telling me that I will always have an artificial dick and she does not want to live with a man who has an artificial member in his body.

So yes, it does happen.

I believe this is the perspective that a very large percentage of women will have on the matter. I don't say that to be cruel, but to be realistic.

I still think it's the best option for a lot of us, but it's best to approach life with eyes wide open

I tend to fall on the side of thinking that is an usual reaction (and satisfaction rate surveys long term by partners tend to support that) like my wifes friend who felt it went against gods will... course by same token, a certain percentage of women and men bail on partners as soon as anything goes wrong (cancer, heart issues, etc) and this isn't likely much higher or lower percentage wise. See also gold diggers.

Course, i kinda feel like, if they did bail for such a trivial thing, lucky me, found out i was with human garbage before something life-threatening happened and they have MPOA/POA and kill me.

There is going to be some small percent who are likely to demonize it. Some small percent likely to fetishize it. Few who prefer and few who dislike and rest fall somewhere between. Bell curve type thing. Majority in most things like that give little shit.

[phliptrip]

Damn it, now I'm tempted to put up a tinder profile with the same pictures, but explain a bionic cock on one and claim other is natural and see if rates differ significantly.