Second Titan Failure happened 2 days ago during hard sex.

[principles]

You said that your malleable was buckling/folding, but do you recall which brand did you had?

BS Tactra 13mm 23cm. But as I mentioned, it could be simply because of my specific anatomy at the specific time (post-infection). I cannot make the claim that all malleables buckle, otherwise I would not be considering going back to one of them. I'm hopeful that is not the case.

[Thisworld]

Not only that, and not my biggest concern, but sadly, I have to find a plausible excuse to vanish for a couple months from the lives of all the 4 stable women I'm currently involved with, not counting all the others. And again, I have to remind myself that I currently have abundance because I have/had a functional implant. It can be an amazing and terrifying experience all at once.

Well i guess this is a first world problem man ahah.
None of the women you date know about your implant?

None. I do not let them touch my balls, I simply say I'm very sensitive there and dislike any play with them. I say that assertively once and that's usually the end of the story.
My previous GF spotted my ball incision scar and asked my about it. I said it was nothing, something from when I was a kid, and that was also the end of the conversation. I'd say do not be afraid to draw lines and do not feel inclined to fully explain yourself, you don't have to, and in my experience, doing that could backfire and decrease your attractiveness in the eyes of some women. But that's an entirely different topic of conversation.

The cockring also acts somewhat as a barrier. After I mention I don't like my balls played with, they naturally don't go go past the ring.

Those are the adaptions I had to make being implanted and with new partners, and it does work well. The way you explain how you don't like your balls played with has to be assertive and contextualized correctly.
I wouldn't have that concern with a performant malleable though.

Yeah i see your point. But i hope that you realize that with a mpp it wuold become way more difficult to not "get caught" considering that if they touch your penis while flaccid -> meaning while the implant is folded down, they'll feel it's going to be stiff even if bent down, which surely will raise some questions. What's your take on this aspect?

Also as a side question, has the noise the titan pumps usually do, made more difficult to keep it discrete?

[principles]

Yeah i see your point. But i hope that you realize that with a mpp it wuold become way more difficult to not "get caught" considering that if they touch your penis while flaccid -> meaning while the implant is folded down, they'll feel it's going to be stiff even if bent down, which surely will raise some questions. What you think?

Also as a side question, has the noise the titan pumps usually do, made more difficult to keep it discrete?

Good point, and I admit I didn't quite think through this scenario yet. When I had the malleable, I was in a relationship, and that GF actually knew about the implant, so that wasn't a concern.

My first Titan weirdly made no noises as I recall, but the second did. I usually pump in the middle of foreplay while we still have our clothes on and I only show my dick when it's fully hard, I don't show it soft, so by the time we take our clothes out or dick out, I'm ready. Sometimes I even manage to put the cockring on single handed, which I keep in my pocket. Othertimes, depending on the girl and the scenario, I don't use the cockring at all on the first fuck. So to your point, I usually pump in the middle of foreplay while kissing, fingering, especially kissing the ear, tactically, as to drown the noise from the pump. It's actually quite easy, no issues there at all. You figure this out day one. Just make her make noises and she won't hear your pump actuating.

And to add one final point, you don't have to be fully pumped. You can squeeze 10–15 times, and as you find moments to caress your balls, you can actually pretty discreetly pump right in front of the girl. Just like when you’re stroking your dick, you can gently and discreetly pet your balls and pump 3–5 times in a second or two—while changing positions, taking clothes off, asking her to turn so you can kiss her neck, then put one hand in her pants, one in yours. While she starts unbuttoning her pants, shirt, or whatever she’s wearing, let her sometimes, you can use that moment to squeeze in additional pumps. There are many ways to progressively get hard in the moment. Those moments of opportunity happen all the time and quickly become very intuitive and natural.

[Thisworld]

Yeah i see your point. But i hope that you realize that with a mpp it wuold become way more difficult to not "get caught" considering that if they touch your penis while flaccid -> meaning while the implant is folded down, they'll feel it's going to be stiff even if bent down, which surely will raise some questions. What you think?

Also as a side question, has the noise the titan pumps usually do, made more difficult to keep it discrete?

Good point, and I admit I didn't quite think through this scenario yet. When I had the malleable, I was in a relationship, and that GF actually knew about the implant, so that wasn't a concern.

My first Titan weirdly made no noises as I recall, but the second did. I usually pump in the middle of foreplay, kissing, fingering, especially kissing the ear, tactically, as to drown the noise from the pump. It's actually quite easy, no issues there at all. You figure this out day one. Just make her make noises and she won't hear your pump actuating.

Yep seems a solid strategy. Thanks man, and keep us updated on whatever you are going to chose!

[ready2go]

so you are not in the US ? if you did decide on a malleable ,maybe you could get the ridgi10 /14mm rods for better stiffness .

Hopefully it's available in 14mm if I go with the malleable.

woah ,4 fwb and others ! ok mr playboy , haha enjoy .
what country are you in ? for some reason, the ridgi10 14mm rods is not available in US.
i originally went to Egypt for ridgi10 mpp , but after a clown shit show at the hospital where the clinic sent me to, i ended up walking out on the whole deal .
its a long story ,but they probably would have put in a 14mm implant .
as they tried to talk me into a ipp " because of my size , it will be hard to conceal" line of BS
i ended up with the tactra 13mm in india . it does ok, i cant say it buckles . but i want a tactra with 15mm rods .
come on .whats so hard about that? the shaw has one . but no metal wire inside ,so doctors say its the least rigid . then some guys who have it say its good . so who knows . but one or two had the tips break . Apparently bad quality control of the silicone .
oh and the " you cant hide it from your partners" thing . well you had one already so you know .but i have had 4 girls after the implant and of those ,one asked " how come your dick does not sleep" after we were done . i just smiled and pushed it down .
That was the end of that .
even my wife of 32 years [when she is around ] does not know i have an implant
she did say one morning, " your dick was pointing straight up last night while you were alseep !"
my response was ; yeah ,and that is a problem for you?
hahaa . no , no it isnt .

[principles]

Haha, I had a similar situation. I had drinks with a girl, we had sex and slept immediately afterwards, so I forgot to fully deflate. Next day she commented I still had a erection while sleeping

Have you tried a cockring? From memory, it compensated for mostly all the girth I had lost with the malleable, that's why I'm not worried about it, at all.

[principles]

I had appointments with the top 2 surgeons in my country this week. They mostly recommended the same thing for my specific case, continuing with an IPP.

We read my previous surgery notes, and something I didn't previously recall was that due to the infection, I had a proximal perforation in one side and a distal erosion on the other, they performed a 'sling', so my current IPP is fully up tied to the tunica in all sorts of ways, as it were with the malleable as well. That could definitely be one of the reasons I experienced instability, lack of rigidity and buckling with the Tactra. So axial rigidity is fully dependent on the specifics of each particular case/anatomy.

I have another week to decide between the Rigi10 (hopefully in 14 mm) or continuing with the Titan. At this very moment, I'm inclined to try the malleable once again to either confirm or eliminate that option. If it works well, I'll stick with it. If not, in a year I'll be forced to accept the possibility of biannual surgeries and go back to the IPP.

[ready2go]

Haha, I had a similar situation. I had drinks with a girl, we had sex and slept immediately afterwards, so I forgot to fully deflate. Next day she commented I still had a erection while sleeping

Have you tried a cockring? From memory, it compensated for mostly all the girth I had lost with the malleable, that's why I'm not worried about it, at all.

yes on the cockring ,it helps retain the blood flow and feels good as well , but i lost to much girth to gain it back from engorgement.
That was the one unpleasant surprise the first time i saw it when the wrapping came off . i Thought ;thats it , why so skinny? "
Hopefully in a few weeks ill be able to make a trip to manila for some HA fillers . any extra padding in the shaft will feel and look good.

[neisseriaceae]

I had appointments with the top 2 surgeons in my country this week. They mostly recommended the same thing for my specific case, continuing with an IPP.

We read my previous surgery notes, and something I didn't previously recall was that due to the infection, I had a proximal perforation in one side and a distal erosion on the other, they performed a 'sling', so my current IPP is fully up tied to the tunica in all sorts of ways, as it were with the malleable as well. That could definitely be one of the reasons I experienced instability, lack of rigidity and buckling with the Tactra. So axial rigidity is fully dependent on the specifics of each particular case/anatomy.

I have another week to decide between the Rigi10 (hopefully in 14 mm) or continuing with the Titan. At this very moment, I'm inclined to try the malleable once again to either confirm or eliminate that option. If it works well, I'll stick with it. If not, in a year I'll be forced to accept the possibility of biannual surgeries and go back to the IPP.

I'm happy With My Rigi10, it has really good axial rigidity. Perhaps You we're undersized post infection, they usually do that, because in that situation the mpp is used as a spacer until the new ipp. I can't explain the peace of mind this Mpp has bringed to me.
You shouldnt have so many surgeries down there, You are taking a Big risk ...
I hope everything goes great this time, My Best wishes to You

[principles]

I'm happy With My Rigi10, it has really good axial rigidity. Perhaps You we're undersized post infection, they usually do that, because in that situation the mpp is used as a spacer until the new ipp. I can't explain the peace of mind this Mpp has bringed to me.
You shouldnt have so many surgeries down there, You are taking a Big risk ...
I hope everything goes great this time, My Best wishes to You

Appreciate your kind words.

I'm very glad to know that you are happy with your malleable. I'm becoming more and more inclined to try it out again.
That peace of mind you mentioned is something I'm striving towards.