Guys in long term relationships j Does your wife come regularly?

[LGXDownunder]

We've been married nearly 48 years and together much longer. Early days she would cum easily and hard from PIV sex, and I would ejaculate bucket loads. She would usually want to go again immediately. That was difficult for me as I needed at least a brief refractory period to recharge.
I would stay inside her making foreplay, sucking her nipples etc, then slowly regain a full erection and off we go again .
We would use various positions and she would cum from any of them. That was how it went for decades.

Fast forward to post menopause years, plus prostate cancer/RRP, ED and implant for me. We are still sexually very active and fuck usually three times a week. But the game has changed over the years and eventually she was unable to cum from PIV sex any longer. She tells me that she still enjoys the sensation from being fucked vaginally but just can't climax from it.

That said, after losing my prostate and the ability to ejaculate, then several years of frustrating ED, post implant my sexual confidence and ability has gone through the roof. I still can't get her to a full orgasm but sometimes it's very close and the body language is clear that she is really into it. What does give her an intense climax these days is when I apply a vibrator to her clit. We always do that now as part of our usual routine before PIV and she cums hard in a shuddering orgasm. Our main problem now is that I can go forever, and I prefer a long session, but she has some chronic back issues, so I have to be mindful of that. Since I now orgasm 100% from PIV we are both still getting off regularly, just in different ways to our youth.

[CanGetItUpButNotOff]

Sounds great! 3× week would be my goal, not only for feeling good but I think that's a good number to maintain intimacy.

TriMix is doing its job for me but I need a refractory period of 3-5 days to overcome anorgasmia.

The Missus is getting a little more comfortable in letting me go down on her but it's still a very poor method for her orgasm. The most reliable way is to warm her up with fingers, then insert Part A into Part B and when it's "go time" add some finger stimulation on her clit.

[LGXDownunder]

Sounds great! 3× week would be my goal, not only for feeling good but I think that's a good number to maintain intimacy.

TriMix is doing its job for me but I need a refractory period of 3-5 days to overcome anorgasmia.

The Missus is getting a little more comfortable in letting me go down on her but it's still a very poor method for her orgasm. The most reliable way is to warm her up with fingers, then insert Part A into Part B and when it's "go time" add some finger stimulation on her clit.

I guess I had always assumed that sex would be much the same from youth to whenever we could no longer do it. Seems that's not the case. Mrs used to like me going down on her but these days she says it's too intense. Maybe I have too much mojo, thinking back to the Austen Powers movies . But she also likes finger on clit stimulation in addition to the vibrator, so I always incorporate a fair amount of that in our sessions. Most seem to find what works for them but you have to experiment and definitely communication is important. I didn't have great success with Trimix, hence the implant, but I know it does work for many guys. Yes I'm happy with 3 times a week, although TBH I would happily fuck every day if I could. My implant has made me constantly horny .

[CanGetItUpButNotOff]

Yes I'm happy with 3 times a week, although TBH I would happily fuck every day if I could. My implant has made me constantly horny .

Again, ditto. Youth is wasted on the young.

[Myballs]

I’ve and did it with girls because they wouldn’t let me do oral on them. I mean, holy cow, I love it and to me sexes and done unless there has been oral, but yes, I’m give her oral. She’ll come three or four times fuck her hard and fast and she’ll come a couple