Am I the only one?

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Livingstonguy
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Am I the only one?

Postby Livingstonguy » Fri Dec 09, 2022 8:48 pm

Am I the only person on here that has never measured their junk? I've been married to the same woman for 40 years and have never felt to need to whip out a measuring tape. As long as my wife was satisfied, " And she had been!", What was the point in measuring? I don't really understand men's obsession with length and girth.
Implanted 12/22/2022 AMS 700cx 21cm with 1 cm RTE at St Thomas midtown in Nashville
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Lost Sheep
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Re: Am I the only one?

Postby Lost Sheep » Fri Dec 09, 2022 8:59 pm

Livingstonguy wrote:Am I the only person on here that has never measured their junk? I've been married to the same woman for 40 years and have never felt to need to whip out a measuring tape. As long as my wife was satisfied, " And she had been!", What was the point in measuring? I don't really understand men's obsession with length and girth.

Speculating:

It might have something to do with competitiveness (either with other men or with onesself).

Or just wanting to know stuff. We keep track of our weight, height, age, just record-keeping.
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dg_moore
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Re: Am I the only one?

Postby dg_moore » Fri Dec 09, 2022 9:05 pm

I'm with Livingston. I never gave size any thought at all. Like height, there's not much you can do about it, so why waste energy obsessing about it?
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
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Re: Am I the only one?

Postby bldoink » Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:09 pm

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Badspartan
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Re: Am I the only one?

Postby Badspartan » Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:34 pm

You could have read my mind!! I’ve never measured either. Just knew I had enough to do the job. I was implanted 10 days ago and I still haven’t measured. I’ll just be happy that my dick will be hard and useful again!!
67 years old. ED 10 yrs. Insulin dependent diabetes HBP heart disease. Implanted 11/30/22 AMS CX 18 cm 3 cm rte

mschicago
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Re: Am I the only one?

Postby mschicago » Sat Dec 10, 2022 12:28 am

I never measured prior to ED either but once I made the decision to get an implant, I learned from this board you lose size due to the fact you no longer have nighttime erections. My surgeon measured for me at my consultation and I used VED therapy until the surgery to at least keep what I have. I am sure I lost size prior to the surgery since I went three years without nighttime erections. Anyway, I was 5 ½ inches on the day of surgery a little over 6 week ago and am darn close to that now. Surgeon did a great job!
49, Implanted AMS CX on 10/24/22 by Dr. Laurence Levine.

Old Guy
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Re: Am I the only one?

Postby Old Guy » Sat Dec 10, 2022 9:19 am

Looks like lots of guys never measured, and I'm one of them. My dick worked before ED just fine and it works just fine now after my implant. I do know I lost length during the ED battle though.
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Musson
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Re: Am I the only one?

Postby Musson » Sat Dec 10, 2022 9:46 am

I’ll Dmit to bring neurotically obsessed with my size. Although I used to be bigger than average , my psyche was probably shaped by a few girlfriends I had during my dating years in my 20s. I had several girlfriends that were size queens and even said “ the bigger the better”. While that was the minority of women it left an impression on me. Then in my 50s I had a gorgeous Filipina girlfriend ( mistress) that was obsessed with huge penises. With this insecurity already established I then fell victim to Peyroines and lost substantial length. So I’ve experienced sex with a large penis and now with a small penis. It was better before frankly. Nevertheless I do remain thankful that I can still please women with a smaller dick even if no longer awe inspiring. As a compensatory measure I have really upped my oral game which has gotten much positive feedback.
63yr old. PDwith 40% dor. Curve. Pre-PD 7”x6”.lost 2 in. due to PD. ED prior to PD. Switched from Sildalifil to Trimix Nov 2023 . Currently titrating Trimix for optimization.

riseagain
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Re: Am I the only one?

Postby riseagain » Sat Dec 10, 2022 9:56 am

I have always done a bone pressed measurement on my penis, also girth. I never thought that I had what is considered a large penis. Only after finding Franktalk and see my urologist did I come to learn that I was above average in length at 7 inches. my flaccid length was always short (grower not a shower) so I assumed that I was smaller than average. Now I am a big time shower and I really like it. :) :) It's no big deal to measure your dick, I just wanted to know for my self.
66 yrs old. Married 40 years to an awesome wife. Implanted on 8/4/2022 Titan 24cm XL. Dr Hakky. Loving the implant so far.

Spontaneous1
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Re: Am I the only one?

Postby Spontaneous1 » Sat Dec 10, 2022 11:51 am

OMG, does it make any difference if you do or don't? It's a personal preference, for whatever reason, and not anyone else's business!
Retired 65 y.o. Married. Moderate ED since 2019. Use constriction band ocassionately to help maintain erection, or Cialis/Viagra. Nocturnal/morning erections returning with VED usage. Lower libido than before.


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