No orgasm / just calm

[oldbeek]

I am having sex with a very hot woman. Cant get an orgasm. Fucking away and just get a calm feeling like I dont need it anymore. WTF She will not give up on me. I am desperate to get an orgasm. I abstained from all sex for 2 weeks prior. No porn.

[easymoney]

Gees give yourself a break your 82 what are you expecting? .. I was told as we age most men find it harder and harder to climax .. and health issues and meds added to that can make it impossible. Do you still have your prostate? .. all these things can affect you ..

[Martin6469]

I'm at the age where often an orgasm won't come - after 15 minutes or so I can tell it won't be coming, so I just enjoy her vagina, concentrating on the sensations. I simply quit when she says, "I'm finished," or when it's obvious that she's done because she's getting drier. If she says, "I wonder what's wrong," I say that so many babes chased me when I was young, my little guy has high mileage and it's getting worn out! (If she hasn't had an orgasm yet, I always have her masturbate with a bigger-than-me dildo.)

I consider myself so much luckier than the previous generation of men who had no Viagra, Trimix, or implants, and fell into depression when their sex lives gave out at age fifty. At least I can still do the masculine thing and get stiff and enjoy a tunnel of love once or twice a week, maybe indefinitely.

But I'm not giving up on fixing DE - I invite all guys with this problem to join my "research group." See my post "Let's Do a Research Project," in this topic "Delayed Ejaculation," 3-20-21.