a calamity has ruined my life my sex life is over

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hankthefrank
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a calamity has ruined my life my sex life is over

Postby hankthefrank » Sun May 18, 2025 1:24 pm

im only 23 but i have extreme pain from this illness, and doctors told me the only way we can help you is by surgery

its called bilateral orchiectomy the surgical removal of my testicles

they told me that theres a medicine but that it could be dangerous for heart and liver so they said surgical operation is better in my case.

i was getting better even posted it on here but now everything has crashed down again

implants would be of no use since my testicles will be gone

please pray for me :cry:

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Comatose
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Re: a calamity has ruined my life my sex life is over

Postby Comatose » Sun May 18, 2025 2:08 pm

I may be wrong but I don't think losing your testicles results in a loss of orgasms. It's just that you won't be able to cum any more and make babies.

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Postby bldoink » Sun May 18, 2025 3:12 pm

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Re: a calamity has ruined my life my sex life is over

Postby Kodixx » Mon May 19, 2025 12:53 pm

hankthefrank, I'm very sorry to hear of your situation. The story relayed by bldoink should give you positive expectations for the future even if the path ahead is challenging. And I agree that as with almost all critical decisions, you should get multiple assessments and opinions. Praying for you.

- Chuck
hankthefrank wrote:im only 23 but i have extreme pain from this illness, and doctors told me the only way we can help you is by surgery
Feb 2025 - 58 yo, 38 with greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", post-op @ 6 mo L: 6.75" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, only minor discomfort @ 10 wks, felt like 'new normal' @ 16 wks

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ElbowRoom
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Re: a calamity has ruined my life my sex life is over

Postby ElbowRoom » Mon May 19, 2025 1:25 pm

I believe you'll be able to function normally with weekly testosterone injections, just as many men on TRT do.
58yo Coloplast Titan implant scheduled for 10/23/2025 with Dr. Hakky. Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C

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Re: a calamity has ruined my life my sex life is over

Postby colev939 » Mon May 19, 2025 7:23 pm

I’m sorry you’re going through all this pain and uncertainty at such a young age. It’s understandable to feel overwhelmed. Just know you’re not alone, and it’s okay to lean on people who care about you.

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Re: a calamity has ruined my life my sex life is over

Postby Mijudac79 » Mon May 19, 2025 8:32 pm

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, dear boy.the advice you’ve been given here is mostly correct, in that testosterone injections will keep you functioning as a man. I know of three fellows who have had double orchiectomies and function quite well
Do, by all means get other opinions, though
What caused this problem, if I may ask? I didn’t see any posts about It?
Don’t despair, you can get through this.

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Re: a calamity has ruined my life my sex life is over

Postby LeTigre88 » Mon May 19, 2025 9:41 pm

Comatose wrote:I may be wrong but I don't think losing your testicles results in a loss of orgasms. It's just that you won't be able to cum any more and make babies.

I'm sorry you are going through this.
But, after 2nd and third opinions, if this is your only path, you should still be able to cum.
Your testes only contribute approx 5% of the total volume of semen. They supply hormones but as other note those can be replaced.
Best wishes.
63 yo, good health, on statins. Increasing ED since 45. Used pills w increased body aches/depression/diminishing efficacy. Moved to injections 7/2023. Now quad mix, 20 units, 7/10 erection, 90 min. No perceptible scarring, 2 yr bi-weekly use.


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