Advice

[Manonfire]

Hey Fellas,
So I was implanted in 2018 after prostate CA in 2017 at the VA. I've always felt like mine (AMS 700 LGX) was undersized and over filled. When I pump it, it makes it too stiff and hard for the wife, causing her pain.

I'm considering having a swap done next year with the malleable implant, and also install the artificial urinary sphincter or AUS (I still have bladder leaks).

Have any of you exchanged implants from the pump to malleable? Did it make sex better? A bit more flexible? Any regrets and would you do it again?

Also, those of you with the AUS, experiences, any regrets? Thx

[Manonfire]

After I press the deflate it reduces but stays very firm. There's no flexibility at zero. Even if I only squeeze once or twice it's rigid as a rock but too short. Sadly I was 7in prior to surgery and now I get 3-5in. I know there's a size loss post surgery, as the doc explained.

There's plenty of lube so it's not an issue. The other issue is the base where it forks. Often she can feel it and it begins to cause pain. It doesn't help that I'm also anorgasmic (difficult to climax) most of the time.

I dearly love my lady, she's half my age (I'm 58yo now). And my libido is high since I'm on trt.

[doctuth]

Before going to an AUS you might review my post titled Controlling Incontinence with an IPP in the members only section. Briefly, I discovered after reading a Korean study that I could control the leaks by inflating to 30% all day. The study was regarding several men who had ED and incontinence due to prostate surgery All were implanted with IPP's. 72.2% gained control by inflating from 30% to 90%. The amount varies with the individual. I have learned by my own experience that if I sleep with 100% inflation, I don't need to inflate during the day, but I do not squeeze to totally deflate. I just hit the release button and let the fluid equalize. It works for me, and 3 other FT members have reported to me that it has solved their problems as well. You have the equipment. What do you have to lose? Let us know how it goes.
doctuth

[ready2go]

After I press the deflate it reduces but stays very firm. There's no flexibility at zero. Even if I only squeeze once or twice it's rigid as a rock but too short. Sadly I was 7in prior to surgery and now I get 3-5in. I know there's a size loss post surgery, as the doc explained.

There's plenty of lube so it's not an issue. The other issue is the base where it forks. Often she can feel it and it begins to cause pain. It doesn't help that I'm also anorgasmic (difficult to climax) most of the time.

I dearly love my lady, she's half my age (I'm 58yo now). And my libido is high since I'm on trt.

so it was a full year from your prostate surgery to your implant surgery ?
if so , is that the reason for your size loss ? as extended periods of ED ,with no nocturnal erections are known to cause size loss , the several nightly woodies is the maintenance for our dick health .
But going to a malleable will only cause more loss of length and a bunch of girth . with malleables they shorten it by a third of an inch, and girth ? good luck .
personally , i would think ,if you did that ipp thing of cycling in your, me time ,with less than 100% pumped for pleasuring the wifey , would be the best way to go .
At least you have the possibility to gain some of your size back . Not so with a malleable . You get what you went in with .AND nearly always with a significant amount of loss of girth. Save a few lucky dudes . Myself not included .

[doctuth]

For the Uncircumcised Only

For those of you who suffer incontinence due to prostate cancer treatment, surgery, radiation, etc. you may want to read about my journey. What does that have to do with circumcision? Well, be patient and listen to what I have to say. First, I will refer you to my post in the Members Only section titled Controlling Incontinence with an IPP. That had to do with a Korean study where several men who had undergone prostatectomy and were suffering ED and urine leakage were implanted with IPPs. They were able to control their leakage by inflation of the implants from 30% to 90% depending on the severity. 72.2% were successful. It inspired me to try that protocol with great success. 30% worked for me. I then hit upon the idea of 100% at night while sleeping. That also worked and allowed me to be semi-flaccid during the day. I got reports from 3 other FT brothers that it also worked for them.

But there was a problem. During sneezing, coughing, and strenuous exercise or lifting, I would occasionally lose a drop or two, enough to leave an embarrassing wet spot on my pants. This was more apt to happen when I had not urinated for 2 to 3 hours. This led to the need for careful planning for extended activities. Pads were not an option. I hated them. Thank you for your patience. The main act follows.

I found a clear plastic cap from a hair product can that was 2 inches in diameter and 1 ½
inches long. It fit just right over my penis glans and a small amount of foreskin which provided for a hermetic seal when I burped out the trapped air. The remaining foreskin folded itself over the edge of the cap to ensure a seal so strong that no amount of pulling could dislodge it. It was totally comfortable, and I could wear it at all times and remove it quickly by retracting the foreskin to break the seal when I needed to urinate.

So now you know why your anatomy is so crucial. Unfortunately, if your foreskin has been surgically removed, you will not be a candidate for this solution. I have not been circumcised, but my foreskin has always been short covering only about one half of my glans when flaccid. Fortunately, that is enough to accomplish the deed. Those of you with a “loose” circ. may be able to get a seal if you can pull enough skin forward to engage the rim of the cup. I have tried to fully retract my foreskin and then place the cap, but the seal in inadequate and the cap falls off. With the above technique, I have never had a failure and am secure in never having wet spots on my pants.


OK, now for the drawbacks. As mentioned, the cap was only 1 ½ inches long, so in order to cover the glans and engage the foreskin I had to push it on so that it flattened the tip of the glans. I did not like the appearance of the blunt tip although it was not uncomfortable. In addition, since the cap had a flat end, it would show a corner on my bulge that was not natural. I decided I need a cap with a dome-shaped tip. I searched the stores and found some hair-spray products with rounded caps, but the diameter wasn’t right. Then I came upon the idea of a small display dome such as is used to display, watches, trinkets and dried flowers. I searched Amazon and found hundreds in all sizes. I found a clear plastic one 2.1 inches in diameter and 2.4 inches long. PERFECT! I ordered a package of 4 for about $9.00. The fit was perfect. No more crushed glans tip and there was plenty of length to seal the foreskin. In fact, I could leave a little air space at the tip as a reservoir if needed.

You can imagine my joy at being relieved of the worry while being totally comfortable. And there is one more serendipity! Since my implantation, I, like many others have lamented the lack if engorgement of the glans. I have discovered that the gentle suction provided to retain the cap has resulted in engorgement of the glans to the full diameter of the cap i.e. 2.1 inches. In addition, it has added ¼ inch to my length. And it remains so for hours after removing the cap. Long enough for some fun.

P.S. Obviously, this cap trick can be used by non-bionic men as well. Those with a ”conservative” circ. may be successful with a longer cap provided the remnant of foreskin can be mobilized enough. Another observation is that since the cap is round and the penis may not be, due to the corporal implants, more skin is needed to take up the slack. It is worth the try. Your size may not be the same as mine. I suggest you try caps from various products to get a functional diameter for your penis and then check out Amazon for a “Cadillac”.

P.P.S. My cap is so comfortable that I forgot to remove it on two occasions when urinating. I quickly noted my error and corrected it, but I did not lose a drop. This thing is secure! I’m happy to discuss this in person if you wish. PM me. We can talk on the phone or do a show and tell in the Denver area.

doctuth