Suicidal tendencies

[Inject77]

Hello. My ED appeared suddenly. I injured my pudendal nerve. I think it’s the worst kind of ED, because you lose a large part of sensitivity. I’ve been using injections for a year. They work. I developed severe depression and overwhelming anxiety. I am married, and sex has turned into a traumatic and risky activity. I became an alcoholic and have already tried several antidepressants. Most of them cause me anorgasmia. The ones that don’t, also don’t work. I wish for death every day, all day long. I don’t do it because of my children who need me. I am not managing to cope with this. Any advice would be welcome.

[Martin6469]

I have anorgasmia more and more because of age. When it happens I simply enjoy my wife's vagina and her enjoying my Trimix penis. Better than nothing, right? (She always has an orgasm because we use dildos.)

Please get your testosterone checked because low T causes depression and anxiety, and take steps to talk to a psychologist.

If you can't improve your mental state, I would use the antidepressants that work and deal with the anorgasmia the way I do.

PM me any time.

[Al1962]

Please, if the antidepressants work, use them.
I have been clinically depressed my entire life. Meds help me, I have never contemplated suicide, yet I for sure do not have a perfect sex life. Take the meds, deal with the sexual outcome. Go to couples therapy, there is nothing wrong with either of you, no blame. Think of therapy as a way to improve your relationship.
If the two of you can understand each others feeling about this without blame, your love will grow.
Please, talk to wife, (no blaming) take the meds that work for you, talk with a couples therapist to understand each other more. You both are in this together, fix it.

[John Dday]

There is always a flip side to any situation.
Start talking to your partner because the 'sex has turned into a traumatic and risky activity' can be the KINK that drives new ways to think about sex, ways to laugh and cum together