Lately the wife and I have trouble with me getting into her. She is heavy set. I have to take Cialis to get hard and when hard I am only about 4 inches or a little more. We mostly do missionary. Last night after missionary failed, we tried me standing by the side of the bed and her at the edge. That was not successful either. She doesn't want to get on top of me because of her weigh and also she has artificial knees. I am also using a Xialla.
Any suggestions as to how I might be able to get a bit more length? Pump more? Use injections? Get a strap on?
If others have had this problem and found a solution, I would like to hear it.
Thanks.
When your penis seems too short for PIV
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Woodicould
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When your penis seems too short for PIV
Prostate cancer age 65 with PSA 5.8. Biopsy Oct 2010. Gleason score of 7, 3+4 with perineural invasion. Stage II, T2cNXMX.
Jan-Feb 2011 radiation. Palladium-103 seed implant March 2011 (55 implants). Lupron treatment from Dec 2010 to Aug 2011 (8 months).
Jan-Feb 2011 radiation. Palladium-103 seed implant March 2011 (55 implants). Lupron treatment from Dec 2010 to Aug 2011 (8 months).
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Old Guy
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Re: When your penis seems too short for PIV
You could try a wedge to lift her bottom up. There are penis extenders worn like a condom to gain inches. A strap on would satisfy her but like an extender you get nothing. Also consider a sex swing if you have a place to mount one. A good one will hold 400+ pounds if hung from a ceiling joist. Adjust the height so your penis is pointing straight into her vagina.
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5+ years, Coloplast Titan OTR
Married 37 years to my beautiful young bride
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Kodixx
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Re: When your penis seems too short for PIV
Woodicould, are you using a VED ? If so, is it providing additional length ?
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Woodicould wrote:Lately the wife and I have trouble with me getting into her. Any suggestions as to how I might be able to get a bit more length? Pump more? Use injections? Get a strap on?
Feb 2025 - 58 yo, 38 with greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", post-op @ 6 mo L: 6.75" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, only minor discomfort @ 10 wks, felt like 'new normal' @ 16 wks
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", post-op @ 6 mo L: 6.75" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, only minor discomfort @ 10 wks, felt like 'new normal' @ 16 wks
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Woodicould
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Re: When your penis seems too short for PIV
I am not using a penis pump regularly, but trying to start. I have a friend who says 4 to 5 days a week is good.
Thanks for the other suggestions.
Thanks for the other suggestions.
Prostate cancer age 65 with PSA 5.8. Biopsy Oct 2010. Gleason score of 7, 3+4 with perineural invasion. Stage II, T2cNXMX.
Jan-Feb 2011 radiation. Palladium-103 seed implant March 2011 (55 implants). Lupron treatment from Dec 2010 to Aug 2011 (8 months).
Jan-Feb 2011 radiation. Palladium-103 seed implant March 2011 (55 implants). Lupron treatment from Dec 2010 to Aug 2011 (8 months).
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Martin6469
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Re: When your penis seems too short for PIV
Woodicould: Here's one of several "sex furniture" items on Amazon.
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Age 80 in 2025. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 30 min.
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Al1962
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Re: When your penis seems too short for PIV
Pillows and a sex swing, securely mounted. Both of you go for a short walk, hold hands. This will build intimacy and rev you both up. Walk a little more, make it a habit. When you can't get it in, just rub your parts together like you love it and you will. Work on flexibility together. Do not blame each other, just get it on. "Work with what you have got".Have fun, that's what it is all about.
Born 1962. Married 21 yrs. Single since 2018. Diabetic ED has taken the fun. Now taking daily Cialis 10mg and hesitant to find/disappoint a new partner. Song, Beatles,"Let It Be".
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Re: When your penis seems too short for PIV
Swings do help ..takes a lot of the strain off of joints etc ..
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