Wife’s sexual development over a long term relationship

[Dan1234]

How has your wife’s sexual appetite changed over the years (better or worse)
How experienced was she when you first met?
How have her preferences changed?
What has she learned to like?
What has surprised sexually you over the term of your relationship?
Who usually initiates sex, and how?
How often do you have sex of some kind?
How has age changed your sexual relationship?

[Rider1400]

How has your wife’s sexual appetite changed over the years (better or worse)
How experienced was she when you first met?
How have her preferences changed?
What has she learned to like?
What has surprised sexually you over the term of your relationship?
Who usually initiates sex, and how?
How often do you have sex of some kind?
How has age changed your sexual relationship?

I was my wife’s first,40 years ago
Used to want it 3-4 times a week- now once a week
We now have sex once on weekends. Just because life is so busy. We usually set aside one nite for us.
She has learned to like many positions, prostate play with me.
Surprises me that sex just isn’t as important any more to her. Feel like she is in it for me. She’s really good at it though just too busy to stop and enjoy it like we used to.
I always initiate sex. Tell her tonight’s the night or plan a date which always leads to sex.
PIV sex once on weekends. Mid week she gets me off however she chooses, usually manually with some oral. Lots of prostate play. My favorite. Doesn’t complain about it though.
Age has slowed us down. I really think when we she retires in a couple years she might actually have a renewed desire.