Show and Tell Help

[dirtman1993]

It would be helpful if there was a list showing State/City with user name for show and tell. Would make if far easier.

[PFracture]

It would be awesome indeed, but the admin could care less about stuff like this and organizing the forum's information. It's sad.

[Frank Talk Admin]

I'm sorry you feel that way, but it is not at all true.
The Show and tell forum was a way for guys to let others know that they are interested. Now, it has gotten full of red herrings and off topic conversations. Also, an amazingly large number of guy say they are will to do show and tell, but then do not post where they are from.
The attorneys who advise non-profits caution us against compiling our own list of men because suddenly that information becomes our responsibility. If someone meets another guy, and things go badly and there are legal issues, the litigation then includes us if we are handing out men's information. Suddenly, we become a target for all kinds of unhappy men. We can't afford that kind of exposure.
So, our litigious society prevents us from being the clearing house for listing men who are interested in doing Show and Tell.
Also, this is a 100% volunteer organization. We pay no one. So, any work done for the organization is completely voluntary. If you would like to create your own list and publish it, that would be a wonderful service.
Thanks
Paul

[dg_moore]

You're right, Paul. If a poster wishes to provide his location in a post, that's fine. But a list of people and their locations that is maintained by the FT organization is not a good idea.

[PFracture]

I'm sorry you feel that way, but it is not at all true.
The Show and tell forum was a way for guys to let others know that they are interested. Now, it has gotten full of red herrings and off topic conversations. Also, an amazingly large number of guy say they are will to do show and tell, but then do not post where they are from.
The attorneys who advise non-profits caution us against compiling our own list of men because suddenly that information becomes our responsibility. If someone meets another guy, and things go badly and there are legal issues, the litigation then includes us if we are handing out men's information. Suddenly, we become a target for all kinds of unhappy men. We can't afford that kind of exposure.
So, our litigious society prevents us from being the clearing house for listing men who are interested in doing Show and Tell.
Also, this is a 100% volunteer organization. We pay no one. So, any work done for the organization is completely voluntary. If you would like to create your own list and publish it, that would be a wonderful service.
Thanks
Paul

Is that your attitude when it comes to organizing the information on the forum, per threads and topics? there is so much work to be done, and that should have been done throughout the years and nothing seems to be happening.

I am talking about extremely valuable information on controversial subjects, such as "traction AND/or VED with an implant", "quadmix", technical analysis of implant information and all strategies to regain size, or even gain back size again with an implant.. So much to list here!

I think it's disheartening that the same questions keep on being asked over and over again, just because of this!! I tried contacting you desperately several times and you didn't even replied back with an "i am not interested, go screw yourself", and then you show up here and post this.

[Frank Talk Admin]

Again, Sorry you feel that way. But the purpose of FrankTalk is to be a support system for men. It is exactly the place where each guy can come and ask the same question, perhaps in a slightly different way, or not. We do not curate the answers or information on the forums.
It is not designed to be the place where there are experts or professionals or even all the answers.
I can't find any messages from you that I did not answer.
If you have more concerns, please email me at paul@franktalk.org

[dg_moore]

Paul has done ED sufferers a great service by voluntarily creating and maintaining FT. If there's specific information you're seeking, the forum search feature works well. You're unlikely to find a free service that is tailored to your particular wishes.

[once a writer]

Paul,

Thanks for all you do and have done. Hard to imagine how many guys' lives you've made better with this site.

[Larry10625]

Paul,

Thanks for all you do and have done. Hard to imagine how many guys' lives you've made better with this site.

Agree 110%. There are a few members on here that if you read the majority of their post, they seem very angry all the time. The remind me of Jeff Dunham's Walter. This site was created and is maintained by VOLUNTEERS. I thank you from the bottom of my heart... and the angry shits can just go @#$% themselves.

Cheers

Larry