New to Site not to ED

[smitrowe]

I have had problems with ED since 1975 I know too much the pain I know how it is to have a mate that has caused it to become worse in me. Have done the pills, pumps, rings, shots, spent thousands on miracle drugs. I know the pain of being so afraid that I would again fail with the person I so much wanted to please. I know how it is to not be able to achieve an erection when it counted only to leave after being made fun of and rejected by the person I so much wanted to please only to get an erection as I drove off crying and defeated. With ED I have put up with more shit from the mates I have had because if I could not perform as a man I must not be a man and thus can not act or be a man. Sex has been my biggest fear for all these years. Almost ten years ago I met someone who does not give me the pressure or make fun of me as women have in the past. Now, it is me who puts the most pressure on my life but I even after 37 years will not give up.
After talking to my urologist I have decided to have implant surgery and have been doing some intensive research and have found this site very helpful. I must admit that the closer I get to my scheduled surgery date June 25 2012. The more questions I have and will ask. I so want to one day be with the one I love and enjoy sex.

[antelope]

Smit,

It sounds like you've had one hell of a journey. Best wishes for a fabulous outcome. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you. I'm confident hard times are ahead!

Greg
Baton Rouge

[Cajun Jeff]

Smit: I too want to wish you the best for your surgery..

Cajun Jeff

[6gun 44 mag]

You have come a long way in all these years. ED is a tough situation, and it can really be a bad deal when the woman you wanted to care for makes matters worse. Thankfully mine never did that, she assured me that I was always going to be her guy regardless. But I have to tell you, aftewr discovering Tri-Mix, and using it a few times, I think even my wife is pretty darned thankful for the "cure" of my ED. You know your own situation better than anyone, you have enthusiasm, guts, and determination. I predict you will be back in the saddle soon,---Best of all things to you my friend.

[bob1138]

Welcome to FT Smit.
I wish you a fabulous result with your scheduled Implant Procedure.
I was implanted in December 2007 after having suffered with ED for almost 4 years Post-Prostatectomy.
Thankfully, the Implant completely corrected my ED and restored both my sex life and the emotional intimacy with my wife of 45 years. I wish the same for you my brother.

Godspeed,

Bob

[jerrywayne]

Hey guy I just has an implant put in may 21first been three ks this Monday although I am still sore a little it's working great I have pumped up four times. I go around the house with it sticking up like I was a teenager,will probally be able to make love to my wife in bout 2 more weeks. like you I have ed for twenty I would get hard but it would go away as soon as I started to put it in or shortly after. then in nov 10 had robtic prostatemy was soft from that but had the implant put in and think it is going to be wonderful.good luck it will alright.