Have your partners enjoyed your Ved usage

[dg_moore]

Oh wow just 2 mins with a ved?!? To pump up. talk about awesome. I just want the women to know the Ved shouldn't be too inconvenient.

Good luck with that. Maybe 2 minutes of actual pumping, but that's after several minutes of fumbling around getting the VED ready to use.

[AnotherOldMan]

I just want the women to know the Ved shouldn't be too inconvenient.

We are in our mid 70's and have been exclusive to each other for over 50 years. What works extremely well for us
might not be ideal for your circumstances.

[ChosenOne619]

By fumbling do you mean connecting the parts together? What if you keep all the parts connected?

[dg_moore]

By fumbling do you mean connecting the parts together? What if you keep all the parts connected?

It might depend on your VED model. I had a top of the line Osbon, reputed to be among the best. Assembling the device for use, lubing it, and getting the ring on the cylinder took me at least 5 minutes, and that was after a lot of practice. Finally getting it pumped up and getting the ring on, with my wife saying "Get that thing away from me," didn't contribute much to the mood, either. As I mentioned above, we both hated the stupid thing and it is now, deservedly, in a landfill somewhere.

But hey, apparently some men like it.

[bldoink]

I don't have any idea why Doug likes to be such a downer.

The VED with rings is not perfect but it can be a satisfying solution. If you have your VED and lube in front of you, I can't imagine why it would take over one minute to open the case, lube the tube (and dick), load the ring and attach the pump to the tube. It's not rocket science. Yeah, I imagine it will take a little longer the first time you do it while trying to figure it all out. I'd recommend a couple of solo practice sessions, of course.

Keep the mood light. Joke about it. Smile and laugh, flirt. If you make it dull, boring unhappy and stressful, well then that's what you will get, an unhappy experience.

[ChosenOne619]

Ok thank you. I will keep everything attached so it doesn't consume so much time. So I guess we are looking at 7-10 mins to assemble and pump. Ok but if everything is already assembled then all I have to do is pump it up correct? Which takes 2-5 mins. How about a battery operated one maybe a little less time.

[ChosenOne619]

Btw what made your wife say "get that thing away from me"

[bldoink]

I don't think the total time difference between battery operated and manual would be significant. It doesn't take all that many manual pumps to do the job. It just your preference. I could use either without issue.

[ChosenOne619]

So if you leave the Ved already pieced together it should take you 1 minute to place the ring onto the tube maybe a little bit longer. If so that still not bad biodink so around 5 mins altogether?

[dg_moore]

Btw what made your wife say "get that thing away from me"

She hated the way it felt, like a polish hot dog straight out of the fridge, and I found it quite uncomfortable. We both decided that no sex at all was better than the VED. This was a couple of years before I got the implant, which unfortunately didn't work out either.