Anorgasmia (Failure to achieve orgasm)

[redandwhite]

Bigeyes I'm with you on this...just the feeling of having nice wood again, and my wife loving around on it, is great. She's physically not all that great of shape and has cardiomyopathy, so although I'm a runner still and do plenty of manual labor for work, we can't get it on like we used to. But there is still lots of fun to be had, playing with each other and getting each other off.

[Stew52]

Thanks for adding DE to the forum. This is not a deal breaking condition like ED, but very frustrating when you cannot get the same release as your partner. Moreso because she is really really getting off with a much longer duration now Now I go do the cooking afterwards while she recovers. Role reversal. She says some of the best ever now so it's not all bad at all, just different. I exorcise the little devil later to keep the prostate clean.

While some DE may he related to other causes (long list in one of the posts gleaned from the many diverse posts), I suspect that mine was at least aggravated by ED treatments - years of pills and a couple now on injections, specifically PGE. I am back to exploring with Cialis and a ring and a much lower TriMix dose. It will be great to explore causes and solutions with the community. My URI knows little about ED and far less about PE/DE. We're largely on our own. Thanks again.

[Stew52]

ANecdote: Chatted with an older cousin today, he's 84 now. He had never used pills or injections and he said he got anorgasmia yeas ago "just by aging". He had phlebitis and used a thinner and used Lipitor for many years. No diabetes, pre diabetic, but having kidney problems. So no PGE there but still bad DE.

[niarceel]

I didn't have enough time to read every post on this thread.

Sorry if anything I have to offer is a duplicate of something else provided by someone else.

I have 2 detailed posts on anorgasmia that may help you:
https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=13943
https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=11080&p=123906#p123906

[Stew52]

I had a small epiphany recently. I had a misfire injection. In a bit of a hurry and seemed like a dull needle. I guess it did not penetrate the cavernosa even though the 5/16" needle was buried to the hilt, as after injection, it just popped back. So I got the injection subcutaneously which causes grief and no erection. It caused a big red angry swell on the front right. After 3 1/2 years this was the 2nd such misfire.

The epiphany: I soaked the member in a cup of ice water several times a day fr 3 days to reduce swelling and tissue damage - - - it did not hurt. Icewater with ice. I gather the junior member's nerves are clearly atrophying?? Years ago surfing in 50's water it was in pain and withdrew. Not now.

Waxing philosophical. First viagra use to failure for many years, and now Trimix/PGE working good and extending a great sex life. Wife has never had it better. But we are getting older and doing things that some combination of nature and genetics did not intend for some. They say half jokingly that all men would die from prostate cancer if they lived long enough. Maybe likewise with Ed at bay, sooner or later we all get DE if we soldier on with our chemically fabricated boners. My wife's mother confided many years ago that their sex life faded in their late 50's due to his ED and he was a frustrated French horn-dog. He never even got a chance to get to the DE stage. We are. Of course it's in the genes and then exacerbated by all the other contributing factors mentioned above and by life's toxic chemicals and exposures no doubt. It's frustrating and it's getting harder to get off every month. I'd guess that most of us had a touch of youthful PE. Now it's the wife's turn. Karma.