Oh Well, How about weak Ejaculation?

[StanWest]

Hello the forum. It has been a long way down the rabbit hold, but I am now somewhat functional. I do not see a forum for difficulty achieving and weak ejaculations. See introduction for the road I've been on. If there is a proper forum for this, please let me know.
At 69 years, and a few decades of celibacy, now in loving relationship. I am reading, as we age the quantity of semen goes down. Very hard to get to the explosive point of orgasm & ejaculation. So, I am wondering, with an age related lowering of semen quantity, is it possible I am not building up enough quantity to get to the elusive point of no return?
I seem to have to let it go EARLY, not quit the bang I remember from years ago? Nonetheless Very happy to have recovered as much functionality as I have. Being persistent has helped, plus trimix, bimix, rings, pumping.
Appreciate any responses. Thanks.

[bldoink]

There is no dedicated or "correct" sub-forum for this topic. It seems to pop up most anywhere and is relatively common. The "General Discussion" sub-forum might currently be the best and most common location for the topic. However, you should check out all of the sub-forums for the topic including the "Members Only" sub-forum.

I'm not a medical professional of any kind. Anything I post is based on my own experiences at best and hallucinations and/or delusions at worst. Any advice found on an internet forum is very likely worth what it cost. Always ask your doctor and follow his/her advice.

I don't have any good answers for your problem. It does seem to be fairly common with older guys but I'm not sure where "older guys" starts.

I guessing your anorgasmia (can't or have difficulty climaxing) is largely unrelated to your semen volume, although it may contribute. I do have issues in this department but I can easily blame mine on having had a cancer related RP with associated nerve damage. There may also be other factors but I'll go for the easy answer. In your case I'm guessing it's age or health related loss of sensitivity. However other medications have been reported to play a part.

It should also be noted that both the pills and the injections have been mentioned as contributing factors. Make sure to use as little of either as it takes for them to do their job. However, some men with implants that no longer take pills or inject report this problem too.

Some have suggested some herbal remedies but I have no experience there. Some medications have also been suggested. I believe the site administrator has chimed in on this topic in the past. Perhaps he will again.

You are not alone.

[DaveKell]

My days of laying on the bed and being able to blast a load to the ceiling disappeared years ago. I really miss the seemingly endless flow of cum in my younger years. Through extensive research I've learned greatly reduced volume is age related. In my case, an implant brought back a lot of the propulsion of my earlier years, but I'm a far cry from where I once was! I sometimes think about a woman I lived with for 6 months many years ago. I skipped work one day to move out on her while she was at work. The reason being that in 6 months of living with her at her apartment I only had actual sex with her maybe 5 or 6 times. Her desire was to give me 3 or 4 blowjobs almost every day. She claimed swallowing semen was great for her complexion. I literally grew tired of being her dermatological donor. I've wondered a time or two if a few months of "therapy" with her could restore my previous volume? However, my wife of 40 years very likely would balk at the idea so it'll have to remain in the realm of vague fantasy. My current ejaculate amount is so low I have no hesitation to go down on my wife again even after cumming inside her. Nothing is likely to leak out.

[Flavio]

I am 43 y.o. and I have the same problem. In my case, it's probably a side effect of finasteride.

[DougAnd]

I noticed that as my prostate swelled bigger my supply of semen became smaller. Seems like it should be just the opposite. Well I finally bit the bullet in Dec and had a hybrid TURP done so only about 10% or less of my prostate glans remains. Now I only leak a little before climax, no ejaculation at all. But I was told that in 20 years my prostate will have grown again bigger than ever.
Before my surgery I did notice that by squeezing myself during ejaculation greatly increased both volume and the number of pleasurable spasms.

[highlander]

hi new here Just found this subject..I have same problem last few years I am 66 up till late 50 s I shot a good load and got hard just from wind blowing...Now not so much maybe once every week or 2 I wake up with hardon..When I shoot not much comes out..All so have have no control on when going to come. happens fast.I talked to doc about it..He told me it s all normal. Said he has same problems and gave me some Viagra (genatic) to try...It helps getting me very hard..But doesn t make me last long or have more cum ...And I only take 40mg at time because wake with pounding head ace if take more..For while thought maybe from biking to much been doing lot of spin classea and herd can affect you?? But guess just fun of getting old...