Masturbation during marriage

[ETGuy71]

Wow, 3-4 hours! And not ejaculate! I would think that would give you “blue balls” that old aching thing I used to get after heavy make out session with girl friends when young. That was uncomfortable!

[Geronimo]

Hi, i first started to masturbate at 12 yo, now 67 yo, will never give in just love it.

[navy6587]

Began around 13 and haven't stopped...well, except for the first two and a half weeks after being implanted on 11/8. All the same erotic sensations came back to my glans, shaft and scrotum (with the exception of about 1/4 inch on each side of the 4 inch incision (implant + penoscrotal webbing removal). Kept me sane during those long Med deployments after I got married! Looking forward a few weeks to cycling and then...the real reason I did this.

[niarceel]

Masturbation is not just a solo activity. My wife and I are both over 70 years of age and we both masturbate frequently but rarely alone.

I recently remarked to my wife that after all these decades, from youth to senior, how remarkable it is that masturbation is still very important to both of us.

My wife masturbates whenever she feels like it. I do, too. We masturbate ourselves and each other, sometimes alone, most often together. We like to watch, we like to participate, we like to touch and see and taste. My wife likes to make/see my penis drip precum. I like to make/see her clitoris and labia swell.

But the one thing we rarely do when we masturbate, is cum. We save that for intercourse because we like to cum with each other.

Masturbation is an integral part of our love life. I can't imagine us not doing it.

If you haven't involved your significant other in your masturbation activities, I recommend that you try it. We find it to be highly erotic.

[Lost Sheep]

Does any couple here enjoy prostate massage? From what I have read here and elsewhere it is healthy and quite enjoyable. My girlfriend is intrigued. She and I are intending to try her massaging my prostate all the way to orgasm (if possible). We have tried with her hand, but her fingers are a little too short to reach my prostate easily, so ordered a massage tool.

Have yet to find the right time and mood.

I have masturbated her to orgasm a few times, but use masturbation on her mostly for foreplay. She has yet to masturbate me to orgasm by hand. When I get close she enjoys fellatio and swallowing. I do not object.

[Agfa13]

Lol, you better not object, you are a guy!

[MARKOS2018]

Lost Sheep

You lucky to have the arrangement like that!

Great!!!

Agree with Agfa

[vajim1]

I LOVED it before they removed my prostate. They make lots of toys to do the job, it make take lots of practice to get to a happy bu=y massaging only but worth it!

[stephen54]

Does any couple here enjoy prostate massage? From what I have read here and elsewhere it is healthy and quite enjoyable. My girlfriend is intrigued. She and I are intending to try her massaging my prostate all the way to orgasm (if possible). We have tried with her hand, but her fingers are a little too short to reach my prostate easily, so ordered a massage tool.

Have yet to find the right time and mood.

I have masturbated her to orgasm a few times, but use masturbation on her mostly for foreplay. She has yet to masturbate me to orgasm by hand. When I get close she enjoys fellatio and swallowing. I do not object.

Short answer - yes indeed. Our experience has been that there are several extra gears just waiting to be found in the prostate. She's given me an orgasm I can't even fucking begin to describe. More like multiples all interconnected over a couple of minutes. Staggering power and a different rhythm and pace and way the orgasm travels. Bordered on frightening afterward (sort of hyperventilated and couldn't stand/walk for a bit). When my wife saw what was possible, she sort of became an obsessed technician with this. Wants to innovate and find different ways to tap into this crazy shit. Very highly recommend.

[Martin6469]

Holding your wife close with your left hand while she masturbates with a dildo held in by your right hand is a wonderful bonding experience. See my post 3-2-20 in "This site is brutal for us smaller guys."