Postby Lost Sheep » Mon Mar 16, 2020 2:53 pm
Spirit
Have you shown that latest picture and your very lucid description of being able to feel TWO PAIRS of tubes in your penis out to the far (distal) end?
If not, do it. Do it now.
If you have not done so already, Take names of everyone you talk to.
During, or immediately after, make notes of your conversations, information given and promises made, emails sent and received, etc.
Before hanging up, say "thank you" (and use their name) to everyone you talked with (even if they were no help - they might be in the future and will more likely remember you if they know you remember them). People respond to being remembered. Whether it is because they know they might be called to account for their actions or inactions or because people generally like to be remembered.
On saying "thank you": Even if a person was no help at all, or even obstructive, they gave you their time. And even obstructive people can change their response, especially if they feel appreciated. What you want to do is enlist the aid of everyone you meet; to get them on your side.
Keep your notes in an orderly fashion - in a notebook, in a computer document (properly backed up, of course) or wherever works for you. It may be presented in court and you want it to be persuasive. This is where a demonstratively contemporaneous record is helpful. This also allows you to find their supervisor and give them your thanks after a successful outcome.
This is not overkill. This is minimally prudent.
Edited to add: "What Oldbeek just said."
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Lost Sheep on Mon Mar 16, 2020 3:43 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter