wife of someone who wants this implant...need advise

[WheezeTheJuice]

I totally misinterpreted the title of this thread, heh.

[b_rad2]

This whole thread is fake. If not it’s just some poor guys jealous psychotic wife.

[Waynetho]

Checking the OP's stats, she first logged in on March 6th. The stats say she has posted four messages but the search could only find the one original post on this thread, making me think she probably wrote this or other messages and deleted several times before settling on the final results. The OP has not logged in since 5 pm on March 8th.

[LknRenee]

OK so I really need some advise - i have tried finding a forum with women who have gone through this surgery but to no avail. I really do understand my husbands frustration - we have tried the pills, and the injections and nothing works. He tells me all the time he wants to feel like a man again. so he is scheduled to have this penile implant surgery so I am going to stress my concerns and i know they may sound stupid so i need someone to talk to me... first of all i hate the fact that it will be an all female staff during the entire procedure...this is truly bothering me and the surgeon told me they really dont have a choice and not many males are available. this is such a personal and intimate thing for us but i am not comfortable with an all female staff. this has caused arguments and strife in our marriage and i need to know how other wives have handled this. i do support him but this is a big issue for me. need someone to talk some sense into me. I have also read that once a man gets this new found sexual freedom..they feel young and virulent again and stray outside the marriage..I so want to support my husband but have these issues...please someone talk to me

Hey there. I am the wife of "LknRon" on here and my husband just went through the penile implant surgery. Dr.Andrew Kramer did my husbands implant and the staff was all women but honestly thats the last thing I was even thinking of. Your husband and you have so many other things to be thinking about. These nurses are 100% professional and look at penis's all day, I assure you you have nothing to be worried about. That thought never crossed my mind but I do understand all women are different. I would love for you to read my journey labeled "A Women's Perspective" on here. I gave my emotions through our whole process of this surgery. I without a doubt could never say I was not an emotional mess in the beginning but only because of recovery and if he was going to be in pain, I never thought once about the female staff. This procedure will not only boost your husbands self esteem but will only better your intimacy together. I would never go back in time and change our decision on this. It is one amazing journey. Take this as a positive and enjoy every moment. As a woman to woman I can assure you everything will be okay. Just be there for your husband, for they have a lot on their minds including stress like us women do. Doing this as a team has been incredible!! I am so happy we did it. Don't let the stress of women add stress onto your marriage or shoulders! Good luck!

[Sensei]

This whole thread is fake. If not it’s just some poor guys jealous psychotic wife.

Yes, and the attention that it is getting is distracting from real issues. Someone is having a good laugh. I am done with this and many other threads.

[b_rad2]

This whole thread is fake. If not it’s just some poor guys jealous psychotic wife.

Yes, and the attention that it is getting is distracting from real issues. Someone is having a good laugh. I am done with this and many other threads.

Dr Kramer is also getting some good advertising/photo opts in as well. Sadly the moderator for this forum failed to read the rules and shows little disregard for the forums content or what topic some posts falls under. I’m giving up on all the crap post as well. Maybe they should start a new column for trash and disingenuous post.

[Lost Sheep]

This whole thread is fake. If not it’s just some poor guys jealous psychotic wife.

If your speculation is true, then she does need help (and so does he).

If your speculation is not correct, she could use some reassurance, not condemnation for breaking a rule. (Of course, I am perhaps too forgiving of people in pain, or might be, for I give the benefit of doubt.)

Clearly, a woman's presence produces discord. But, it appears, not with her, but with the men. She has made no post or comment against any member here. Is the mere presence of a vagina so disturbing that we men cannot behave with a degree of tolerance? Our patience stretched so thin that we are unable to be kind (at no cost to us)?