Odd discussion with wife

[Quester]

I’ve got a membership plan. But the way I understand it to have my arm pits back, ass, crack, taint, and the entire pubic area totally bare sack and shaft will take at least 8 sessions but because of the membership it’s like $80 a month. I’ll have as many sessions as needed to be basically hair free.
The person who did my waxing was a guy so far my laser treatments have been by a lady

[stephen54]

I had an odd discussion with my wife today. She prefers that I shave my pubic area but let the hair grow back on my chest (I've been shaving both for over a year).

I have been getting ingrown hairs in my pubes when shaving and since I grow hair right up to my circumcision scar, halfway up my dick, I would like to totally get rid of all hair on my dick completely. With that in mind I told her that I thought I should get LASER HAIR REMOVAL for my hair growing on my penis because of the potential for ingrown hairs. She was okay with that and said she didn't see any problem with an esthetician doing hair removal in that area of my body. She knows someone whose daughter is an esthetician and does male hair removal (in a different state).

I said this would mean another woman would be handling my penis - she said it was fine because the esthetician is a licensed professional and that's her job. I mentioned that there was an off chance of accidental ejaculation during the procedure (very very VERY slight with me due to DE). I asked if that happened would it bother her, and she said, "No." She said it has happened to the girl she mentioned previously and it's just a natural reflex action due to the handling of the penis.

That is hard to believe, coming from my wife, that she wouldn't mind: A.Someone else handling me for the hair removal, and B.The possibility that I might ejaculate during the procedure.

It's a one in a million chance for me to accidentally ejaculate though because it takes *A LOT* of stimulation to trigger an orgasm right now due to paresthesia due to my implant last October. Just had to mention this and get any other guys' opinions on the above discussion.

I love the random threads I find here when I'm an insomniac at odd hours...

Just a thought here, but if you're really committed to this, consider purchasing your own personal use home laser. Yep, they exist.

We have a "Tria 4x" and we recommend it. Purchased through Sephora. It absolutely works. My wife and I both always preferred her to be entirely clean shaven baby soft. She was shaving daily with really expensive cream and razors for years and years and she got an amazing result, she found a way to shave herself bald and almost never had any ingrown hairs or stubble or irritation. But it took time and attention and she started looking at professional clinic laser treatments which, to someone's point here, are not inexpensive. Starting at $1,400 here and no guarantees of what sort of results it would leave you with after your pack of sessions was completed.

So obviously girls talk. About all kinds of shit, including their vaginal tending techniques. A friend of hers had a Tria and told her about it and we ended up buying the next generation 4x. We spent $550 on it. It works. It's got a small laser head compared to the large wand the clinics use, and so it does take significant time to cover the pubic area, but on the upside...we own it. We can use it as often as we choose to, so it's really quite inexpensive when you amortize the cost over treatments and time.

It honestly took about a year of consistent treatments for her. By consistent, I mean I was doing the laser to her entire pubic area 3x a week, every week. It did not cause any rash, pain, none of that. There is a slightly uncomfortable little pinch/tweak feeling you get when the laser activates. You can adjust the intensity, though. You can remove hair quicker if you up the power/intensity, just depends on what you can handle.

Again, it took time and effort (there's a progression where the hair gets finer and finer and thinner and more sparse and then it just over time stops growing in). You're heating and destroying the follicle's ability to produce a new hair. The follicles you ablate are done permanently, they won't re-grow. But you have to catch the follicle at a specific phase of its hair growth, hence the multiple treatments consistently over a longer period of time to wipe out an entire area. Takes some patience.

Net result is she got exactly what she wanted - utterly hairless baby soft bald vagina.

I got what I wanted, too

Oh - she treated my sac with it some. She like some hair above, on me - but she preferred my sac cleaner. She did probably 4-6 months worth of fairly inconsistent treatments on my sac and a lot of my hair there is entirely gone, and what's left is super fine to the point you almost can't see it.

For what it's worth!

[LookingUp]

6 years ago, I did 9 Electrolysis treatments over 2 months. Dick, Balls, Taint. Only a few straggler hairs here and there, cleaned up once a month with a epilator. I was 60, the Tech was 68. I was treated as a Person with just another dick. Income. Nothing weird or stimulating at all. Highly recommend. Shaving sux.

LUp

[Waynetho]

6 years ago, I did 9 Electrolysis treatments over 2 months. Dick, Balls, Taint. Only a few straggler hairs here and there, cleaned up once a month with a epilator. I was 60, the Tech was 68. I was treated as a Person with just another dick. Income. Nothing weird or stimulating at all. Highly recommend. Shaving sux.

LUp

Thanks LookingUp! I shave several times a week on my fat pad and proximal shaft and then due to a bit of OCD, between shaving I pluck the growth using tweezers while sitting (nude) at my computer desk at times. What sucks more than shaving (and sometimes the itch of razor burn on the pubes and dick) is plucking and getting skin with the hair - leaving a bleeding spot that now has to heal for a day or two! Another thing that sucks is the hairs that after being cut off into a nice pointy chisel-tip, lose their way out of the skin and decide to traverse right under the surface! Fortunately most of my pubic hairs don't curl too terribly so they are still visible under the surface and easily brought through the top layer of skin for plucking. When they curl back into the skin and fester - THAT SUCKS BIG!

[LookingUp]

electrolysis is not cheap. It is a perinate fix.

[Agfa13]

Only shave my balls, but have not done that in the past year because of implant.
Did it several times on pubes...too fucking itchy when growing back. The upkeep on the pubes area is too much. My balls, on the other hand, if I miss a day or two (or three), no problem.

[October26]

Only shave my balls, but have not done that in the past year because of implant.
Did it several times on pubes...too fucking itchy when growing back. The upkeep on the pubes area is too much. My balls, on the other hand, if I miss a day or two (or three), no problem.

So here is my two cents worth: based on what I see at the gym and at the lake, most men I know shave or otherwise remove all or some body hair. Some do not, but most guys I see nude shave their groin area, butt and back, at the least. I used to wax from my knees up, then did laser to that same area. The two ladies that did it said they do it to men all the time and yes, they do handle your penis. With laser I did occasional get semi hard, which actually helps. It is totally no big deal. Now I just shave occasionally to get rid of fuzz. I think it is a good look and great for an older guy. (No gray or white body hair.) I would encourage you to think about doing it. There are long handled razors on Amazon that you should use on your back. I shouldn’t say it but think shaving the back, butt and scrotum are kind of a must in this day and age. If you are a lap swimmer you should shave all of your pubic hair to have the right look in your brief. It is easy to maintain and you can use Tend Skin so no ingrown hairs. I know chest hair is a big deal to some and that is okay but the custom has changed in the past ten years.

[October26]

6 years ago, I did 9 Electrolysis treatments over 2 months. Dick, Balls, Taint. Only a few straggler hairs here and there, cleaned up once a month with a epilator. I was 60, the Tech was 68. I was treated as a Person with just another dick. Income. Nothing weird or stimulating at all. Highly recommend. Shaving sux.

LUp

Thanks LookingUp! I shave several times a week on my fat pad and proximal shaft and then due to a bit of OCD, between shaving I pluck the growth using tweezers while sitting (nude) at my computer desk at times. What sucks more than shaving (and sometimes the itch of razor burn on the pubes and dick) is plucking and getting skin with the hair - leaving a bleeding spot that now has to heal for a day or two! Another thing that sucks is the hairs that after being cut off into a nice pointy chisel-tip, lose their way out of the skin and decide to traverse right under the surface! Fortunately most of my pubic hairs don't curl too terribly so they are still visible under the surface and easily brought through the top layer of skin for plucking. When they curl back into the skin and fester - THAT SUCKS BIG!

Use Tend Skin on the area after you shave it and you will not get ingrown hairs.

[October26]

To be clear, I'm not talking about clear-cutting the forest but setting up a nice area from the base to the circumcision scar without hair. The hair literally grows right up to the scar (i.e., up to the skin that would have been inside the foreskin if I had one). I was circumcised as an infant (2-3 days old). The skin from my glans to the scar is clear of hair but past the scar there is hair, which gets thicker as it gets closer to the base. I can shave my pubes with no problem and don't mind the occasional ingrown hair but when I get ingrown hairs and white blisters on the top of my dick though, that $#!t's gotta go.

OK, just down the shaft, huh? I have lots of hair down my shaft, some hairs grow long too.
I've had those ingrown hairs on my body, thankfully none on my shaft like you.
My thought is even after the laser removal will some of those now unseen ingrown hairs pop up afterwards?

After laser you get some very fine fuzz like hair that you can shave once a week. Then use Tend Skin on it and no ingrown hairs. I do it in the private shower at the gym using just body soap. Totally easy and definitely a good look.

[Agfa13]

Damn, you guys, IMHO, go way overboard with the hairs in the groin area, lol.
I just shave my balls and taint. NEVER shave the pubes because when they grow back, it itches like crazy!
Have to admit though, since the implant, no shaving whatsoever! I may take scissors to pubes soon because its getting a little to unkempt for me. But when I see vids or pics with unshaven cocks/pussies, its a turn-off.