Single Men & The Female Opinion

[abhishek26]

Thanks, all.

Just a tad concerned around the younger generations to be honest.

I know that times have changed and there’s a lot of bad people out there these days.

bro, have you exhausted all options (including injections) yet? The choice to opt for an implant will always be there, but you want to be sure.

[defiant]

Thanks, all.

Just a tad concerned around the younger generations to be honest.

I know that times have changed and there’s a lot of bad people out there these days.

bro, have you exhausted all options (including injections) yet? The choice to opt for an implant will always be there, but you want to be sure.

I don’t want to inject. Especially at this young(ish) age.

It’s a one way pathway in my opinion and could make an otherwise healthy penis, have problems, like peyronies.

Also, how do you seriously expect a young single man to lead a normal dating life on injections?

I understand some men might be okay with that. But I’m not.

[Lost Sheep]

Thanks, all.

Just a tad concerned around the younger generations to be honest.

I know that times have changed and there’s a lot of bad people out there these days.

What do you mean by "bad"? That confuses me.

Here you have several posts advising that being implanted is not as much of a problem as you seem to imagine. (Caveat: You have to handle the introduction of the fact diplomatically well.)

I'm going to give my take on the age part of this. I have read that a woman's peek sexual drive is at age 35 and a mans is at 18. Considered a creator's joke by some.

Maybe our Creator's joke. Or maybe a good design. Young men NEED to be educated on how to treat a woman (sexually) properly. Who better than an experienced woman?

It may just be society's disdain for the Creator's well-laid-out plans that makes this disjoint so problematic.

[Skier123]

Thanks, all.

Just a tad concerned around the younger generations to be honest.

I know that times have changed and there’s a lot of bad people out there these days.

bro, have you exhausted all options (including injections) yet? The choice to opt for an implant will always be there, but you want to be sure.

I don’t want to inject. Especially at this young(ish) age.

It’s a one way pathway in my opinion and could make an otherwise healthy penis, have problems, like peyronies.

Also, how do you seriously expect a young single man to lead a normal dating life on injections?

I understand some men might be okay with that. But I’m not.

Defiant - I just read your signature more carefully. If you can overcome lymphoma, you are a badass and you can certainly overcome ED. You said that your ED causes you immense psychological stress - it does for us all. And the resulting lack of confidence will sabotage all your attempts with women.

The implant literally fixes all of that, especially the psychological part. The key is you have got to own it. Bionic guys are not only different than other guys - they are better. Literally. You can't walk around acting shy and weird because you have a bionic dick. You need to walk around with a little grin on your face that makes the ladies wonder what this guy has got goin on. It works, trust me.

An implant is a very serious, irreversible procedure that entails risk. So take your time, do your homework, and exhaust all other options. If you do that, the small percentage of women who might not be in to a bionic guy will be the least of your worries - you will be much too busy spending time with the ones that are.

FWIW

[Skier123]

One more thought, then I am going back to work.

I agree with all of the other posters on this thread - all of the other stuff that makes you you matters - a lot. You still need to have all of your other shit together to attract women. Going bionic will not create success with the ladies all on its own.

What it can do is eliminate the "deal killer" of not being able to perform in bed with the ones who are otherwise attracted to you. If you have all of your other shit together, then the confidence boost from being bionic is something that can absolutely help increase your attractiveness factor with the ladies.

Please keep us posted on how you are getting on ...

[slipnslider]

I don’t want to inject. Especially at this young(ish) age.

It’s a one way pathway in my opinion and could make an otherwise healthy penis, have problems, like peyronies.

Also, how do you seriously expect a young single man to lead a normal dating life on injections?

I understand some men might be okay with that. But I’m not.[/quote]

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Implant is a bigger deal than injections. Plus it's even MORE of a one way pathway than injections are.

I lead a normal life dating with injections. When hooking up turns into a relationship and I build trust with the girl, I might tell her about the injections. Yes it sucks to have to sneak off in the beginning and inject, but it works really well.

As for girls having a problem with an implant, I think it all depends on the girl. If you find a hot freak who likes new sexual experiences and has an open minded attitude about sex (the kind of girl you want to marry) then it won't be a problem. If you're dating the kind of repressed prude who thinks that even wearing high heels makes her feel too slutty, she might be freaked out by an implant. But you don't want to be with a girl like that anyway. Go for sexually open minded women and it shouldn't be a problem.

Would you be horrified to learn a girl had fake boobs? I wouldn't. In fact, I'd be thrilled. They'll look better and age better than real ones. The right girl will have the same attitude about a bionic dick.

[Sofa King]

If she doesn't like the implant, let her know that lots of other women do.....women without saddle bags.

Then tell her to go make you a sandwich.

[defiant]

Thanks all.

This is so multi factorial.

I worry about feeling ‘connected’ to my penis. As in, mentally, will I still feel horny and involved and able to cum.

Another concern is the downtime between implant failure and replacement. How that’ll affect my psyche as well as play upon the mind and needs of any future partner or wife.

I know that none of these concerns preclude the need for an implant though if it’s needed. If you need it you need it and life with an implant far exceeds that of a life with poor erections or no erections at all!

[Tortão]

I don’t want to inject. Especially at this young(ish) age.

Really? Age is the problem for injections, but not for an implant??

It’s a one way pathway in my opinion and could make an otherwise healthy penis, have problems, like peyronies.

Really?? (again)
Seems you don't know much about implants. Once you have one, there's no way of removing it and keeping healthy erections. The implant basically destroys your corpus cavernosum.

Also, how do you seriously expect a young single man to lead a normal dating life on injections?

I understand some men might be okay with that. But I’m not.

In my opinion, it's much easier to date on injections than with an implant. It's way easier to hide. Once you inject in the bathroom, everything flows normally. With an implant, you need to hide the pumps you need to do. It's much trickier.

Of course once you have a trustworthy woman and nothing to hide from her, then things invert. In this case, it's best to have an implant than injecting.

But if you want to have a lot of casual sex and hide your secrets from women, definitely injection is easier. Check LuisFernandez thread. He's injecting and banging a lot of chicks.

[defiant]

I don’t want to inject. Especially at this young(ish) age.

Really? Age is the problem for injections, but not for an implant??

It’s a one way pathway in my opinion and could make an otherwise healthy penis, have problems, like peyronies.

Really?? (again)
Seems you don't know much about implants. Once you have one, there's no way of removing it and keeping healthy erections. The implant basically destroys your corpus cavernosum.

Also, how do you seriously expect a young single man to lead a normal dating life on injections?

I understand some men might be okay with that. But I’m not.

In my opinion, it's much easier to date on injections than with an implant. It's way easier to hide. Once you inject in the bathroom, everything flows normally. With an implant, you need to hide the pumps you need to do. It's much trickier.

Of course once you have a trustworthy woman and nothing to hide from her, then things invert. In this case, it's best to have an implant than injecting.

But if you want to have a lot of casual sex and hide your secrets from women, definitely injection is easier. Check LuisFernandez thread. He's injecting and banging a lot of chicks.

I think I have to disagree with you on a couple of counts.

I mean, I definitely know a fair bit about implants. Of course I know that they’re the end stage treatment, need replacement at some point down the line and are irreversible.

What I meant was the injections often end up damaging your penis anyway, long term and they only really lead to the implant anyway. Eventually they’ll lose efficacy.

Plus, dating while injecting easier than an implant? Disagree. Implant takes a few seconds to pump up and you’re good to go, no faffing around, sticking a needle inside you with a drug that has to be kept in the fridge etc etc etc. Way more spontaneity with an implant.

Either route is fine and it’s all subjective end of the day but personally if pills really and truly fail me, I’m going straight to implant. Most users who’ve tried both prefer the implant and I can see why.