Just want it too end

What are your fears? Ideas? Hints? to coping with ED. What helps you with your mental game? How are relationships affected?
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dg_moore
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby dg_moore » Thu Feb 03, 2022 3:23 pm

Gavalar09 wrote:
dg_moore wrote:Like it says in my signature, life is not the way it's supposed to be: It's the way it is. See a urologist with experience in men's sexual health and see where that takes you.


Confused by your quote at the bottom. You had an implant for 12 years that you use?

Look closer - NEVER used.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.
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Gavalar09
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby Gavalar09 » Fri Feb 04, 2022 3:17 am

dg_moore wrote:
Gavalar09 wrote:
dg_moore wrote:Like it says in my signature, life is not the way it's supposed to be: It's the way it is. See a urologist with experience in men's sexual health and see where that takes you.


Confused by your quote at the bottom. You had an implant for 12 years that you use?

Look closer - NEVER used.


Sorry to hear my friend. Life can be so cruel.
28 years old. VL symptoms. No morning wood for years.
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defiant
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby defiant » Tue Feb 08, 2022 11:01 am

Gavalar09 wrote:
68CatFan wrote:There are several young men on here who've had implants installed recently and are loving life again. So, why are you not following their lead?


Not managed to see a uro yet


I know the feeling all too well, hopelessness that is.

See a urologist or andrologist. Have some specific tests. And if indeed the plumbing is broken, then look into implants. It's so crazy to think about at first but the more you read about them and how happy most men are with them, you begin to realise there is a lot of hope and it can give you a fantastic sex life.
37, mild to moderate ED since age 21, 3 Dopplers - 1 result VL & 3 later results 'no physical problem', dependent on cialis (efficacy now waning), overcame Lymophoma at age 26, ED causing immense/profound psychological distress. Considering implant.
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Old Guy
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby Old Guy » Tue Feb 08, 2022 2:05 pm

Doing nothing will fix nothing man. I am much older, but sex was my life from age 17 until ED started. I was depressed. Took me a whole bunch of courage to ask my female doc for Viagra. That worked great. But I had to take the first step.
Go for it, you can.
Nov. 8, 2019
4+ years, Coloplast Titan OTR
Married 36 years to my beautiful young bride
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acemcat
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby acemcat » Sat Feb 12, 2022 6:25 pm

anyone tried Xialla for venous leak?
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