My Trimix Journey

[Martin6469]

Sog: You and wife might take a lighter attitude about injecting! It's tricky and no guy gets it right the first five or so times! JimStars is right: if the plunger is hard to push, or there's pain when you push, you're not in the corpora; pull out and try another spot. If you go through the "Injections" topic, which has plenty of good advice going back years, you will find answers for any misfire. We keep dildoes in our nightstand for when I have failures, so she's never disappointed. (I don't think a wife, even a nurse, could help inject most guys. I need to feel the needle's route. For example, before I reach the corpora, I pick another spot if there's sharp pain, meaning I hit a nerve. But I have heard that it's erotic for a few couples.)

Ape: It's good that you keep a diary. My corpora are at different depths, depending on side and position along my length, so I stock 5/16 and 1/2 in. syringes, and keep a spreadsheet with all the injection parameters written down each time. That's the best way to get to reliable injecting. Still, I only have a 90% or so success rate after 3 years and 150 injections.

[azmike]

I tried the auto injector for my first dose and it did not work. Then I tried 15 and not much effect, a semi only. My wife, who is not a nurse, said let me do it and injected 20 in the perfect spot and Wow! Best hard on I have had in years. She was very impressed and said she is happy to inject anytime! Love my wife!

[sogwap]

Tonight I injected solo. This was my third full injection.

Earlier today my wife told me she didnt known what to think about Friday's failure. But that she was very disappointed.
I told her that after consulting here on FT about what happened, that more than likely I missed the erectile chamber, And that next time I should just inject again. She is HLF and gets very upset when the little guy doesnt work. That's whole other story... I too have my own sex issues. That too is another story.

Back to tonight, Since the session was only me, I injected 12 units, and all was good for 30+ minutes. I then put on my cock ring and went for a total of an hour.
If this is any indication of of the new me (I mean my cock). Dreams do come true.

[bldoink]

Tonight I injected solo. This was my third full injection.........Back to tonight, Since the session was only me, I injected 12 units, and all was good for 30+ minutes. I then put on my cock ring and went for a total of an hour.
If this is any indication of of the new me (I mean my cock). Dreams do come true.

Congratulations on a successful trial run. I suspect you'll have it well figured out and be an expert in no time.

[sogwap]

After last week's successful solo run, I have debated about when to talk with my wife about injections.
I dont feel good about doing the injections without letting her know. Not that I need her permission, but because I dont want to hide anything. My ED has become this big elephant in the room, And I want us to both be able to freely talk about our sex life without fear of rejection or failure.

Last night we talked. She told me again that because of my ED she gets disappointed and angry. Because my wife is HLF she wants it to work, but she's experienced too many failures to believe things will change for better.
I told her about last weeks solo run (erection for an hour), However because my second attempt (with Trimix) two weeks ago produced big nothing, said she doesnt know what to make of things. I reassured her again, occasionally we miss the spot with the injection and for the most part, its ok to inject again.

This morning she went out and she purposely told me that she would be home several hours later. I waited for a bit, I then injected 15 units and was able to hold an erection for an hour and half.
I didn't tell her about the details but I did texted her that the shot worked well. She responded great.

At this point I plan to trial the injections once or twice a week, while I figure out the dosage, and things. And when she wants to try it again I'm all for it.

[Martin6469]

Sog: You can probably do trial injections more than once or twice a week. When I started, I was told to do one every other day, slowly titrating up to what would give me a good two hours. I was told to alternate sides, but that screwed me up, because my left and right sides need different amounts! It took me quite a while to figure that out. So I recommend new injectors stick with one side until good results are achieved. (I didn't develop any left-right curvature doing this.)

You might tell the mrs. that, not having one, she doesn't know how complex in structure a penis is, and it's hard to hit the right spot, which is actually a small target. She thinks that you just inject into it any old place. Tell her that your FT friend Martin has been injecting for three years, over 150 times, and he still misses one in ten times.

[sogwap]

Tell her that your FT friend Martin has been injecting for three years, over 150 times, and he still misses one in ten times.

Martin: when you miss do you inject a second time?

If you are good for two hours do you ejaculate before you want to? If so how does that affect your erection?

My (very) first full dose usage was sex with my wife, we were both eager to try it. I ejaculated before she was ready. However I was able to continue the sex, which was different. Although it seemed I lost 15-20% hardness, but that might have been my psyche since in the past, after about 30 seconds of ejaculation, I would get soft.

[Martin6469]

Congratulations! Sounds like you had a success!

When I miss I do not do another injection, I follow my urologist's instructions to wait two days. (I'm afraid of priapism.) I grab a dildo and hold it in her, she rubs her clit to an orgasm - this works well for both of us.

The last few years, due to getting old, I don't actually ejaculate any more, but after orgasm I stay just as hard. Orgasm or ejaculation has never affected my erection duration when using Trimix; I stay stiff for about two hours. I usually orgasm at about 10-15 minutes, which is about my lifetime average, and that's about what my wife wants, but my glans sensitivity has been lessening due to aging, and I'm recently going for longer and longer, up to 30 minutes. (But this is not your problem, you're too young for sensitivity fall-off - once you get the hang of injecting, you're going to have years of good sex.)

So there's an advantage to injecting if your partner wants long-duration thrusting: you can orgasm and continue for as long as you have the energy!

[sogwap]

Last night I did my 5th injection this time with my wife.

My 1st injection was 3 weeks ago, worked ok. Frankly I was thrilled that it worked, my wife said it was ok but not thrilled.
The 2nd injection I got nothing but an upset wife. Didnt even give a chubby.
The 3rd and 4th injection I did solo, and was able to hold a controlled full erection for over an hour. I realize I have to relearn sex.

Last night was my 5th injection. I thought its was going ok. Took 15 minutes to take effect, and had 80-90% hardness. We started intercourse, then I slowed down thrusting, because I was concerned about cumming. Then I noticed she wasnt into it. We stopped and she became quite upset. She just want a good fucking.

This is only the 2nd time we had sex using the injections. The first time, several weeks ago when I used Trimix I came but was able to continue with 70% erection, until she came.
Last night I tried explaining using the injection is all new to me. Its like relearning how to have sex. But I understand her disappointment she just wants it to work, and last night reminded her of the years previously where I often had ED and/or PE (cumming to quick) resulting in disappointing sex. As she said last night injections dont seem any different when I was using the pill (viagra).

From my limited perspective I am experiencing a whole new thing. Fully erect in 15 minutes with very little stimulation. An erection that stays and is firmer for longer than 10 minutes.

At this point it's back to solo practice, hopefully to gain understanding and confidence.

[ape1100]

if you inject correctly and it works, you shouldnt have to worry about coming too soon. hell, go ahead and come and you should still be hard to keep going. for me its very hard to orgasm if i do at all but when i do, its still hard and i keep going so as to please my wife again and again. even if that doesnt work, she needs to understand that it is like learning to have sex again. it is not an overnight success for some people, it still takes work. that is a lot of pressure to put on you for something that you cannot control. i guess she cant understand if the situation was reversed how she would feel? you might try some couples therapy. that is what i would do in your situation. just my two cents.