What makes for a long, happy marriage/relationship?

[notaes]

I cannot imagine how I would feel if my wife of almost 36 yrs said that’s all folks! She has fucked me like a teenager for many many years. She knows how to fuck my cock. I know her pussy inside and out. She gives me head and loves licking and sucking my cock. I love watching her red lipstick lips servicing my thick cock. I think I would seriously want to die if I could not feel her pussy around my cock. I am one of those guys that’s has and needs to be fucked on a regular basis! I can’t stand missing one scheduled date I was suppose to be fucked. I am spoiled and I know it! I am also thankful! I buy my wife roses every week because she loves fresh flowers. I try doing anything and everything I can to make her Love me and want to fuck me. I send her romantic text everyday by phone. I try to remind her of years gone by and why she married me. We truly love each other and are committed to each other! We have a pretty good life and money Isn’t really an issue for us. We are not rich by any means but try to really manage our money very well. I have a nice size cock and try my best to out do myself every time we hit the sack. I know how she like my cock. She loves it slow and deep anD believe Me that’s exactly what she gets. She cums harder and Longer than any woman I have ever been with and get off unlike any woman I have ever been with. I like to think all of this is attributed to A nice size cock and someone that knows how to use what he has between his legs. She has told me many times that I am by far the best lover that she has ever had. She has also told me that no one has ever made her cum like I do or makes love to her like I do. I am confident in my lovemaking skills and know how to use my cock. She is also a great lover who can fuck and we are very well matched in the bedroom. I think a happy couple who is happy in the bedroom is usually happy outside the bedroom. We are a very well matched couple who really loves each other!

[NeedleD]

Do you go down on her?

[Martin6469]

So much excellent advice here, I read the entire thread over every few months. I can add only one point: when she says something, DROP what you're doing and LISTEN!

[1969CevyC10]

Been married 46 years, sex is better now than ever........two things, we still have a "date"
night and it's a continuous, ongoing courtship, never taking anything for granted. The other
thing and probably more important..........COMMUNICATION, now more than ever. People change
no matter how long you know them, their likes and dislikes change also.....TALK TALK TALK
We talk now more openly about sex than we ever have, it's amazing what you may find out...
And one last thing..........you are never to busy to tell your wife that you love her, forever.

[silverdude]

Thanks chevy....since I opened up about my ED, our relationship has grown wonderful, and was wonderful before. WE also have date nights during the week, and spontaneous date nights, and talk openly about all aspects of sex and our desires. New desires and of course old frolics. We text or sext daily. Some of my mentors on this site also talk about "date" nights.

This is a phenomenon.....when my wife is sound asleep, i gently, without waking her, stroke her vaginal area, etc., weirdly that puts her into a sexual dream state, and she wakes up wet, to finish her dream, and hang on harvey were going for a ride!!

[BabyBarney]

Sounds like all you guys are doing great. Although I am 84, we go at it too, probably not as good the others but we're OK.

[dg_moore]

Bernie, you know as well as I do that probably 90% of a good marriage is just putting up with one another.

[Al1962]

Apparently I don't know.
My wife just did not want to be married any longer.
Neither of us cheated and it has been 5yrs and neither of us have had a sexual relationship.
I would have remained married though I am okay that I am not.

[dg_moore]

Our sex life ended over 20 years ago, but our relationship remains strong. Sex no longer matters.

[Donnyy]

My wife and I have been together for 8 years (not so much), but to be together even for so many years, you need to make a lot of effort.
I would say that it is very important to be frank with each other - so we can change for the better. If she continued to hide the fact that my penis is not enough for her, I would not start improving it. Of course, this will not happen immediately, and I could not leave her unsatisfied - so I agreed to her offer to use it to satisfy her. Sex toys were something new, but they impoved our sex life.
It is also important for a long-term relationship to respect each other - not to laugh at problems, not to insult each other.
I still treat her with tenderness, as she treats me - guys, don't forget to be romantic. It’s not difficult for you, but your wife will remember for a long time.
And of course, support each other and not let mistakes be made.