Did you go promiscuous after implant?

[Lost Sheep]

Essentially, what I am asking is this" After being implanted, did you go through a period of promiscuity, different from what you were before implant? How long did it last and did you return to the type of relationship(s) you had before implant.

Put another way, I wonder how many newly "rebuilt" men, whether in a marriage, committed relationship, casual-open relationship or in no relationship sought large quantities of hookups; and their reasoning.


When I thought of the poll, I had limited options, but now see that there are a lot more than a one-question poll can handle. I envision that the first two options and the last two options might get the most votes.

Feel free to share stories, your thought processess, etc in your reponses. I seek, in addition to statistics, the reasonings and stories of the after-effects.

I recognize that there may be a difference between heterosexual men and homosexual or bisexual, so if you want to mention that status, feel free.

Here is revelation of my thought process in putting up this poll.

Before my implant, I wondered (and planned) to try out my rebuilt "hot rod" on as many different "racetrackS" and park in as many different "carports" as I could. My personals ad referred to the debt of orgasms to womanhood I had accrued over my years of ED and requested the participation of women who would be willing to collect on that debt (in the stead of those wonderful women from my past now absent from my life). My ulterior motive was to experience the joys and varieties (with disparate women) of sex I had missed, not to mention the ego boost of sexual validation.

I forgot that I am, by dint of my personality, essentially a one-woman man and remain so post-op. So, I am in the "No" column for the initial question and "Yes" for the third, but with a lot more coital activity.

[Lost Sheep]

My vote was Monogamous before and after.

Monogamous before because satisfying one womann while I had ED was all I could manage. Also, I found a woman confident in my fealty was more accepting of my infirmity and more willing to make accommodations for it in order to have good sex by other means.

After implant, I continue to be monogamous because my lover is willing, even eager to accommodate any fantasy I could possibly fulfill with a variety of women. She is willing to do anything any other woman would do - so why would I need another?

As I have said before, women are incredibly supportive if they feel trusted, respected and SAFE. A woman who knows your are faithful will open up to you more than one who does not have that assurance. A woman unsure will NEVER be able to relax and fully open herself up to you without that surety. My lover has that assurance and has blessed me with that openness. And not only in sex.

[gjmjoe017]

I have not used mine outside the marriage but won’t lie,I would love to see the reaction from another woman!!

[Musson]

Although I can’t participate in this poll since I’m not implanted yet I do worry about this. I have never been monogamous. I have some level of sex addiction and have used sex as a way of coping with stress. I’ve been very self aware of my tendency so therefore strictly limit my use of prostitutes. I also kept a cooperative mistress on the side too until Peyroines hit. I worry about what an implant will do to my self control.

[Floridaspeedo]

In an open relationship (by my choice) but mostly played w others together with partner.

It was fun but always a struggle for me in terms of performance. Probably more emotionally down-beating about not getting hard.

Had the implant and my live changed. I went through a couple of months of "testing the IPP out a LOT." Nude pool parties, groups, mostly nude cruise, etc.

Am now at 6 months and am not as "sex crazed" as right after the implant. I am confident the IPP works, I can have sex when I want so it is a part of my life but no longer a key focus on my mind.

[Old Guy]

My answer is No, but that doesn't mean it didn't get used a lot after implant. I bought two new masturbation toys since and used them on a regular basis besides sex with the wife. After I healed up around month 3 I probably masturbated near as much as when I was a teen. By a year out the newness of my new toy faded and it became once a week sex, once a week masturbate.

[Zoso22]

The wife and I are (and I hate this word) “swingers” before and during my Peyronies and ED which put a damper on our fun as it was to hard to meet with other couples and then not be able or to maintain an erection. Fast forward to after the implant our sex life has started up again and we have played with several other couples and yes having this on demand for as long as you want penis makes you want to use it. So I guess if we were not swingers I would be monogamous and would not cheat on her but since we both have fun with what we are doing then I guess that is not being unfaithful.

[aslanglobal]

I was very promiscuous for most of my 20s and early 30s. I never wanted to have just one gf. Then ED hit very hard. It took awhile to adjust
After the implant, I just wanted a solid, meaningful relationship. Perhaps its age? I turned 38 recently. Problems in the relationship currently though,
so contemplating going back into the dating world is a weird one, but at least I know I am fully equipped. Makes the anxiety much less if I have to
go that route.

[hectorm64]

Seriously, I am somebody else after my implant and I like it.
I was sexually insecure all my life. I didn't have the opportunity to experience sex without anxiety. Anxiety added a new ingredient to a disaster "premature ejaculation". It was impossible to use a condom.
After be implanted, I can have sex 24/7, as long as I want it, under the water, in my car, wear condom, ejulate and go on, with stimulation or without, be proudly naked, when I want to. It has been an amazing time of my life. I was seriously, contemplating to end my life.
Eventually, I will settle down but for now I am enjoying my new life.
I thanks God everyday for this opportunity. It feels great be a normal man.

[Livingstonguy]

My wife of 39 years said I can screw anyone I want after the implant because I deserve it after prostate cancer. We'll find out soon if she means it. Ha. Implant Dec 22