This has been discussed on other threads, and has interested me because I have it too. When soft, at times it looks like I was never circumcised. It doesn't hurt or anything but I can feel it and it's annoying.
Someone else here said that maybe it's because of the shortened urethra after gland removal and re-attachment of the urethra to the bladder, stretching it. That sounded pretty logical to me, but apparently that is not the main reason. I googled around, ending up here: http://myprostatedoc.blogspot.com/2011/ ... ctomy.html
A few excerpts:
Many theories have been advanced, speculating about the root cause of shortening of the penis. One such theory that has been debunked (for the most part) is that of tension from the urethra. It was thought that because the prostate is removed, tension is created in bringing together the bladder and urethra. As a result, the urethra is pulled up towards the bladder, simultaneously pulling the penis into the body and shortening it. This theory does not make much anatomic sense as the urethra is tethered to the part of the pelvic muscles called the urogenital diaphragm. As a result, the urethra cannot really get pulled much in either direction, limiting its ability to shorten the penis.
Short-term problems are discussed also, but as for long-term problems:
Long term shortening, in contrast, is caused by progressive, irreversible changes to the structure of the penis. These changes are brought about through two mechanisms:
1) Permanent nerve damage experienced during surgery: When nerve damage occurs anywhere in the body, the tissues to which the damaged nerves supply impulses usually experience atrophy or breakdown. This can often be seen in paraplegic, wheelchair bound people in whom the loss of nerve signal causes a significant decrease in the size and muscle mass of the legs. The same can be said of the penis after nerve damage during prostatectomy. If permanent nerve damage occurs, the lack of impulses to smooth muscle of the penis leads to an atrophy or breakdown of the tissues responsible for erections and causes the penis to shrink both in length and girth.
There is plenty of other good info there also. Unfortunately, I don't think any of it will do me any good at this late date.