Wolfrayet1 wrote:Its lifelong Sheep. Honest to God swear all day long man.
Since AmansinCali just posted the advice Ive seen online about being open whether its online dating sites or in person. I am going to take a scary leap of faith since this is where Ive gotten to in my life and share a bit more.
Worse was being what some said was a bit of a good looker. Some very creative fantasy secret sex lives were created more than once by coworkers or friends that actually took on lives of their own for years. It might be fun at first or great novel stuff but it really closes down the social places, spaces and opportunities. In some way these things caused some very unexpected personality growth. Sense of humor and other things. Making a lady laugh or being playful guys. Trust me. Its the shizzle.
The absolute very best Sheep was having a hottie lube me up and tell her exactly how and where to hand job me. Gods honest truth no reason to lie as bad it may sound. Thats it. Once and literally only one in my 20s a German stewardess that clearly had experience with guys with issues did stuff I cant ever describe with oral.
At some point dating simply was not working. Work, playing amateur sports, reading became bigger passions and had great fun at some of that.
AmansinCali the ladies though I was one of warmer more affectionate types but that leads to attachments. After two or three serious relationship attempts no success. Your lady and her soul are beyond price. Thrice forever blessed because of her you are.
Yoda told me himself man.
Yep, I can ratify the advice you received about being honest about our inexperience with this testimony.
I selected a venue to post very carefully. A little more sex-oriennted than Match.com and less hookup-oriented than Tinder. Then I composed an ad and cleared it with the moderators (not wanting to break rules and get banned from the get-go)
I posted that I was a man functinally impotent and on the road to a pemile implant to address that problem. I was seeking a woman who would be my "lab partner" on the journey. Sex with me both before and after the implant would be involved. I posted that I owed a lot of orgasms to the women in my past and my partner in this endeavor would be able to collect on that debt. I gave a little bit about myself (acoustiive musician, like to observe the human comedy around me, etc). I also pledged not to endanger her well-being - that if our relationship threatened to do that, we would not go forward.
I got only one negative response, several positive responses congratulating me on my courage (it was really desperation, but courage was how they saw it) in stepping up with honesty. Some of the postive responses declined to participate and a few volunteered to meet and interview.
I got two women to participate. One, unfortunately had a recurrence of cancer and died.
I now am in a monogamous relationship with a woman (who tells me she did not read the sex part of my ad, but immediately took to me merely from my pictuure) who is VERY happy with me, my implant, my personality and my musicianship.
So, I HEARTILY recommend coming out with the bald-faced complete truth on a dating siie. It relieves the potential for the work of keeping up with whatever you posted originally and gains the respect and trust of any woman you may start a relationship with. A good basis for a long-lasting and happier relationsihip. Women who feel secure, trusted, respected and safe are MUCH more likely to relax with you and open up hidden responses they would otherwise hold back with a man who they feel less connected to.
