What have people told their families?

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Livingstonguy
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Re: What have people told their families?

Postby Livingstonguy » Sat Feb 04, 2023 10:09 pm

Franklin_F wrote:
Livingstonguy wrote:I'm guessing the people saying they told no one are retired. I had to take 4 weeks off of work so there were lots of concerned people asking questions.

Is taking 4 weeks off work common? Many seem to suggest they were able to go back to work after 2 weeks?


It depends on what kind of work you do. I do lots of lifting and am in and out of my car several times a day.
Implanted 12/22/2022 AMS 700cx 21cm with 1 cm RTE at St Thomas midtown in Nashville
Livingston, TN (BFE)
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JiminFL
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Re: What have people told their families?

Postby JiminFL » Sun Feb 05, 2023 2:23 am

I've only told my adult son & several close friends. We told everyone else that I had a hernia repaired. I feel like Clark Kent with this hidden superpower.
57yr old. In shape. Controlled hypertension. 20+ years of PDE5. TRT 4yrs. Trimix 2yrs. Titan 24cc implanted 8/25/20

Stupid
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Re: What have people told their families?

Postby Stupid » Sun Feb 05, 2023 3:32 am

I recommend telling no one. Good advice so far in this thread.
RP 2015. all downhill real fast. 2022 consulting doctor at USC. Apptmt is in November going bionic??

Exspecto
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Re: What have people told their families?

Postby Exspecto » Sun Feb 05, 2023 3:37 am

Thanks everyone! I'm amazed that some procedures are as an outpatient. I'm in for an overnight stay, hence the need to field lots of questions.
Type 1 diabetes for over 45 years. ED for 12+ years. Oral initially effective but failed a few years ago. Tried gel and then Caverject injections with limited success. Now developing Peyronie's disease. Opted for a Titan, to be fitted 7 Feb 2023. Age: 57

jimmi85
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Re: What have people told their families?

Postby jimmi85 » Sun Feb 05, 2023 4:41 am

I told pretty much anyone I knew and most people who I didn’t!

My friends and family were aware of my Peyronies, I wasn’t embarrassed in the slightest as my dick still worked perfectly, it just couldn’t penetrate properly and I wanted my sex life back.

A year on, and in a happy relationship I have no regrets, and love talking about it - I get asked so many questions and get such a positive feedback.

Why would anyone be embarrassed by a bionic dick that gets harder than any natural erection and stays hard for as long as you want it to?

At 38, I am having the best sex of my life and have never been happier with my ‘machine’ as my girlfriend called it!
Implanted by Mike Fraser in feb 2022 due to a 80 degree dorsal curvature. 18cm Titan - way undersized. 8’ pre Peyronies, 6’ pre implant - currently 6’.

Time2Change
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Re: What have people told their families?

Postby Time2Change » Sun Feb 05, 2023 7:34 am

I said I was getting a hernia repaired. Everyone I told seemed to accept that explanation.

FYI--I was out of work for two weeks.
55; ED for 23 years; Coloplast Titan implant on 10/26/20; Dr. Martin Gross; Happy to share my experiences in private messages

gjmjoe017
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Re: What have people told their families?

Postby gjmjoe017 » Sun Feb 05, 2023 7:52 am

Why in the hell would you want to tell your family you had a penile implant? :lol:
71 yrs.old married,ED for 7 yrs.Pills for 3 yrs,TriMix for 21/2 yrs.6 1/2 inches flacid,71/4 inches erect,6 inches girth.Coloplast Titan put in 11/13/20,Dr.Bozeman,Arkansas Urology,Little Rock.22cm + 2 RTE.

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Re: What have people told their families?

Postby navy6587 » Sun Feb 05, 2023 8:31 am

Other than my wife, I told my oldest son. He's the executor of our wills so I thought he should know just in case the funeral director approached him regarding cremation plans. Since then, I've spoken to a Mass funeral director and found it really doesn't matter about IPPs...just metal hip and other joint replacements, plates, etc.
77; ED at 50. Fired by 1st doc (Szobota - VA Uro) too many q's & contact w/ Coloplast rep. New doc: Ellen (VA Uro) implanted 11/8/18. 22cm Titan + 2cm RTEs; moron docs, product rep, intake/ dischg nurses! NEVER again! L- 6.75"; G- 5.5" oval.

Livingstonguy
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Re: What have people told their families?

Postby Livingstonguy » Sun Feb 05, 2023 10:45 am

gjmjoe017 wrote:Why in the hell would you want to tell your family you had a penile implant? :lol:


I told my kids and my sister because they have been on this cancer journey with me throughout and are concerned. We are a close family and share each others health concerns. I feel sorry for people that don't feel they can share health issues with the people they love.
Implanted 12/22/2022 AMS 700cx 21cm with 1 cm RTE at St Thomas midtown in Nashville
Livingston, TN (BFE)
Contact:gregandkelly63@hotmail.com
Born in 1963 Prostate cancer at 58 with RP at Vanderbilt

Married 41+ years to my best friend

MARKOS2018
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Re: What have people told their families?

Postby MARKOS2018 » Sun Feb 05, 2023 11:14 am

I told my kids I was having hernia surgery. If I said anything to son or daughter it would be out on the internet. I’m still deliberating telling my son but he would tell his buddies. Since I was on Coumadin Eid had me in the hospital 2 days prior to surgery. Wife and I were concerned about bleeding out and so was Eid.





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