Arousal male problem

[Vlad10]

I have issue with psychological arousal - I can't get hard without physical stimulation. It's impossible for me to get hard by thinking smth sexy or watching on naked girl.
I can lie down on sofa and visualized the sexiest things - but under pants zero reaction. As well as sexy strip-girl dancing and rubbed against me during private strip dance - nothing.
What can be a problem or solution if I'm young (30) and completely healthy and have everyday morning wood? Nofap during 1 year nothing changed. Why my brain doesn’t have connection with my dick?) Now I use or injection or I need uninterrupted penis stimulation because even if I achieve erection it will fast deflate without physical stimulation.
How to make brain more “hungry”? There must be similar “victims”, I can’t be such unique)

[timduncan]

could be hormonal, since you have good morning woods.
have you checked with a specialist?
testosterone (free) is linked to arousal, also pituitary hormones

have you ever had any medication that impact hormones? like finasteride

[Vlad10]

could be hormonal, since you have good morning woods.
have you checked with a specialist?
testosterone (free) is linked to arousal, also pituitary hormones

have you ever had any medication that impact hormones? like finasteride

I have a high testosterone level as well as indexes of the others male sex hormones. Doctors said that I’m physically completely healthy.

[timduncan]

you didnt answer about the medications.

btw could be a deficit in NO production since you tend to exclude (dont know why) venous or arterial problems

[Vlad10]

you didnt answer about the medications.

btw could be a deficit in NO production since you tend to exclude (don't know why) venous or arterial problems

I'm completely healthy. Don't use any medications. I also tried testosterone injection for 3 weeks. My testosterone level was increase in 5 times but it wasn't change anything on my arousal.
About possible venous or arterial problems.. I made dopler test once and the results was good as the physician said, no arterial or venous problem. Also i have strong erection after all types of injections. Problem is in processes that launch erection.... Why i don't have response on visual or touching stimulus....It's like looking on car which you like or food which you prefer - you like it but you don't have an erection on it)

[timduncan]

man, erection is a multifactorial process, that involves artieries, tunica a., nerves, testicles, hpa axis ecc

we, i mean the specialist i went to, often dont have a clear answer, because you would need a biopsy of every single tissue involved in this process, they just offer you a solutions for the symptoms.

[sogwap]

I have issue with psychological arousal - I can't get hard without physical stimulation. It's impossible for me to get hard by thinking smth sexy or watching on naked girl.
I can lie down on sofa and visualized the sexiest things - but under pants zero reaction. As well as sexy strip-girl dancing and rubbed against me during private strip dance - nothing.
What can be a problem or solution if I'm young (30) and completely healthy and have everyday morning wood? Nofap during 1 year nothing changed. Why my brain doesn’t have connection with my dick?) Now I use or injection or I need uninterrupted penis stimulation because even if I achieve erection it will fast deflate without physical stimulation.
How to make brain more “hungry”? There must be similar “victims”, I can’t be such unique)

What you are experiencing may not be that unusual.

Some men simply need physical stimulation in order to get hard.

[Baseballfan11]

I have issue with psychological arousal - I can't get hard without physical stimulation. It's impossible for me to get hard by thinking smth sexy or watching on naked girl.
I can lie down on sofa and visualized the sexiest things - but under pants zero reaction. As well as sexy strip-girl dancing and rubbed against me during private strip dance - nothing.
What can be a problem or solution if I'm young (30) and completely healthy and have everyday morning wood? Nofap during 1 year nothing changed. Why my brain doesn’t have connection with my dick?) Now I use or injection or I need uninterrupted penis stimulation because even if I achieve erection it will fast deflate without physical stimulation.
How to make brain more “hungry”? There must be similar “victims”, I can’t be such unique)

I’ve also experienced this for the longest time and I’m 25 with completely normal development otherwise. Even looking at things that I still find attractive, there’s no mental rush of hormones that I experienced when I was 9 or 10. And it’s been that way for some time. I can get erect enough to penetrate from time to time, but even in these cases I don’t feel myself getting hard or any real sort of arousal. I took ADHD meds for much of my childhood into teen years, but I don’t know that this would’ve done anything. Have also tried NoFap and no porn for months at a time with no fix to my issues. I have been worried I permanently physically broke my penis as a young kid by a masturbation technique in which I would squeeze my penis between my thighs rather than using the traditional method. However I’ve been told that this would not have physically damaged me permanently and I haven’t done that technique in years. I’m just confused and worried that even an implant wouldn’t really bring back any sort of sexual satisfaction

[Martin6469]

Dan Savage (www.savage.love) writes the best sex advice column in the English language, in my opinion, and I think I've seen a problem like this discussed in past years. I don't remember the details, but you could look through the archive. (The archive used to be free of charge, but you might have to pay US$25/year now.)

[Vlad10]

I can relate to this. I generally need some sort of penile touch to get things started. Sometimes I get surprised once in awhile though. Have you ever had spontaneous erection or something happen at an unusual time?

yes I have spontaneous erection as well as morning. I do not have any problem with erection and blood flow. Problem is in arousal. When I was 14-16 years old I can get hard in 3 seconds just thinking about smth sexy. When I watched porn during my 14-16 years old I was so aroused that was difficult to brief and heart was pumping very fast. I felt extremely horny like a mad. But since 17 years old I became very calm I don't feel anything when I looking on sexy naked girl or when I kiss her. My body just understood direct contact on my penis. I didn't have any trauma during 16-17 years old, (just was circumcised due to phimosis) and I don't understand the reason of this changes. Now I'm 32, nothing has changed since 17. I'm sporty, completely healthy with high level of testosterone. I have regular sex and do not watch porn at all, I feel excellent except I'm like robot during sex without arrousal.