Married but interested in men

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verytempted1992
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby verytempted1992 » Wed Oct 19, 2022 3:05 am

BBaller1967 wrote:I’ve been married for nearly 40 years and had an encounter one time with a guy in a porn theater many years ago… My wife will not perform oral but loves me to give it… been frustrated for many years. I love her with everything in me but sometimes think about that encounter and when I see or hear other guys talk or show pics it actually gets me aroused and hard which is interesting because I struggle to get an erection since my near death from COVID in 2020. I confess that when I think of a man wrapping my cock in his mouth I imagine getting hard in his mouth… oh to dream.


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29. Mild ED since 2018 most likely caused from CPPS. Can still have hard erections and have sex but morning wood is rare and also have PE. May occasionally take Viagra 25mg with good results.
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jaddxxt
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby jaddxxt » Wed Oct 19, 2022 3:57 pm

The porn theater experience you had sounds hot! I live in that fantasy world.....theaters, trucks, glory holes,etc... but all in fantasy!
I don't get turned on by seeing male bodies or dicks. I love females and especially love big breasts! I really love my wife's body and wish I had it some more, but it gets complicated.
Although, given the right situation...at this point, only in fantasy for the moment, giving and receiving anonymous oral and maybe anal....with the same sex, truly seems hot....especially if it's in a D/S fantasy scene.
Trimix makes my dick work and after a quick shot, it doesn't care where it lands!
65 NYC; ED for 5 yrs.; married in-shape gym junkie; pills no longer work; taking weekly Testosterone shots for libido and using Trimix injections...which are working well, but are a hassle to manage and... to get the timing just right!
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dirtman1993
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby dirtman1993 » Sun Feb 12, 2023 5:09 pm

I too have a desire to tri bi and have enjoyed looking at others who have and do have sex with men. My partner and I haven't had intercourse in about 8 years as she ceased having oral with me and only wanted me to perform for her. I told her after about a year or two without that this had to change. Now I am searching for another man I can go down on and also receive oral. Not to sure about anal as only did with first wife as she liked.

Men know what feels good much more than a women and to be honest, some cocks like so very nice I think I would enjoy having in my mouth. Maybe in time I will find someone to have sex with.
Implanted March 2nd by Dr. Kramer with AMS/LGX. Had a problem lower left (scar tissue) and he placed a larger (thicker) implant as you can here on the YouTube video. Got all back, ED over 10 years before Implant.
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby SteveSW » Sun Feb 12, 2023 7:20 pm

Over the years, some of the best no strings attached sex I've ever had was with married (straight?) men.
20 years of severe Peyronie's plaque, 90 curve, hinging and ED. Cost me 1.5" L and 1" G.
Implanted 2/18/21, AMS CX, 18 CM + 3 RTE, penoscrotal. Have gained 3/4". Gay, married, age 68.
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MIDBOB293
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby MIDBOB293 » Mon Apr 03, 2023 4:12 pm

Been some time since i was on Frank Talk. Much has changed in my life. My wife is on a walker now due to serious leg surgery so our sex life has been out of commission for some time now. When we were active we really enjoyed threesomes with another man and i got very aroused touching and being touched by the other man. And my wife received great climaxes. We are all three very oral.

Now i am searching porn including sex with other couples so i can touch and stroke the other husband. I am sure i want to have mutual masturbation and suck the other guy. I have told my wife about this and she is fine with it but accepts that she has no sex drive at all. She will watch me with the other man and wants to see me ejaculate like i used to - I want to feel it in my mouth and give the same pleasure to the other guy. We have a man we know that i could approach. Having him over for a couple of drinks would me to come on to him and my wife would be social about it and wants to see me make it happen even if she is not interested in a threeway herself.

Your thoughts please. Not sure if yoiu are still active on this website but thought i would reach out and see.
Ron
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby stmfttr » Mon Apr 03, 2023 6:02 pm

MIDBOB293 wrote:Been some time since i was on Frank Talk. Much has changed in my life. My wife is on a walker now due to serious leg surgery so our sex life has been out of commission for some time now. When we were active we really enjoyed threesomes with another man and i got very aroused touching and being touched by the other man. And my wife received great climaxes. We are all three very oral.

Now i am searching porn including sex with other couples so i can touch and stroke the other husband. I am sure i want to have mutual masturbation and suck the other guy. I have told my wife about this and she is fine with it but accepts that she has no sex drive at all. She will watch me with the other man and wants to see me ejaculate like i used to - I want to feel it in my mouth and give the same pleasure to the other guy. We have a man we know that i could approach. Having him over for a couple of drinks would me to come on to him and my wife would be social about it and wants to see me make it happen even if she is not interested in a threeway herself.

Your thoughts please. Not sure if yoiu are still active on this website but thought i would reach out and see.
Ron


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stmfttr
78 yo. Married 54years - Coloplast Titan, 22cm and no RTE's - Installed June 2019 Nebraska Medicine, Dr. Deibert (urologist/surgeon)
ED started in 1994 Tried VED, Viagra and Cialis, and injections.
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby GoodWood » Fri Apr 14, 2023 9:47 pm

MIDBOB293 wrote:Been some time since i was on Frank Talk. Much has changed in my life. My wife is on a walker now due to serious leg surgery so our sex life has been out of commission for some time now. When we were active we really enjoyed threesomes with another man and i got very aroused touching and being touched by the other man. And my wife received great climaxes. We are all three very oral.

Now i am searching porn including sex with other couples so i can touch and stroke the other husband. I am sure i want to have mutual masturbation and suck the other guy. I have told my wife about this and she is fine with it but accepts that she has no sex drive at all. She will watch me with the other man and wants to see me ejaculate like i used to - I want to feel it in my mouth and give the same pleasure to the other guy. We have a man we know that i could approach. Having him over for a couple of drinks would me to come on to him and my wife would be social about it and wants to see me make it happen even if she is not interested in a threeway herself.

Your thoughts please. Not sure if yoiu are still active on this website but thought i would reach out and see.
Ron


Sounds like you and your wife have trust in one another and a lot of respect for each other’s desires and needs. That’s a wonderful thing.

I hope you find a situation that you both feel good about (and that is really hot as well!)
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Scott59 » Tue Jul 04, 2023 2:02 pm

Wife has lost interest in sex so I have had a few men partners and WOW intense orgasms. Love the wife and will never leave, but I still need that human contact
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stmfttr
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby stmfttr » Tue Jul 04, 2023 4:14 pm

Scott59 wrote:Wife has lost interest in sex so I have had a few men partners and WOW intense orgasms. Love the wife and will never leave, but I still need that human contact


Scott59,
I could not agree more.
78 yo. Married 54years - Coloplast Titan, 22cm and no RTE's - Installed June 2019 Nebraska Medicine, Dr. Deibert (urologist/surgeon)
ED started in 1994 Tried VED, Viagra and Cialis, and injections.
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Al1962 » Tue Jul 04, 2023 8:04 pm

Oops. Already to speak up and realised I am dsiqualified/no longer married as per title says "Married".
Was married had an interest in 1 male FWB's. Hope to some day have a women. Not looking for a man now. If the subject ever came up I could discuss it but am not planning to initiate subject at this point. Sex can be fun whatever the person.
Born 1962. Married 21 yrs. Single since 2018. Diabetic ED has taken the fun. Began daily Cialis 2.5mg and hesitant to find/disappoint a new partner. Song, Beatles,"Let It Be".
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