Female opinions on sex after implant

[Hillywilly]

Do you tell a woman of all your troubles on the first date? If you do you are going to run into a lot of problems.

Not the first date, but I don't want to be in a weird situation where a woman feels tubing or the pump

I feel honesty is better for me. It might not be for you and I don't judge you for that

Well my pump is behind my balls and I haven't even felt my tubing. I doubt that is something Dr. Levine is planning for you.

My point is you don't even have the implant and neither does mountain man and you interject your unfounded negative opionions into the conversation and cause anxiety for members newly implanted or close to getting. A prime example would be your comment on an implant making your dick cold. You are not a medical professional as far as I know and do not even have an implant. If you wishes to ask questions you should but you've been doing nothing but judging.

[Lost Sheep]

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It's like your comment that you would like a woman to know before the very first sexual encounter I can't think of a more terrible idea. It's obvious your uncomfortable with it and a woman will pick up on that and assume it's bad and you've just shot yourself in the foot. You don't put all your problems and issues on your dating profile do you? Do you tell a woman of all your troubles on the first date? If you do you are going to run into a lot of problems.

On the other hand, I revealed that I was functionally impotent in my dating site profile right up front. It MIGHT have deterred some women from contacting me, but it did NOT deter several from contact and a few recruits to accompany me on my journey to implant. Of course, the age range was appropriate for me, mid-seventies at that time.

On the contrary to the idea that being up front indicates my discomfort with my impotence/implant. Many women (even those not volunteering to meet me) commented that they found my candor to be "courageous" and "refreshing".

[Hillywilly]

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It's like your comment that you would like a woman to know before the very first sexual encounter I can't think of a more terrible idea. It's obvious your uncomfortable with it and a woman will pick up on that and assume it's bad and you've just shot yourself in the foot. You don't put all your problems and issues on your dating profile do you? Do you tell a woman of all your troubles on the first date? If you do you are going to run into a lot of problems.

On the other hand, I revealed that I was functionally impotent in my dating site profile right up front. It MIGHT have deterred some women from contacting me, but it did NOT deter several from contact and a few recruits to accompany me on my journey to implant. Of course, the age range was appropriate for me, mid-seventies at that time.

On the contrary to the idea that being up front indicates my discomfort with my impotence/implant. Many women (even those not volunteering to meet me) commented that they found my candor to be "courageous" and "refreshing".

Three things

1) we know that ED is the norm in the 70’s (increases with age)

2) did you actually have sex with these women? Words of encouragement don’t equal attraction. Attraction is measured in action not words did these women try to have sex with you?

3) I can't speak from experience but I would also guess by a woman’s 70’s mating and attraction are secondary goals and companionship is much more important. Conversely women in their 20’s and 30’s are looking for a partner to have children with. I think the goals are different here.

[Lost Sheep]

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It's like your comment that you would like a woman to know before the very first sexual encounter I can't think of a more terrible idea. It's obvious your uncomfortable with it and a woman will pick up on that and assume it's bad and you've just shot yourself in the foot. You don't put all your problems and issues on your dating profile do you? Do you tell a woman of all your troubles on the first date? If you do you are going to run into a lot of problems.

On the other hand, I revealed that I was functionally impotent in my dating site profile right up front. It MIGHT have deterred some women from contacting me, but it did NOT deter several from contact and a few recruits to accompany me on my journey to implant. Of course, the age range was appropriate for me, mid-seventies at that time.

On the contrary to the idea that being up front indicates my discomfort with my impotence/implant. Many women (even those not volunteering to meet me) commented that they found my candor to be "courageous" and "refreshing".

Three things

1) we know that ED is the norm in the 70’s (increases with age)

2) did you actually have sex with these women? Words of encouragement don’t equal attraction. Attraction is measured in action not words did these women try to have sex with you?

3) I can't speak from experience but I would also guess by a woman’s 70’s mating and attraction are secondary goals and companionship is much more important. Conversely women in their 20’s and 30’s are looking for a partner to have children with. I think the goals are different here.

1) Yes, all of the women with whom I communicated were old enough to have experienced sex with men with ED.

2) and 3) About a dozen respondents interested in my quest. 7 or 8 first dates only one which ended badly (she cmpletelly misunderstood the premise). Three with whom I had sex. The others (the "rejects" frm the 7 or 8) were by mutual agreement that entanglements would have presented a danger to their emotional health (which I promised myself I would not risk).

[riseagain]

Not sure if it's the implant. But my wife is wanting to have sex more often than before. She is a very tiny lady, at first she was uncomfortable with my fully inflated implant. Now she she take the whole thing and just moans with pleasure. So, I guess she likes it. She's happy and I'm happy too.

[aussiePeyronies]

Not sure if it's the implant. But my wife is wanting to have sex more often than before. She is a very tiny lady, at first she was uncomfortable with my fully inflated implant. Now she she take the whole thing and just moans with pleasure. So, I guess she likes it. She's happy and I'm happy too.

This is awesome, hearing stories like these is what makes me inspired. Knowing you're having great sex at your age just makes me so happy and tells me we have many years to look forward to.

It's interesting that you lost girth but gained length with a titan????

J

[dg_moore]

Not sure if it's the implant. But my wife is wanting to have sex more often than before. She is a very tiny lady, at first she was uncomfortable with my fully inflated implant. Now she she take the whole thing and just moans with pleasure. So, I guess she likes it. She's happy and I'm happy too.

On the other hand, my wife (63 at the time) had lost all interest after the years of fumbling around with ED. She told me in advance not to expect anything of her if I went ahead with the implant, and she was true to her word. After I healed I offered to show it to her and she declined. This was in 2008, and nothing ever changed.

[Spanishxb]

So…an update here. Had some (what I thought) bomb sex last night…she came real quick, but I was a little tuned up so had to work for mine. After having my fun I decided to get to work and start pounding. Was pounding deep as I could and doing some moves I thought were what she liked in the past. Etc etc. anyways….after I finished she ran to the bathroom in pain and said that it doesn’t bend like it used too so when I do angles it literally was digging at her insides and she could feel the tubes rock hard poking her…..NOT what I wanted to ever hear but I’ve told her to be honest as I’m basically a virgin with this new dick learning how to use it and move it as it doesn’t bend like it used too…and the two hard spikes tips and the end in the glans definitely are easy to feel poke yah I’m sure. Feels like I have two pen tips in the head of my dick…so anyways…

Now we will have to practice positions and moves so she can tell me what it was that hurt her so I don’t do that thinking she’s liking it…….still no regrets….just wonder what a girl who doesn’t know I’m implanted think about it if I was poking them so hard. Would they think I had something in my dick? Idk…

[Lost Sheep]

So…an update here. Had some (what I thought) bomb sex last night…she came real quick, but I was a little tuned up so had to work for mine. After having my fun I decided to get to work and start pounding. Was pounding deep as I could and doing some moves I thought were what she liked in the past. Etc etc. anyways….after I finished she ran to the bathroom in pain and said that it doesn’t bend like it used too so when I do angles it literally was digging at her insides and she could feel the tubes rock hard poking her…..NOT what I wanted to ever hear but I’ve told her to be honest as I’m basically a virgin with this new dick learning how to use it and move it as it doesn’t bend like it used too…and the two hard spikes tips and the end in the glans definitely are easy to feel poke yah I’m sure. Feels like I have two pen tips in the head of my dick…so anyways…

Now we will have to practice positions and moves so she can tell me what it was that hurt her so I don’t do that thinking she’s liking it…….still no regrets….just wonder what a girl who doesn’t know I’m implanted think about it if I was poking them so hard. Would they think I had something in my dick? Idk…

I hope you don't mind unsolicited advice. Do you and your wife every talk frankly about what each of you prefer in sex? I mean, map out each other's erogenous zones (which can be a fun exercise in itself) or discuss different positions you might like to try or places around the house, etc.

Your post sounds like she does not feel comfortable telling you what feels good for her or hurts. Good communication is a factor in producing god sex (in my opinion).

Use this revelation of hers as a springboard to asking her to ask for what will make sex better. Give her permission to express her sexuality. You will likely be pleasantly surprized.

[Gt1956]

Spanishxb. Try fewer pumps. You need an erection that can bend slightly to follow the vagina. Womens version of hard is different from mens version of hard.