Implant and No Sex Wife

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Re: Implant and No Sex Wife

Postby truckrglenn » Tue Jul 11, 2023 9:44 pm

I didn't re3ad every reply. Been divorced 14 years, socially awkward all my life, it's very hard for me to approach women and try to talk with one. I've been like this since I was a teen.

There's no way that I'm going to go out on the street and pick up a prostitute and who knows what else. Besides the chance of getting arrested.

What I do is to go and get a body rub. Yea it costs a little, but it's safe and clean for the most part. One is almost like a girlfriend, we'll make out, I give her body rubs too and sometimes we go all the way with me wearing a condom. Another young lady that I see won't kiss or go all the way. But she has amazing hands and I'll give her a body rub too. The third and last lady that I see gives the most fascinating NURU massage you can imagine. She starts off, both of us nude and oiled up. While laying on my stomach, she's sliding her whole body over mine. Then she does the same when I'm laying on my back. But now I can touch her where and how I want, just no penetration. Then she's sitting on me, facing me sliding back and forth on my member. Then laying on her back she' keeps sliding down pushing and riding my member, but again no penetration. Then she'll finish me with her hands.

Yea, I'm paying $200-$300, but I'm paying for her time and the body rub. The body rub site is worldwide, rub rankings com.
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Re: Implant and No Sex Wife

Postby Mark1974 » Tue Jul 11, 2023 9:58 pm

Prostitutes and escorts cause me too much anxiety. Up until maybe a year or two ago I would go to Chaturbate and get "privates" with Colombian cam girls. That basically means you masturbate on cam together. I can't guarantee they were watching me all the time but I made sure they watched me finish. Sometimes it's good enough to just not cum alone
Born 6/15/74. I have substantial venous leak with fairly severe hour-glassing, but no hard plaques. My urologist is sexual health expert Dr. Laurence Levine who performed a Doppler Ultrasound and diagnosed me with VL in 2020. I also have mild BPH

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Re: Implant and No Sex Wife

Postby Hillywilly » Wed Jul 12, 2023 10:59 am

Mark1974 wrote:You guys are responding to a 73 year old man. I have no idea how long he has been married to her. According to his bio they just went through cancer together. Now I don't think she has the right to stop him from getting implanted, but this advice to leave her or cheat on her is brutal.

Have some humanity guys


Why? Do you typically go out to a restaurant that has no food to offer? No, you find a different one. For most people sexual connection is a fundamental biological need like eating, and sleeping, and you cannot talk a person into being attracted and sexually desiring you it is innate based on your appearance and behavior.
33 HG deformity now Titan OTR 24cm XL + 1 cm RTE's Length 7.25in/ Girth 6in (midshaft) Dr. Hakky 4/4/23

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Re: Implant and No Sex Wife

Postby Mark1974 » Wed Jul 12, 2023 1:17 pm

Hillywilly wrote:
Mark1974 wrote:You guys are responding to a 73 year old man. I have no idea how long he has been married to her. According to his bio they just went through cancer together. Now I don't think she has the right to stop him from getting implanted, but this advice to leave her or cheat on her is brutal.

Have some humanity guys


Why? Do you typically go out to a restaurant that has no food to offer? No, you find a different one. For most people sexual connection is a fundamental biological need like eating, and sleeping, and you cannot talk a person into being attracted and sexually desiring you it is innate based on your appearance and behavior.
Youre a young man and have a long way to emotionally mature in life. I know that sounds condescending, but comparing someone's wife to food in a restaurant proves the point.

People shouldn't be so objectified and disposable, but I know that's the utilitarian world we are now living in
Born 6/15/74. I have substantial venous leak with fairly severe hour-glassing, but no hard plaques. My urologist is sexual health expert Dr. Laurence Levine who performed a Doppler Ultrasound and diagnosed me with VL in 2020. I also have mild BPH

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Re: Implant and No Sex Wife

Postby Old Guy » Wed Jul 12, 2023 2:40 pm

I've asked the wife what she would do if I never got my implant. She is reserved and shy about sex anymore, but still loves it. She detests dildos and most toys other than a clit vibe. I have yet to get an answer to my question. I doubt she would cheat on me, but pent-up unsatisfied needs may lead to finding some sort of satisfaction.
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Re: Implant and No Sex Wife

Postby Hillywilly » Wed Jul 12, 2023 4:45 pm

Mark1974 wrote:
Hillywilly wrote:
Mark1974 wrote:You guys are responding to a 73 year old man. I have no idea how long he has been married to her. According to his bio they just went through cancer together. Now I don't think she has the right to stop him from getting implanted, but this advice to leave her or cheat on her is brutal.

Have some humanity guys


Why? Do you typically go out to a restaurant that has no food to offer? No, you find a different one. For most people sexual connection is a fundamental biological need like eating, and sleeping, and you cannot talk a person into being attracted and sexually desiring you it is innate based on your appearance and behavior.
Youre a young man and have a long way to emotionally mature in life. I know that sounds condescending, but comparing someone's wife to food in a restaurant proves the point.

People shouldn't be so objectified and disposable, but I know that's the utilitarian world we are now living in


You're right you guys pretty soft I don't understand it but judging by your posts it doesn't appear to be working.
33 HG deformity now Titan OTR 24cm XL + 1 cm RTE's Length 7.25in/ Girth 6in (midshaft) Dr. Hakky 4/4/23

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Re: Implant and No Sex Wife

Postby Hillywilly » Wed Jul 12, 2023 4:54 pm

WatNext wrote:
Mark1974 wrote: Youre a young man and have a long way to emotionally mature in life. I know that sounds condescending, but comparing someone's wife to food in a restaurant proves the point.

People shouldn't be so objectified and disposable, but I know that's the utilitarian world we are now living in


Absolutely agree with above.

Hillywilly wrote: Why? Do you typically go out to a restaurant that has no food to offer? No, you find a different one. For most people sexual connection is a fundamental biological need like eating, and sleeping, and you cannot talk a person into being attracted and sexually desiring you it is innate based on your appearance and behavior.


Using the same logic, men with implants must then except total rejection from women, as how could they have a sexual connection with a fake, plastic, naturally unresponsive penis....as its innate in nature to select the fittest most attractive mate. I'm also not trying to be an asshat about it, but just remember, logic like this cuts equally deep both ways.


You're right you guys are pretty soft I don't understand it. How is your example the same logic? a man with an implant can have sex with his partner.

However, i'll entertain your "logic". The implant has a high partner satisfaction rate per the literature and I am sure that the degree of natural responsiveness varies between implantees but the bottom line is if your woman rejects you I still believe in my initial metaphor of if the restaurant is closed find another but you do you.
33 HG deformity now Titan OTR 24cm XL + 1 cm RTE's Length 7.25in/ Girth 6in (midshaft) Dr. Hakky 4/4/23

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Re: Implant and No Sex Wife

Postby truckrglenn » Thu Jul 13, 2023 8:39 pm

Hillywilly wrote:
Mark1974 wrote:You guys are responding to a 73 year old man. I have no idea how long he has been married to her. According to his bio they just went through cancer together. Now I don't think she has the right to stop him from getting implanted, but this advice to leave her or cheat on her is brutal.

Have some humanity guys


Why? Do you typically go out to a restaurant that has no food to offer? No, you find a different one. For most people sexual connection is a fundamental biological need like eating, and sleeping, and you cannot talk a person into being attracted and sexually desiring you it is innate based on your appearance and behavior.


Now that's pretty funny. Ron White tells a story about his ex wife being on her period. She wouldn't do anything, so he said, when you go to the amusement part and the log ride is down, they don't close the whole park.
Glenn
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Re: Implant and No Sex Wife

Postby Mark1974 » Sat Jul 15, 2023 2:57 pm

I don't characterize people as being tough or soft by how cruel they can be to other people. I would characterize them as being tough or soft by how well they can respond to adverse circumstances or how well they can respond to the cruelty of others
Born 6/15/74. I have substantial venous leak with fairly severe hour-glassing, but no hard plaques. My urologist is sexual health expert Dr. Laurence Levine who performed a Doppler Ultrasound and diagnosed me with VL in 2020. I also have mild BPH

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Re: Implant and No Sex Wife

Postby ThailandBound » Sun Jul 16, 2023 7:33 am

Mark1974 wrote:I don't characterize people as being tough or soft by how cruel they can be to other people. I would characterize them as being tough or soft by how well they can respond to adverse circumstances or how well they can respond to the cruelty of others


This.
Active, athletic 63 years old. Sexually, still 33 in my mind and spirit. Pills and injections all worked, until they didn’t. Diagnosed with veinous leakage in 2022. Coloplast Titan. 22 CM. No RTE. Peno-scrotal. Implanted 1/4/23. Dr. Clavell.


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