31 Yr Old- Weak Erection With Pills: Next Step?

[younggun1]

why no use injections?

you can keep them ready in a syringe in the fridge and when you take a girl to your place, excuse yourself to the bathroom, even with a low dose that gives your a semi, it will get harder if you get a bit aroused

Im also interested in the implant but is so expensive, even if insurance covers it, there is no going back, would be nice tho not have to worry and it just works

Injections have limitations. Can only use once per 24 hours so I'm screwed if she wants to bang in the morning. I get a bit of an ache when injecting. It doesn't get me as hard as my normal erection once did and I don't want to stick a needle in my dick every time.

Also what if I go to her place? I have to carry a syringe around and hope I hit the right dose and if she wants to hookup spontaneously I have to inject and hope it works. Also priapism is a risk. That seems more invasive and stressful than an implant tbh.

Also studies show implant satisfaction is significantly higher than injection satisfaction. You can also get scarring from trimix. Way too much hassle when implant is a more solid final solution and spontaneous.

[Franklin22]

Well, I feel like I’ve been there done that and can offer some perspective. You honestly sound alot like me the last 10 years.
I’m 41, so the last 10 years up until a year ago I could have sex with 100 mg of viagra or fail sometimes.
I could recently get hard, but would lose it all the way during sex before I could make it though at about 75%. I always felt like I was a below average lover in bed. I can tell you sexually Is the only thing below average in my life as I’m successful, great shape, and have many friends.
Being below average sexually on the dating market puts you at a disadvantage and it helps to have all of your other boxes checked, but if you don’t and are lousy in bed you are going to struggle being single. Especially in a world where dating is so easy with a swipe of your fingers.
And I know people will say, well I pleased my woman without PIV. Well, I’m good at eating Pussy too, but it’s not the same. Also, if you do get married and your situation worsens she could find someone else to deliver when you aren’t around.
I personally decided I wanted to take a chance and go from a below average lover to a possible Superman. I also wanted to correct one of the things bothering me in my life.
You have to really decide how important is sex to you?
Are you ok with having a pump in your balls the rest of your life?

Future revisions were a concern of mine, but I figured the women and sex would be much better now than when I’m 70. No offense to the older guys.
Just make sure it’s something you really want to do.

No offense taken. Just realize that for me the simple solution is to have a girlfriend less than 1/2 my age. Unlike 25 year old me who would cum in :5 minutes, we can happily bang away furiously for a solid hour or more.

She loves my “superpower”.

Haha Thailand that’s awesome. You are a man that has life figured out. And a very good point!

[Witheringhog]

Hey guys,

31 in my prime and very social. I'm in sort of a maddening position of being able to have penetrate and have sex with max dosage of cialis + levitra but the erection is weak and the whole time I'm feeling like it's not great for the girl and I feel kind like a loser having sex. Occasionally I lose it as well but most of the time I can keep a weak erection. Problems started 8 months ago and very elevated cholesterol is the likely cause (in the 300s) but now lower on medication.

It's not psychogenic because I get the same weak erection when masturbating. a 60-70% at best.

If I don't take pills, I can't get it up or I will lose it.

My doppler ultrasound showed some mild weakened blood flow with Dr. Clavell but he said a pill should be able to help get me to a decent spot, however, all options are on the table and ultimately it's my decision if I want to go for an implant. I tried injections as well and fuck that as a single young guy.

All I know is right now that I don't even want to have sex with these attractive girls in their 20s while competing with studs who bang like a champ. The last two girls I hooked up with haven't shown much interest past the first hookup. Again didn't have issues before 8 months ago when weakened erections started and I couldn't get it up when trying to hook up with a girl I was dating after a few drinks.

I feel like the implant is the way for me to go and I've done a lot of research and consulted with Clavell and EID. Having an in-person with EID in NYC to do another doppler test and get his opinion.

Any thoughts on my situation? I understand that you don't want to jump the gun but this is making me miserable holding back on my dating life and feeling inadequate in the sex department when everything else is great and I'm getting interest from attractive girls.

I sort of want to just go for the implant and stop the negative thoughts and fear of losing a girl every time I have sex.

Thoughts?

I would recommend the implant. I was at a similar point of hoping my wife didnt want sex alot of nights, and for me i thought if the worst case happened and i couldn’t have sex anymore I wouldn’t care. Thats what ED did to me.

Now with the implant i am having the best sex and best orgasms of my life. I now walk into a room of people and think to myself, i could fuck every chick in here and make them tap out before me, fun feeling knowing where i was 3 months ago.

[ctcolantro]

Also studies show implant satisfaction is significantly higher than injection satisfaction. You can also get scarring from trimix. Way too much hassle when implant is a more solid final solution and spontaneous.[/quote]

I promise my implanted erection is bigger, harder, and longer lasting than my natural or chemically induced erections ever were. Wish I had done it first and skipped 10 years of side effects and low-key disappointment.

[Time2Change]

My ED started at 32, and it was 10 years, anyway, before a doctor figured through an MRI that I had damaged my pudendal nerve, and that was the cause of my ED. And it was years later, when I was desperate for help, that I went to a urologist who presented the implant as an option for treatment.

I can definitely relate to the emotional and mental impacts of having ED that you have described. And I can tell you that the cloud hanging over me caused a lot of problems in my relationships.

Pills worked decently for me for a while. But they gradually lessened in effectiveness. My urologist said that was typical. And I never liked the routine of taking pills. It destroyed spontaneity.

It sounds like you are already at the point with how well pills work that took me years to get to. According to my urologist, they will become less and less effective.

I am a prime example of an implantee who is far more satisfied with my implant than I was with pills. While I still have ED, I don't think and feel like I used to because I'm able to have sex whenever, wherever, and however I want for as long as I want.

Ultimately, it's up to you. I do think it's a good idea that you are meeting multiple doctors to help you with your decision.

[Catmandu]

Read afew of my older posts man, very similar situation, I'm 30 fit and confident get regular attention from girls, and had the surgery 6 months ago, at first I was legitimately horrified with what I'd done, panic attacks, the works, Ive become more used to it now and fucked alot of girls since, I'm still always slightly self conscious about having a pump in my balls but it is better than not being able to get hard at all. Sometimes I don't always get as engorged as I would like, the girls seem to like it, I still hate that I ever had to go through this, it's very hard mentally, I missed out on a few good relationships because of it, it's not a perfect solution but i now have started to come around to think it was the right thing to do and it's good to be able to fuck whenever I want

[Hillywilly]

Hey guys,

I tried injections as well and fuck that as a single young guy.



Thoughts?

Why? I had great success and had women keep coming back for more with an injection/pill combo and never even told them about it. If you feel strongly that this cannot be a good option for you then you can go with an implant just keep in mind it will be a tough few months while you recover and their is a risk of complications.

[younggun1]

Hey guys,

I tried injections as well and fuck that as a single young guy.



Thoughts?

Why? I had great success and had women keep coming back for more with an injection/pill combo and never even told them about it. If you feel strongly that this cannot be a good option for you then you can go with an implant just keep in mind it will be a tough few months while you recover and their is a risk of complications.

Having to inject every time I want to have sex doesn't seem fun. I have an ache when I use trimix, you can't have morning sex or be completely spontaneous bc of only one injection per 24 hours, risk of scarring and priapism, and the satisfaction rate is higher with the implant.

Injections does not seem better than the implant unless I'm missing something. Just as many if not more risks, limitations, and risk of pain so doesn't seem appealing. Tried it twice. Plus I still feel like I don't get as hard as I used to with it.

Do you not like your implant?

[Hillywilly]

Hey guys,

I tried injections as well and fuck that as a single young guy.



Thoughts?

Why? I had great success and had women keep coming back for more with an injection/pill combo and never even told them about it. If you feel strongly that this cannot be a good option for you then you can go with an implant just keep in mind it will be a tough few months while you recover and their is a risk of complications.

Having to inject every time I want to have sex doesn't seem fun. I have an ache when I use trimix, you can't have morning sex or be completely spontaneous bc of only one injection per 24 hours, risk of scarring and priapism, and the satisfaction rate is higher with the implant.

Injections does not seem better than the implant unless I'm missing something. Just as many if not more risks, limitations, and risk of pain so doesn't seem appealing. Tried it twice. Plus I still feel like I don't get as hard as I used to with it.

Do you not like your implant?

Thats what I'm saying I could have morning sex Inject the night before after the boner goes down I take a cialis and the left over trimix and cialis would mix and have me have a throbbing hard on off and on the next day including morning wood.

Yeah I do like my implant but if Injections wouldn't have decreased in efficacy I would have stuck with them the injection pill combo was awesome rockhard teenage like boners. You can do whatever you wish though but I would advise you to give the injections more than 3 tries the ache will hurt a less than the first few months after an implant.

[younggun1]

Why? I had great success and had women keep coming back for more with an injection/pill combo and never even told them about it. If you feel strongly that this cannot be a good option for you then you can go with an implant just keep in mind it will be a tough few months while you recover and their is a risk of complications.

Having to inject every time I want to have sex doesn't seem fun. I have an ache when I use trimix, you can't have morning sex or be completely spontaneous bc of only one injection per 24 hours, risk of scarring and priapism, and the satisfaction rate is higher with the implant.

Injections does not seem better than the implant unless I'm missing something. Just as many if not more risks, limitations, and risk of pain so doesn't seem appealing. Tried it twice. Plus I still feel like I don't get as hard as I used to with it.

Do you not like your implant?

Thats what I'm saying I could have morning sex Inject the night before after the boner goes down I take a cialis and the left over trimix and cialis would mix and have me have a throbbing hard on off and on the next day including morning wood.

Yeah I do like my implant but if Injections wouldn't have decreased in efficacy I would have stuck with them the injection pill combo was awesome rockhard teenage like boners. You can do whatever you wish though but I would advise you to give the injections more than 3 tries the ache will hurt a less than the first few months after an implant.

Well my urologist told me not to mix trimix and pills. Injections have an extremely high dropout rate after a year. I'm confused why you prefer the injections over implant. Sure I will have to recover for a couple months but then should likely be good for a decade or so before revision. Taking cialis after injection seems like a huge risk for priapism.

I don't want the stress of having to inject every time and hope it works and still have an ache and feel like my shit still isn't that hard. Implant satisfaction is significantly higher in studies too.

I want a total solution for this, not to stress about injecting and timing and dose. All the ED doctors agree implant is superior to injections. Maybe if I was 70 with a supportive partner or something. I don't see how injection is appealing at all over the implant but you've tried both so I guess that's fair for you to have that opinion.