How soon after surgery for intercouse?

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Johnm1
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How soon after surgery for intercouse?

Postby Johnm1 » Fri Jan 12, 2024 11:46 am

As the title says ... how soon after the implant surgery did the dr give the ok for vaginal sex or even a handjob? I'm almost 4 weeks out and it's killing me to not have some fun with my new toy!
RP in 2015; ED ever since; Urethral Sling and AUS; Bionic on 12/18/23; AMS 700LGX 18cm + 3cm RTE left & 2cm RTE right (Penoscrotal)

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Re: How soon after surgery for intercouse?

Postby newhope » Fri Jan 12, 2024 12:25 pm

Usually sex at 5th week

Have you started cycling? Which length erect do you get with your implant ?
LGX 18 + 1, 90 cc. 2023/12
Pre-OP VED length: 5.5". Post-OP: 4". At 3 months post-op: 5".
Cycling with a lot of pain for the first 5 months, now improving
If you have a motorcycle or a bike stop using it (ED with motorcycle accident).

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Re: How soon after surgery for intercouse?

Postby Old Guy » Fri Jan 12, 2024 2:12 pm

Every doc has different timelines. Mine was set for 6 weeks but saw the doc at 5 1/2 weeks and he gave the go ahead then. At 4 weeks out my body was not ready for anything as much as my mind was aching for it. Make sure the incision is well healed over before doing anything down there. An open wound messed with is risk for infection.
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Re: How soon after surgery for intercouse?

Postby SWorks17 » Fri Jan 12, 2024 2:21 pm

Johnm1 wrote:As the title says ... how soon after the implant surgery did the dr give the ok for vaginal sex or even a handjob? I'm almost 4 weeks out and it's killing me to not have some fun with my new toy!


My doc cleared me to have sex at the 6 week mark after I had cycling training, but at 6 weeks my scrotum was still a little swollen, sore and numb. I could barley get in 10 pumps at cycle training and it hurt a lot when trying to squeeze the pump bulb.
I sort of thought about trying to have PIV sex because I surely did want to have sex but I was hurting too much, so I waited till the 8th week to try and have PIV sex. The first time for me and my wife was awkward because I didn't feel like I could get enough pumps in to make it hard enough. I did have PIV sex with my wife but it wasn't that great, it hurt too much, and I don't think my dick was hard enough, I had problems finding her hole, I think because my shaft and glans were numb and it was hard to feel my way with my dick. lol. It also hurt a good bit after being inflated for 20 minutes. So the first time for me was disappointing but at least it was hard and I felt like a man again with a nice boner. I would say at the 6 month point is where sex started to feel pleasurable again.
As far as jacking off, my wife and I were on a mini vacation in Austin, Texas and I had my partial inflated boner from surgery, I was at the 4 week mark after surgery and I was horny as heck, but I knew there was no way that I could stick it in my wife; so while taking a hot shower, I just gently stroked the end of my glans area with some of my fingers and I was able to cum. It felt soooo good, but only do it gently.
Some guys heal quicker than others, especially the guys that have infrapubic install. I think you will get several different answers to your question.

Good Luck,
Use your own judgment about jacking off to get a nut, like I said, just be gentle
S-Works
Age 66, Garden Ridge Texas, Progressive ED after Boston Scientific Rezum procedure for benign enlarged prostate 19 May 21, AMS LGX 18 w 3cm rear tips installed 5 Nov 2021 by Dr Shane Barney, Brooke Army Medical Center, San Antonio, Texas, Married 36 years

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Re: How soon after surgery for intercouse?

Postby Txagq8 » Fri Jan 12, 2024 2:35 pm

Different doctors have different time lines for sure.

Different guys heal differently too.

I went in probably 9 times the first three weeks to see the doc or his PA. (I like the surgeon, but I absolutely worship his staff for the follow up and after care I got.)

2 weeks after surgery the PA left me in the exam room to “practice.” Getting comfortable cycling was my main challenge. I had bruised, and was sore, but other than stinging after urination for 3 days after surgery I had nothing i could call pain.

Anyway, the two of them come back in and the doc pokes and feels around and told me I could go back to sexual activity whenever I wanted.

Again, everything about my procedure was as planned. Zero complications. I did wait another 5 days before putting myself and the implant to the test. If my wife noticed I was 2” shorter she didn’t comment on it. About the only thing mentioned was not having to inject and worry made sex seem much more normal. The implant continues to be the elephant in the room. The whole description was “a minor surgical procedure to fix the ED.”

So….2 weeks and 5 days for me. Tbh I did ejaculate 4 days after surgery courtesy of the shower head.
Age 68. Physically fit educated red neck in Texas. Very married. 23 cm (18+5) of LGX installed by Dr. Bryan Kansas 12/31/2019. I fought the ED and my wife & I won. I’m either full of shit or sound advice. You decide which.

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Re: How soon after surgery for intercouse?

Postby silver daddy 1960 » Fri Jan 12, 2024 2:38 pm

Depends on type of procedure and Dr for sure. Dr Eid gave me all clear at week 3, cycling started at day 3 and I gave myself a gentle one at day five.
63 yrs old, NYC, DR. Eid Titan Coloplast Dec 10, 2021

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Re: How soon after surgery for intercouse?

Postby Witheringhog » Fri Jan 12, 2024 2:40 pm

Johnm1 wrote:As the title says ... how soon after the implant surgery did the dr give the ok for vaginal sex or even a handjob? I'm almost 4 weeks out and it's killing me to not have some fun with my new toy!


I got the all clear for sex/cycling week 5. Took me a couple days to figure out the release valve.
49 - Coloplast Titan 22 implanted 5-2 Dr. Clavell in Houston

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Re: How soon after surgery for intercouse?

Postby Johnm1 » Fri Jan 12, 2024 3:24 pm

Thanks all. The kids will be away next weekend and, well, maybe we'll try gently playing a bit. What the dr doesn't know won't hurt him!

I've been cycling a bit here and there but can only get, at most, maybe 4 or 5 pumps before I'm rock hard and ready for PIV penetration.

It's really nice having a hard on that lasts for more than 30 seconds.
RP in 2015; ED ever since; Urethral Sling and AUS; Bionic on 12/18/23; AMS 700LGX 18cm + 3cm RTE left & 2cm RTE right (Penoscrotal)

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Re: How soon after surgery for intercouse?

Postby Alex258 » Fri Jan 12, 2024 7:33 pm

Johnm1 wrote:As the title says ... how soon after the implant surgery did the dr give the ok for vaginal sex or even a handjob? I'm almost 4 weeks out and it's killing me to not have some fun with my new toy!


7 weeks for me. It also took awhile before it felt good too. Wonder how the first times were for others. 13 months in and it feels like the real deal.

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Re: How soon after surgery for intercouse?

Postby Stayingstrong » Sat Jan 13, 2024 4:30 am

First intercourse at 17 days post-op, 3 days after my post-op, stitch removal appointment. At that two week post-op appointment Dr. Eid said all looks good but give it another week before sex. I gave it three days before my girlfriend and I got too horny to wait the full week. LOL
Masturbated about a week after the procedure just to see if I had enough sensation to ejaculate. I did.
Now, at 5 1/2 weeks, I am using it like a porn star with mostly no pain, even at 100% inflation.
Dr. Eid knows his shit after doing over 8000 of these implants.
Age 70
Pills didn't work well. Trimix worked good for 3 years, then only fair for following 3 years but need a cock ring in conjunction.
Implant 12/6/2023 Dr. Eid
Coloplast Titan 20 cm with right side trimmed to 19 cm. No RTE. Classic pump.


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