Fear of Venous leakage.

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Fear of Venous leakage.

Postby rjnsingh98@gmail.com » Tue Apr 09, 2024 8:20 am

Hi All, I am new to this group, looking for symptoms of venous leakage. I am very afraid of venous leakage. I am not able to sleep. My story is that I had performance anxiety and one day I couldn’t perform, I came home and then checked myself masturbating, I was able to masturbate. I got very afraid. Now I am afraid that If I go for long foreplay, my erection will go down. Max I am
Able to have foreplay for around 8 mins. And I can have penetration sex without any fear. Max I can go for 15 mins of penetration sex. I don’t use any pills. Can I have venous leakage? Or it’s just my performance anxiety? Is there anyone who can have foreplay for 8 mins without any daily pill? I am very afraid of this venous leakage, can anyone please help me.
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Re: Fear of Venous leakage.

Postby Juerhareb » Tue Apr 09, 2024 8:44 am

rjnsingh98@gmail.com wrote:Hi All, I am new to this group, looking for symptoms of venous leakage. I am very afraid of venous leakage. I am not able to sleep. My story is that I had performance anxiety and one day I couldn’t perform, I came home and then checked myself masturbating, I was able to masturbate. I got very afraid. Now I am afraid that If I go for long foreplay, my erection will go down. Max I am
Able to have foreplay for around 8 mins. And I can have penetration sex without any fear. Max I can go for 15 mins. I don’t use any pills. Can I have venous leakage? Or it’s just my performance anxiety? Is there anyone who can have foreplay for 8 mins without any daily pill? I am very afraid of this venous leakage, can anyone please help me.

Not even in my dreams could I keep my erection during 15 minutes.
Late twenties. ED since very early twenties. Unable to have sex.
Implanted 20-03-2024 AMS LGX 21+3 cm. Dr Juan Ignacio Martínez Salamanca (Spain).

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Re: Fear of Venous leakage.

Postby Never_Enough » Tue Apr 09, 2024 9:18 am

Thanks to social media and pornography men are so quick to freak out when there is probably no need.

Let's look at some facts.

Most penetrative sex lasts on average 5 minutes.

Most men over 30 don't get random erections without stimulation and some don't get morning wood.. This doesn't equal ED.

If you can get and keep an erection for over 5 minutes you certainly dont have VL if you can keep it over 30 seconds it's highly unlikely.

VL is quite unusual. And it presents itself much more profoundly.

ED is when the cannot get or keep an erection long enough to have sex most of the time. Not losing it after 5 minutes or not being quite as hard as before.


Yes you'll get outliers on the Internet claiming that when they were 30 the mere thought of a woman gave them a foot long, and how their wives or partners had raging multiples over their hour long sessions, but most is nonsense.
38 m UK

Psychogenic ED since forever fewer problems being fully erect alone.
2 kids, 3rd on the way. Long term partner.
Chronic pelvic pain pudendal neuralgia and muscle tightness in late 2023 onwards making ED worse.
Cialis 5 mg daily and 15 mg as prn

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Re: Fear of Venous leakage.

Postby rjnsingh98@gmail.com » Tue Apr 09, 2024 11:51 am

Never_Enough wrote:Thanks to social media and pornography men are so quick to freak out when there is probably no need.

Let's look at some facts.

Most penetrative sex lasts on average 5 minutes.

Most men over 30 don't get random erections without stimulation and some don't get morning wood.. This doesn't equal ED.

If you can get and keep an erection for over 5 minutes you certainly dont have VL if you can keep it over 30 seconds it's highly unlikely.

VL is quite unusual. And it presents itself much more profoundly.

ED is when the cannot get or keep an erection long enough to have sex most of the time. Not losing it after 5 minutes or not being quite as hard as before.


Yes you'll get outliers on the Internet claiming that when they were 30 the mere thought of a woman gave them a foot long, and how their wives or partners had raging multiples over their hour long sessions, but most is nonsense.



Yeah I got even more scared after checking this site. I am
Still scared, I got health anxiety now. I am also thinking if the blood stays in the penis for 5 mins, so that means it has the capability of holding the blood.

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Re: Fear of Venous leakage.

Postby rjnsingh98@gmail.com » Wed Apr 10, 2024 6:38 am

People don’t reply I don’t know why? If anyone got venous leak please help me in diagnosis, I don’t want to have doppler that is a fake test I know.

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Re: Fear of Venous leakage.

Postby frank66665 » Wed Apr 10, 2024 8:45 am

up to the age of 43 I had no problems, my cock turned to steel as soon as I saw a thigh, I could do foreplay and fuck until I reached orgasm, I could do anal even without lubricant, even if it hurt a little when I entered, it remained hard like a rock, if you have this problem, or you have performance anxiety or venous escape, it is certain that something is not working well
56, ED since 2010, pills work but not always and well, trt in progress improved but not so much, myocardial infarction january 2016, new stent september 2016, hypertension, venous on 1/23/23 titan one touch 22, no rte dottor Gabriele Antonini Italia

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Re: Fear of Venous leakage.

Postby rjnsingh98@gmail.com » Wed Apr 10, 2024 8:59 am

frank66665 wrote:up to the age of 43 I had no problems, my cock turned to steel as soon as I saw a thigh, I could do foreplay and fuck until I reached orgasm, I could do anal even without lubricant, even if it hurt a little when I entered, it remained hard like a rock, if you have this problem, or you have performance anxiety or venous escape, it is certain that something is not working well



Yes I have performance anxiety, and now fear of venous leakage. It’s been 2 months of my marriage, I am able to have sex everyday, even 3 rounds, with full erection, it’s just that i am not able to have long foreplay just because of the fear it can go down, max i have been able to go for 8 mins, after that i start feeling that i should penetrate because of the fear. So i am not able to validate that whether i have VL or not

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Re: Fear of Venous leakage.

Postby frank66665 » Wed Apr 10, 2024 9:41 am

rjnsingh98@gmail.com wrote:
frank66665 wrote:up to the age of 43 I had no problems, my cock turned to steel as soon as I saw a thigh, I could do foreplay and fuck until I reached orgasm, I could do anal even without lubricant, even if it hurt a little when I entered, it remained hard like a rock, if you have this problem, or you have performance anxiety or venous escape, it is certain that something is not working well



Yes I have performance anxiety, and now fear of venous leakage. It’s been 2 months of my marriage, I am able to have sex everyday, even 3 rounds, with full erection, it’s just that i am not able to have long foreplay just because of the fear it can go down, max i have been able to go for 8 mins, after that i start feeling that i should penetrate because of the fear. So i am not able to validate that whether i have VL or not

carry on like this, sooner or later it will pass, if you had venous leak you wouldn't even be able to do 1
56, ED since 2010, pills work but not always and well, trt in progress improved but not so much, myocardial infarction january 2016, new stent september 2016, hypertension, venous on 1/23/23 titan one touch 22, no rte dottor Gabriele Antonini Italia

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Re: Fear of Venous leakage.

Postby rjnsingh98@gmail.com » Thu Apr 11, 2024 3:53 am

frank66665 wrote:
rjnsingh98@gmail.com wrote:
frank66665 wrote:up to the age of 43 I had no problems, my cock turned to steel as soon as I saw a thigh, I could do foreplay and fuck until I reached orgasm, I could do anal even without lubricant, even if it hurt a little when I entered, it remained hard like a rock, if you have this problem, or you have performance anxiety or venous escape, it is certain that something is not working well



Yes I have performance anxiety, and now fear of venous leakage. It’s been 2 months of my marriage, I am able to have sex everyday, even 3 rounds, with full erection, it’s just that i am not able to have long foreplay just because of the fear it can go down, max i have been able to go for 8 mins, after that i start feeling that i should penetrate because of the fear. So i am not able to validate that whether i have VL or not

carry on like this, sooner or later it will pass, if you had venous leak you wouldn't even be able to do 1




Thanks Man, I appreciate your response.

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Re: Fear of Venous leakage.

Postby rjnsingh98@gmail.com » Thu Apr 11, 2024 3:57 am

Juerhareb wrote:
rjnsingh98@gmail.com wrote:Hi All, I am new to this group, looking for symptoms of venous leakage. I am very afraid of venous leakage. I am not able to sleep. My story is that I had performance anxiety and one day I couldn’t perform, I came home and then checked myself masturbating, I was able to masturbate. I got very afraid. Now I am afraid that If I go for long foreplay, my erection will go down. Max I am
Able to have foreplay for around 8 mins. And I can have penetration sex without any fear. Max I can go for 15 mins. I don’t use any pills. Can I have venous leakage? Or it’s just my performance anxiety? Is there anyone who can have foreplay for 8 mins without any daily pill? I am very afraid of this venous leakage, can anyone please help me.

Not even in my dreams could I keep my erection during 15 minutes.


Yeah but I saw people here who can maintain for 5-6 mins using their hand stimulation who have VL, and they are able to masturbate. So I got afraid.


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