Dating with an Implant

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.



Drhite
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Re: Dating with an Implant

Postby Drhite » Thu Nov 21, 2024 2:39 pm

Concur 100%... girls only get to love it. Some ask when doing BLS, all respond saying, so you stay hard as long as you want? Yep...

Most rave about being able to stay rock hard with cowgirl as common dick cant stay hard for them to cum more than once.

On a selfish side, im amazed at being able to have multiple orgasms like the joy of women do.

LetoMan wrote:Gatorman, I am you, just a little younger, haha, I turned 50 two weeks ago. Separated for a year after sexless marriage, implanted 6 months ago. I’ve had sex with close to two dozen women in that time, a few of them many times.

Not one has suspected an implant.

I don’t think I ever will tell anyone again. Maybe if I eventually decide I want a committed relationship, I’ll tell her. But probably not early on.

At first I was apprehensive about girls playing with my balls, but not anymore. Girls play with and lick my scrotum, and I’ve stopped worrying about them feeling my pump. They just don’t notice it. If they do, I’ll probably say something like “oh, it’s nothing.”

I feel like it’s the same thing as girls with breast implants. It’s not like they are disclosing it up front: “hey, just so you know before we fuck, I have fake tits”. If you are a gentleman, you’re not gonna say anything either. And we are all aware fake tits exist. Nobody has any clue bionic dicks exist.

The girl I fuck the most loooooooves my dick. One night she says she lost count of how many times she came after 20 something. She has set up two different threesomes for us with her friends (she loves bi girls and loves threesomes) and is super proud of how hard I fuck her friends. In addition to the sex, we get along great and talk about everything. I’ve thought about telling her, but why? Does it matter to her? Not at all. She just loves that I am super hard all the time and make her spurt like a fire hydrant.

I did tell two girls early after implantation after the first time we fucked. I mostly told them because I suspected that I would not be seeing them again, they were in another country I did not plan on visiting much. Their reaction? Wow, that’s super cool. So you can fuck on demand for as long as you want? That’s amazing. Let’s go again. When can I see you again?

I’ve also stopped bothering to pretend I don’t just have a hard cock all the time. I pump it up before going on dates. My main girl loves to rub it through my pants under the table, and is proud to see all my precum on my black undies once she gets my pants off. And I just leave it pumped after I’m done. I’ll lie there in bed post coital with my guy still standing at attention. They love it. How do you stay so hard? They ask. I’m just like that, I say. Wanna hop back on? Sure!

I can’t tell you how much fun you are gonna have with your little friend. Just today I fucked a girl for the second time, after first fucking her a few days ago. The first time I came twice and she came twice, with a standard break in between for me. But today I just went for about an hour and a half straight. I didn’t bother stopping after cumming. I’m not quite sure how many times I came. It got so that I was having like extended orgasms. I wasn’t quite sure where they started and where they ended. But I didn’t even pause… just rolled with it. She also lost track of hers - there were at least three - and was quivering with ecstasy at the end. She had only had her first orgasm a year before (she’s now 21) and said she had never had multiples until me. Today she said “I’ve never been fucked like that before.” Which is motherfucking angels-playing-harp-music to the ears of a 50 year old pudgy dude who has had ED his whole life but a very high libido.

I am having by far - by far! - the best sex of my life at middle age. And twenty-something sexpots are adoring my cock. And my confidence - and ability to bed them - has increased as a result.

But I digress. You can tell women you got an implant if you want to. But I would recommend you don’t. Just roll with it. If you get to where you want to get serious with someone, then maybe you tell her. If she reacts negatively, then you have learned something- she’s probably not the right one for you. And you won’t give a shit because you got a bionic cock and there are lots of women out there that would love to have a guy that can fuck them like they want.

But I suspect she’ll just love your cock, however it works. You’ve got a superpower. You’ve got something very, very few middle aged dudes have. Even the ones who don’t have ED struggle a little bit. You don’t. Anytime, anywhere, for as long as they want it (or can take it). Everyone hated it when George Lucas tried to explain the Force with mitochlorians. No one needs to know the science behind how Superman flies. Lois Lane doesn’t care that Superman’s steel cock wasn’t caused by her but by the earth’s sun. The girls just want you to fuck them, to call you daddy and have you mistreat them a little bit in bed. Just a little.

As for timing, my first romp was after nine weeks, and my recovery was not smooth, I had a lot of swelling. It still kinda hurt to masturbate then. But soft sweet pussy was just right. There is definitely some adjustment, though, in learning how to cum again… you may feel delayed, and the methods by which you do will likely change as your dick has changed.

My first time was one girl one night, and her and her friend the next night! Check out my past posts, I wrote the whole thing up. It was amazing. But four months later, I am doing even better, the sex is better, it’s all just amazing. It’s the best thing that ever happened to me besides the birth of my child. And I can’t really tell anyone how amazing it is except you guys.

Have fun, GatorMan. Let us know how it goes.

Be well,
Leto
LGX 700 18.5cm 6'23 by Kaiser Dr. Moheydar do not recom. 12 wks LT cyl failure. Rev to Genesis 11'23.Poor inst again, twisted cyli & tub 3rd surgery Dr Odorica Nov24, with near perfect & web removal. Postop length 5.5" near 6" normal.

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Re: Dating with an Implant

Postby treetop » Tue Nov 26, 2024 5:56 pm

well... I guess I am different.. but my pump is very apparent, and of course hard compared to my balls.. but I just tell the girl I am with what it is, last week actually and she grabbed my dick with one hand, and started to pump with the other... like a new toy she loved it... I love my balls tickled so she would have wondered what the pump was anyway.

I don't see it as a negative or anything to hide. If I had a bionic arm that could punch through walls, I probably would not hide that face either :)

Its awesome because I can be soft, medium, hard, or rock hard, or anywhere in between. Whats not to like.
My girl can get her dick to order.. any way she likes it :)
-TT
Treetop
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Titan Coloplast 22cm by Dr. EID - 40% venous leak.
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Re: Dating with an Implant

Postby Time2Change » Tue Nov 26, 2024 7:23 pm

Gatorman97 wrote:Hey gents,

I’m a new 51 year old member here and was implanted 3 weeks ago with a Titan Coloplast and have had a very smooth recovery thus far. I’m single, divorced in the last several months after a long-term and mostly sexless marriage (at least at the end). Obviously, I’m eager to completely heal up, begin cycling (I may get clearance this week at my post op), and then begin to use the equipment with women I date.

Asking the single guys for whether (if) and/or how they tell dating partners about the implant. What has the reaction been? Also, my first time using this “in the wild” will be with a dating partner. I want to avoid any issues and will want to make sure everything is healed up. I know everyone heals differently but realistically wonder when I will be able to take this thing out for a spin.

Thanks in advance!


I'm not single, so I don't have personal experience with having to share or not share about my implant.

My hunch is that many women your age have been with men who have been experiencing ED, so they would probably take it in stride if you do tell them about your implant.

As far as timing, I was cleared to have sex at eight weeks, and the first time wasn't good. In fact, it wasn't until close to four months after my operation that fucking really started to feel good.

But now it's great, every time. So, don't worry if it takes a while for the pain and discomfort to go away and the pleasure to take over.

I hope this helps.
56; ED for 23+ years; Coloplast Titan implant on 10/26/20; Dr. Martin Gross; Happy to share my experiences in private messages

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Re: Dating with an Implant

Postby duke_cicero » Tue Nov 26, 2024 7:34 pm

LetoMan wrote:Gatorman, I am you, just a little younger, haha, I turned 50 two weeks ago. Separated for a year after sexless marriage, implanted 6 months ago. I’ve had sex with close to two dozen women in that time, a few of them many times.

Not one has suspected an implant.

I don’t think I ever will tell anyone again. Maybe if I eventually decide I want a committed relationship, I’ll tell her. But probably not early on.

At first I was apprehensive about girls playing with my balls, but not anymore. Girls play with and lick my scrotum, and I’ve stopped worrying about them feeling my pump. They just don’t notice it. If they do, I’ll probably say something like “oh, it’s nothing.”

I feel like it’s the same thing as girls with breast implants. It’s not like they are disclosing it up front: “hey, just so you know before we fuck, I have fake tits”. If you are a gentleman, you’re not gonna say anything either. And we are all aware fake tits exist. Nobody has any clue bionic dicks exist.

The girl I fuck the most loooooooves my dick. One night she says she lost count of how many times she came after 20 something. She has set up two different threesomes for us with her friends (she loves bi girls and loves threesomes) and is super proud of how hard I fuck her friends. In addition to the sex, we get along great and talk about everything. I’ve thought about telling her, but why? Does it matter to her? Not at all. She just loves that I am super hard all the time and make her spurt like a fire hydrant.

I did tell two girls early after implantation after the first time we fucked. I mostly told them because I suspected that I would not be seeing them again, they were in another country I did not plan on visiting much. Their reaction? Wow, that’s super cool. So you can fuck on demand for as long as you want? That’s amazing. Let’s go again. When can I see you again?

I’ve also stopped bothering to pretend I don’t just have a hard cock all the time. I pump it up before going on dates. My main girl loves to rub it through my pants under the table, and is proud to see all my precum on my black undies once she gets my pants off. And I just leave it pumped after I’m done. I’ll lie there in bed post coital with my guy still standing at attention. They love it. How do you stay so hard? They ask. I’m just like that, I say. Wanna hop back on? Sure!

I can’t tell you how much fun you are gonna have with your little friend. Just today I fucked a girl for the second time, after first fucking her a few days ago. The first time I came twice and she came twice, with a standard break in between for me. But today I just went for about an hour and a half straight. I didn’t bother stopping after cumming. I’m not quite sure how many times I came. It got so that I was having like extended orgasms. I wasn’t quite sure where they started and where they ended. But I didn’t even pause… just rolled with it. She also lost track of hers - there were at least three - and was quivering with ecstasy at the end. She had only had her first orgasm a year before (she’s now 21) and said she had never had multiples until me. Today she said “I’ve never been fucked like that before.” Which is motherfucking angels-playing-harp-music to the ears of a 50 year old pudgy dude who has had ED his whole life but a very high libido.

I am having by far - by far! - the best sex of my life at middle age. And twenty-something sexpots are adoring my cock. And my confidence - and ability to bed them - has increased as a result.

But I digress. You can tell women you got an implant if you want to. But I would recommend you don’t. Just roll with it. If you get to where you want to get serious with someone, then maybe you tell her. If she reacts negatively, then you have learned something- she’s probably not the right one for you. And you won’t give a shit because you got a bionic cock and there are lots of women out there that would love to have a guy that can fuck them like they want.

But I suspect she’ll just love your cock, however it works. You’ve got a superpower. You’ve got something very, very few middle aged dudes have. Even the ones who don’t have ED struggle a little bit. You don’t. Anytime, anywhere, for as long as they want it (or can take it). Everyone hated it when George Lucas tried to explain the Force with mitochlorians. No one needs to know the science behind how Superman flies. Lois Lane doesn’t care that Superman’s steel cock wasn’t caused by her but by the earth’s sun. The girls just want you to fuck them, to call you daddy and have you mistreat them a little bit in bed. Just a little.

As for timing, my first romp was after nine weeks, and my recovery was not smooth, I had a lot of swelling. It still kinda hurt to masturbate then. But soft sweet pussy was just right. There is definitely some adjustment, though, in learning how to cum again… you may feel delayed, and the methods by which you do will likely change as your dick has changed.

My first time was one girl one night, and her and her friend the next night! Check out my past posts, I wrote the whole thing up. It was amazing. But four months later, I am doing even better, the sex is better, it’s all just amazing. It’s the best thing that ever happened to me besides the birth of my child. And I can’t really tell anyone how amazing it is except you guys.

Have fun, GatorMan. Let us know how it goes.

Be well,
Leto


Leto, I can't let you have all the fun!! I'll report back in about a month or so after I'm cleared for sex...
Born 1990. ED since age 20 after a bicycle accident. Coloplast Genesis malleable implanted December 2024. Read my implant journal here.

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Re: Dating with an Implant

Postby LetoMan » Tue Nov 26, 2024 10:10 pm

Glad you got it sorted out, Duke! A month?!?! You haven’t even had surgery yet! It’s gonna take at least eight weeks post surgery. Give yourself some time to recuperate.
50. Implanted 5/21/2024 at Kaiser SSF. AMS 700 CX 21cm, 3cm RTE. Penoscrotal. Venous leak my whole life. Pills helped, but hated the side effects; worked less as I aged. Skipped injections. Grateful to bionic brotherhood that helped me make this decision.

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Re: Dating with an Implant

Postby duke_cicero » Tue Nov 26, 2024 10:31 pm

LetoMan wrote:Glad you got it sorted out, Duke! A month?!?! You haven’t even had surgery yet! It’s gonna take at least eight weeks post surgery. Give yourself some time to recuperate.


Even with a malleable? I'm reading 2 weeks, thereabout... maybe not! Either way, I'll let you know, lol
Born 1990. ED since age 20 after a bicycle accident. Coloplast Genesis malleable implanted December 2024. Read my implant journal here.

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Re: Dating with an Implant

Postby easymoney » Wed Nov 27, 2024 8:09 am

I have a malleable and I was told 6 weeks before sex .. but my 2nd malleable implant to replace the first undersized implant hurt for 4 months before I could even think about having sex ..
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Re: Dating with an Implant

Postby Hope84 » Wed Nov 27, 2024 4:21 pm

treetop wrote:well... I guess I am different.. but my pump is very apparent, and of course hard compared to my balls.. but I just tell the girl I am with what it is, last week actually and she grabbed my dick with one hand, and started to pump with the other... like a new toy she loved it... I love my balls tickled so she would have wondered what the pump was anyway.

I don't see it as a negative or anything to hide. If I had a bionic arm that could punch through walls, I probably would not hide that face either :)

Its awesome because I can be soft, medium, hard, or rock hard, or anywhere in between. Whats not to like.
My girl can get her dick to order.. any way she likes it :)
-TT


Has the implant in any way changed your sensation when a girl plays with your balls? Is it as pleasurable for you, is it any weirder for your partner (obviously there is a pump in there but does she mind?)?

I am asking because I am a huge fan of ballplay to the point that I get really disappointed if a girl does not fondle my balls. I like when they go a little rough (not a kick to the balls but a firm grab, squeeze, or a bit of pulling drives me crazy).

I am getting implanted next week with a CX so I do worry a little that I will feel different about ballplay after the surgery.
30 years old French with ED caused by priapism episodes at the age of 15. Implanted with 21cm + 3cm RTEs AMS 700 CX MS pump on 05/12/2024 by Dr Sébastien Beley. Pills had lost most of their potency, injections worked but were painful and inconvenient.

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Re: Dating with an Implant

Postby dan_bionic » Thu Nov 28, 2024 7:46 am

Hope84, the sensation might be reduced for the first some time, but after 3-6 months it all come back.
Re playing with the balls you must be careful in the beginning with pulling on the balls, while there is a healing time, where it might pain.
Cheers
Dan
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Implant July 20th, 2023, AMS LGX 18cm plus 5 cm RTE
That was the best I could ever do and I should have done it much earlier.
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Re: Dating with an Implant

Postby treetop » Thu Nov 28, 2024 9:35 am

I am 5 1/2 months in…
Had my car serviced last week, and instead of waiting for an hour in the lobby, I walked over to a massage parlor… and yes, lots of ball play and it was great…. She noticed my pump to see if it was ok to touch, and I gave permission. Let’s just say it was a good time. Pulling etc no issues with me. But I am 5 months in as I said.

I think after a few months it’s all same, your gear is just different… better… stronger… etc. :)
TT
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Implanted on 6/14/2024 at Manhattan ENT Hospital NY.
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