Surgery tomorrow and I’m scared to death! L

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Chieftom
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Surgery tomorrow and I’m scared to death! L

Postby Chieftom » Wed Dec 04, 2024 3:54 pm

Tomorrow is the day and ive been all over all the online sites. Getting the implant tomorrow coming home and the catheter will be removed Friday. Any words of wisdom?

nuance
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Re: Surgery tomorrow and I’m scared to death! L

Postby nuance » Wed Dec 04, 2024 4:06 pm

That’s how I would feel as well. Can you say where you’re getting it done? What might help is to read positive experiences on here and pray it goes well.

Do you have anyone accompanying you?

Chieftom
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Re: Surgery tomorrow and I’m scared to death! L

Postby Chieftom » Wed Dec 04, 2024 4:08 pm

South east Florida. Yes my wife is taking me

jssherrard
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Re: Surgery tomorrow and I’m scared to death! L

Postby jssherrard » Wed Dec 04, 2024 4:10 pm

Chieftom wrote:Tomorrow is the day and ive been all over all the online sites. Getting the implant tomorrow coming home and the catheter will be removed Friday. Any words of wisdom?


Yes. Be patient with yourself! Lots of rest the first week or two. Ice (I used bags of frozen peas) will be your friend. The initial recovery can be rough, but it’s temporary. Don’t get discouraged. Your future self will thank you. Oh, and I hope you’ll continue to share your journey with the rest of us here.
Aggressive prostate cancer (genetically predisposed) at 52. Required immediate intervention. Robot Assisted Radical Prostatectomy (RARP) in December 2021. Erectile function never returned. Penile implant (AMS-700) in March 2024. Bionic Boys Club FTW!

nuance
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Re: Surgery tomorrow and I’m scared to death! L

Postby nuance » Wed Dec 04, 2024 4:15 pm

I don’t want to hijack this thread but is it possible to do this on your own without help? I believe some of the international patients have done it, in that case do they hire a nurse?

Chieftom
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Postby Chieftom » Wed Dec 04, 2024 4:28 pm

That’s helpful I am going to document, best I can my total experience for others. That would have been helpful to me

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Re: Surgery tomorrow and I’m scared to death! L

Postby Hope84 » Wed Dec 04, 2024 4:30 pm

Chieftom wrote:Tomorrow is the day and ive been all over all the online sites. Getting the implant tomorrow coming home and the catheter will be removed Friday. Any words of wisdom?


Hey, I’m currently in the hospital waiting for my surgery tomorrow as well! 8am Paris time. We’re in the same boat! One advice to reassure you: if you have doubts about going for the surgery, think hard and deep about all the sexual failures that you have been through in your life. The frustration, anger, depression, sense of worthlessness that came with all the times you failed to get it up with a partner. This worked very well for me lol.

May I ask how old you are? Which implant model are you getting?

Good luck! You’re not alone.
30 years old French with ED caused by priapism episodes at the age of 15. Implanted with 21cm + 3cm RTEs AMS 700 CX MS pump on 05/12/2024 by Dr Sébastien Beley. Pills had lost most of their potency, injections worked but were painful and inconvenient.

Chieftom
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Re: Surgery tomorrow and I’m scared to death! L

Postby Chieftom » Wed Dec 04, 2024 4:48 pm

Thanks. I forgot the model but it’s the newest good luck to you!

equusAz
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Re: Surgery tomorrow and I’m scared to death! L

Postby equusAz » Wed Dec 04, 2024 5:27 pm

Hang in there! You aren't alone! My surgery is on Monday. Seems like there's a group of us going under and in. Best of luck to you!
48yo gay married male - Size before cancer / ED = 7.5" x 6.25" (current 5.5x5.2). AMS 700 CX implanted 12/9/24. 18cm + 1cm RTE and 18cm + 2cm RTE.
Implant Journal: https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?t=25158

Chieftom
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Re: Surgery tomorrow and I’m scared to death! L

Postby Chieftom » Wed Dec 04, 2024 5:28 pm

You too!


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