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TOMVIC
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Postby TOMVIC » Tue May 20, 2014 11:28 pm

after 3 years down the line i am still incon, plus nothing else working so anyone got any advice. thank God I have a good wife but life for her must be most unkind let alone me

Anonymous2
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Re: ed

Postby Anonymous2 » Thu May 22, 2014 10:00 am

Hi Tom What have you been trying so far in the way of meds or herbs? if you can let us know we can kick in some info that may help.
Can you get any kind of reaction from your penis even soft erections, any kind of a morning wood at any time, Are you on any kind of meds, heart, HBP, depression, anxiety, diabetes, painkillers all these and a lot more are sex killers.
So what happened 3 years ago? or was this slowly coming on before that?
See any kind of info would help us to help you.

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TOMVIC
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Re: ed

Postby TOMVIC » Sun May 25, 2014 11:08 pm

thanks 4 u answer no I'm not on much medication, just asthma and pain relief 4 osteoarthritis.
just getting depressed about the wees which a pad change a day, and no erections.
most unromantic but i use a pump as nothing else worked. my wife finds all this hard to adjust to. But I have been told one must keep trying or else u get apothecary (not sure if I spell that right)
and it is very hard to get proper equipment here so I use the sex shop ones. am concerned I maybe using a too tight a ring as nothing kept it up until recently I found a rubber one that i have to wrap it twice to get to stay up even though it supposed keep it up just the one turn. it is very hard to get it on and off.
appreciate any suggestions, as I have used quite a bit of money and time trying.
my wife says don't be so concerned but afraid I am, she plays with me whilst hold my very shrunken penis and get a sort of climax, but she gets nothing, so I find I not doing it much as I think it is most unfair to her

TOMVIC
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Re: ed

Postby TOMVIC » Sun May 25, 2014 11:14 pm

maybe forgot mention that I had a Radical Prostatectomy 3 yrs ago plus lots of other cancers removed on back, arms ect.
I would appreciate any private views or whatever thanks

Anonymous2
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Re: ed

Postby Anonymous2 » Tue May 27, 2014 11:23 am

Hi Tom, Try this you just google it, radical prostatectomy ed recovery, you may find the answer there, it could be you have nerve problems, but do read about it.
have a read of this, it could help you and your wife, its something a found a couple of years ago.
The most important information I got from the convention was a method which makes it possible to have inter course with a flaccid or semi erect penis.
The following technique was described at the symposium: The man lies flat on his back, the women straddles him in a half kneeling position, leaning on her left knee, and on the right foot. This gives her room to manipulate with her right hand, She clamps the penis firmly but not to tightly at the base with her thumb and index finger (palm facing the mans body).This causes sufficient firmness to allow insertion. The women then sits firmly upon the penis. This approach permit she a wide range of movement and not only enables a considerable penetration but gives her the opportunity to rub her clitoris against her index finger.
When the erection is complete she may remove her hand and let her partner begin the active coital movement.
If for any reason this method doesn’t not, then the couple should try a special friction technique between a flaccid penis and the clitoris. The man lies flat on his back. The women lies on top of him in a prone superior position. She begins to embrace and kiss him passionately. Then she starts a belly dance movement to stimulate the penis. Later she assumes a position which enables her to rub her clitoris to the soft penis. By kissing her partner and the clitoris friction she will get aroused, which, in turn, will excite her partner. Then he may achieve a partial or full erection.
In the former case she used the clamping technique, and in the latter case she may start coitus by inserting his penis.
It appears that more and more men are losing their ability to have intercourse with a women without her active participation, there is very little a man can do to cure his own impotence and sympathetic woman can do it for him.

What you have read above comes from a 1970 Forum magazine, its from a piece written by Dr Eugene Scheimann, when he went to a swingers convention in Chicago, and this was a small part on impotence/ED, its so us men could have some kind of sex lives before drugs come to the front to overcome ED

As you can see it a way of have sex with out a full or semi erection, you may have to try it a couple of before you get it right, but a guy on says it dose work for him and well.
For a pump, have a look on www.pegym.com there's the Bathmate you can have a look at, and I think your find some other pumps on there, if I'm right I think there is a section on pumps.

Do hope something here helps.

Good Luck
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