To tell friends or not about implant?

[shadowwolfe]

I have told my wife of course. My dad also knows since I had to cancel a trip with my parents for the surgery. Him and I had talked before anyhow, because he also had ed from prostate cancer. I saw a personal ad once from a guy asking if anyone had a implant. I wrote and talked to him about it and he asked if he could see it and I let him. He watched as I inflated and deflated. I wasn't uncomfortable at all because I wish someone would have done that for me. Sometimes I wonder if I should confine in my church leader. My package shows through my clothes. You can see the outline clealry if your looking. I was working with the youth when suddenly I was pulled. I noticed a week before this, one women was glancing at my package while I was standing up front as they sang happy birthday to me. They didn't give me a reason for letting me go without notice and only said I did a good job, but I wonder if my now pronounced package made them uncomfortable. Just afraid If I told my local church leader, he could say something and soon word would spread. The only reason I have thought about it, is so they know I'm not a sex maniac that gets excited around kids or women in the church. I have even worn double underwear at times but that is just too uncomfortable and still did not hide the bulge.

[stkman]

Told my family about my decision to pursue an implant. We are very close and I didn't want to lie to them because this is a serious operation. I go to the urologist Tuesday for consultation. I agree with another poster that said he would confide with another guy in the same situation.

[ready1]

The way I look at it ...It's not much different from a breast implant..only it's hard to hide a breast implant..lol

[dg_moore]

Looks like most of us keep this to ourselves. I, too, have told no one (present company excepted). Only I, my wife, and my docs know I have the implant. If somebody asked, I'd readily admit to having one, but I'm not advertising it either. Seems to me it's nobody's business.

[billyt0808]

i dont hesitate to tell most people, friends especially, if they are male and have had ED or prostate issues. i wish i had known someone with an implant prior to my procedure. i sure it would have helped to speak with someone with "hands on" experience.