PCHelp76180 wrote:... I can only imagine it must be what a woman feels post mastectomy or menopause.
I've experienced both. My late wife had a mastectomy at 36. That, plus the ongoing (and ultimately unsuccessful) cancer treatment caused her to lose all interest in sex, and understandably so. I remarried at 49, and several years later my current wife also lost interest in sex following menopause (in addition to the years of frustration while fumbling around with ED). So these can be powerful factors.
Being able to achieve an erection is no guarantee that your sex life will be restored - I got an implant, 5 years too late, and we have never used it (I had a stroke that took away my libido so I also have no interest in sex). As I have said here numerous times, if you need an implant get it - nothing good comes from delaying the decision.