Am I a wanker?

[Daveuk36]

Lets be honest guys, we all do it! We give it lots of names, choke the chicken, spank the monkey, clear the pipes, i could go on, but the fact is we enjoy a good tug. That is, I did. Now trying to get the little fella to stand to attention while i give him a good tugging can be a thankless task.
So why do I/we keep at it?
Well, for some of us it may be the only release we get, too soft for penetrative sex we rely on ourselves, wives, girlfriend, boyfriend to give us a hand job. But then as i lay back once ive done i start to think, am i being selfish, should i return the 'favour' or should i just mop up with a wet wipe and go to sleep?

Then i start to wonder, what makes a good wank? Lube? Videos? I personally think a lock on the bedroom door can be a great way to start! Do you need to be hard as iron or will a semihard one do, is it better with a foreskin, how long should you take, how often should you do it?

For me, the advantage of some alone time is, there is no pressure, i can take my time, im not looking to please anyone but myself, and if half way through my dick decides to go back to sleep, then i dont feel i have let anybody down.

So lets be open and honest, if you have a great technique, come (no pun intended) and share it with us. Whats works for you? If we are gonna do it, lets make it as good as we can.

And then maybe, like me, next time you hear someone shout 'Oi wanker' you will stop and turn and say yes I am!

[rich1958]

I haven't responded to any other posts but this one caught my eye, so here goes. A little background first, I'm 51 and had a 2 year struggle with ED. Finally when to see a urologist who prescribed cialis. Started last month and it's been great. I know from chatting with some guys that some of you have had problems with it but for me its great. I've had sex with my wife more in the last 6 weeks then in the previous 5 years. Also been feeling horny again and have had good morning and night time hard-ons.

Now that I'm back in business in the hard-on area I can really enjoy jerking off again. For me I really enjoy a long session in the shower. It's the only place I can be alone and really take my time. I've jerked off in other parts of the house, usually in front of the computer looking at porn. Anyway to get back to the shower. I like to lie down on my back on the shower floor and aim the spray towards the wall. I use a body wash and and just spread it all over. Then I start to play with my cock and balls feeling how smooth and slippery they are and how hard my cock now gets. I also have a vibrator which I sometime use in my ass. I love the feel of it against my prostate. Between that and the body wash on my cock I can stroke to a hugh finish.

Since I haven't posted before I hope this wasn't to much. I'll understand if it can't be posted.

Rich

[PK Man]

Pretty cool.

I am happy for guys who are able to fly solo. Might suggest the book "101 ways to Masturbate". I don't jack off, because I want to save every "drop" for my wife. (Just my thing - not for every guy). I still like the feel though when alone, and, of course with my wife.

I feel lucky just getting the little guy to stand up.

Dave, enjoy the freedom. Sounds like you are on to something. Now you can start exploring different tecniques. Thanks for venturing into this mine field. There are a lot of guys who need this. I will be looking for more of your posts.

Rich. Good for you man. It is neat the your libido has increased as well. Now when your wife walks into the bath and sees you writhing on the floor she just might join you for the eruption.

[Daveuk36]

Guys, thanks for the replys.
Rich, thats exactly the kind of reply was looking for, awsome buddy!
Pk, thanks as always.
Dave

[Daveuk36]

Ok, time to put my money where my mouth is.
How do i wank?
I wont go into when i just have a quick shuffle in my pants.
However if i have some time and privacy i like to take my time.
I always like to start in my undies, rubbing through the material until i get a fairly decent hard on, which doesnt take too long. (as i've said, i get hard, its keeping hard that i cant manage)
Then its pants pushed down to just under my balls, as they are small i enjoy the slight pressure the waistband puts on them.
I tend to pull my foreskin over my cockhead and then back,using my finger and thumb, dont really use any lube. I will happily do this for a while and its good hard or semihard. I liketo use my other hand to play with my nuts, gently squeezing and pulling then down as well as pulling the skin of my scrotum.
When im ready to cum, i grab my shaft at base (in all honesty can only hold one way as the lenght is the same as my handspan, lol) and with a very firm grip just wank until i cum. Sadly i rarely orgasm and it tends to ooze these days, but i still enjoy it.
So there you go, for those of you who asked, hope im not too boring.

ps all the above is better if can do outdoors, lol

[rich1958]

Ok guys.

Dave started an interesting topic here and I certainly put myself on the line sharing one of my intense sessions. While there have been lots of views where are the replys? We all do it, there's nothing to be embarrassed about. All Dave was asking for was to share. Let us know, do you stand, sit, lie down? Where do you do it, bed, bath, outside? Do you use lube or not?


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[FLRich]

Was in chat the other night, I think Thursday, and we were talking about "wanking". I was asked to post about wanking here, so being as I always do what I am told, here goes:

I jack off a lot. Every day, sometimes twice a day. I am 53, divorced, and live alone. I love to jack off. No one can control my unit the way I can. I am a dry jacker. I do not usually use lube, though at times it's cool. I jack off a lot to porn. Usually go to youporn and find a video to wank to. Sometimes I feel straight, so I watch straight porn. Sometimes I feel like a man and watch two dudes going at it. The thing is, to be honest with yourself, so you can get the hardest hardon. I have never used a vibrator, or a sex toy, but I do like to slide a lubed finger up my ass at times while I am jacking. I like to tug on my nuts while jacking. This makes me harder. I like my nuts to ache a little while jacking off.

Anyway, now you all know how Rich jacks off his unit. Hope this wasn't too "frank".

[franglais]

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[barrystheman]

I have read the "Orgasmic Guy" attachments to Frank Talk and have tried a new method of mb that I would like to share with you.
Over the past week I have tried one of the "intense methods" that is mentioned in the orgasmic guy attachment.
I have tried the one "ticking the area just under the glans area.
Started to tickle the shaft just under the glans, tickled a nipple at the same time. After a few minutes I felt my penis starting to grow a bit. Relaxed even more now by concentrating all my thoughts to what I was feeling in my penis.It's hard to explain but to be honest I have never in my entire life felt such erotic feelings before. I relaxed even more and the sensations increased, my penis by this time was rock hard. The great thing was that this lasted up to 10mins without ejaculation.
It felt like I was having an orgasm for 10minutes!!
Even after the erection had gone I continued to tickle the same area on my flaccid penis and the sensations were still wonderful, not as strong but still very good. I fell asleep, awoke a few hours later and started the whole procedure again. I did this a total of 3 times during the course of the night, never coming to the point of ejac allowed me to remain sexually aroused throughout the night.
I must stress that for this method you need alot of time and it's very important to relax fully and draw all your thoughts to whats going on between your legs.
Try it guys, all the erotic sensations will blow your mind.
Barry.

[rob222]

My post would be almost identical to to Barry's post except I suffer from ED. If you haven't read the orgasmic guy, it might be helpful to you guys. Also, it does help talking about these things. I talk/email another member as well. It has been a good release for me.