Psychosexual Counselling for ED

[defiant]

Well last night and this morning have shown me exactly what the playing field is.

I've been engaging in guided relaxation every night and in the mornings on my days off for 10 mins at a time. It has had a small but noticeable effect so far.

I woke at 4am realising I had a hard on and it wouldn't go. I touched it up a bit and kept assessing it's firmness, it stuck with me for a good 20 minutes. So I began to masturbate. I wasn't cumming and was half thinking about a colleague of mine and half fearful of the outcome of my masturbation.

My fear spiked and I lost it.

I tried fondling my cock this morning as I'm so horny at the moment after not having an orgasm for a few days. I just can't even get it up for masturbation. It's become such a 'thing' now.

For me this is a profound problem of the mind. My target and objective is clear.

But how you turn off a mind like mine and silence thoughts which have become second nature. I don't yet know.

[Anonymous2]

Hi Defiant your letting things get to that are not really there, your 4 am erections if your still on my mix then its working, I get some great nocturnal erections these last few years which I have not had for years, and these do wake me up, these along with some really good morning woods, I will add some great links, no pm them to you other wise some guys will only get jealous, these should kick your libido up.

But when your masturbating think of your women naked and your having sex with her, keep that going and your never lose an erection.

Your letting your mind pick up the wrong signals.

NOWHARD

[Jamesbond]

Hi
defiant & Charlesr

A few weeks ago friend (female) of mine I meet to hang out with.

I meet her girlfriend. I talked to her before on the phone.
Hired her to do something.
She is 30 and I am pushing 50

She is dating a guy that I could tell is cheating on her and using her.
Had all the signs.

Female friend was trying to fix her up with this other guy.
He lives near her mother 5hrs away. Had an apartment 1 hr from me.
He sounds like a flake and not interested.

We where talking and I said I was turning 50 soon.
She told me I did not look 50 and that age was just a number.
I was not sure where she was going with it but I was trying to steer away from that with her.

She is cute. Educated, mature for her age. Successful.

Her current boyfriend and her I don't think they talk more than 1or 2X a month.
Seldom go out.
She wants to settle down and have someone to go to dinner with.
Think she wants kids. I don't have any.
She bought a house I was supposed to go look at it.
Think she staying in area.

Then the 2 women got together for lunch then I asked friend where was the house.
She did not answer. I brought it up again, got no answer.
I guess she wants her to go out with that guy same age as her to see how that works out.

Mutual friend tried fixing me up with someone a few years ago, she was a few years older than me. She was fixing me up with another also about my age.
So I figure it is the age thing.

I am supposed to see the 30yr old in a few months.
Need new cloths, dressy watch. Maybe should try to bring my "A" game.

No one knows I can not get it up except here and MD.

Still i will try stretching.

Thanks