Why dont women talk during sex in the bedroom

[gusord]

What really bugs me my wife will dress in lingerie, heels, etc. but she wont talk while we are having sex. I talk to her and say

do you feel this,etc. There is a mental block in her head. We used to do oral sex on each other and she would say some thing.

The dirty talking to each other is important to liven up sex. She talks about so and so and their sex life. I told my wife who

cares what they do or dont do in the bed room. I told her what we do is our business. My wife is 69 years old and I told her

we are going to continue our sex life and I am trying to deal with ED. Seriously considering an implant. I would like to know

other mens comments on this subject.

[Anonymous2]

Hi Gusord, Once you get an implant there is no turning back, that's it, you cant trail one for a test drive/shag, so if you don't like it you are stuck with it.
But you have been saying that you getting good erections, they will get better if you use my mix as it will clean your blood, good erections do need good clean blood.
My Mix will clear away any plaque in your artery and veins so this allows your blood to run better.

As for your wife not talking, not all women talk dirty, she may think its below her to do that, its a case of just accepting your wife as she is and enjoying what your getting.

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[gusord]

Anyone out there have the same problem with the wife being silent during sex ?

[dg_moore]

Anyone out there have the same problem with the wife being silent during sex ?

My wife never had a word to say during sex - she enjoyed it, but wasn't verbal about it. She also refused to discuss it before or after the fact. It never bothered me, and I never considered it a "problem" - it's just the way she's wired.

[Reggieman]

Yeah, mine rarely talks either or moans I like to discuss how it went or reflect on it but when its over she moves on. I'm the one who brings up the topic most times. Some women have to concentrate very hard during sex in order to reach orgasm. My first wife was very vocal and had no problems reaching orgasm. Its if difference in libido partly. Everybody's attitude about is sex is different. Some just want to get it over because they have little interest in it. My two cents.

[tomas1]

My wife is also pretty silent unless I'm making something on her uncomfortable; usually her head or arm.
She does make a very small sound when I assume she's liking it. It could be some kind of micro-orgasm, but I don't know.
I guess it's ok for a woman of 75.
When I reach orgasm, she wants me outa there lol.
Reminds me of an Asian prostitute (not that I've ever had experience with them lol).

[ShopMan]

I'm kind of feeling guilty here. My wife is very noisey. We are quite active for our ages and, because I have an implant, we go on for as much as 30-45 minuets. Lots of pillow talk. I usually start the conversation. Oh, we are now 77 and 78. I need to update my profile.
Charlie

[Lost Sheep]

I don't ask my girlfriend to talk. If she wants to, so be it. I do, however, ask one thing. I ask her to tell me when she orgasms. It helps me to know what I am doing right.

I promise not to just say "Job well done." and quit. I strive to do it some more, which she appreciates and I strive to bring variety as well.

Knowing what works helps tremendously and asking her to just say "I'm coming" or a tap signal is usually not too much for her to remember at "the moment". Sometimes, she forgets and has to tell me afterwards, but then I am mightily proud.

Lost Sheep

[Jamesbond]

Maybe she can tell you after sex or another time. Just tell her yo want or know because you want to make sure she is happy with the way things are going.
You would like to know what she likes.

It is important to know how she is feels about you getting the implant. It might be a good idea to ask her to go with you to Dr where she can ask dr questions with or without you in the room.
You have to know how she feels about the implant. Once you get it thier is not turning back.
It has to be discussed before you get implant. Maybe not in the bedroom where she is turned on.

I am thinking of getting implant. Not in a relationship.

As far as talking outside the bedroom.
One time I went on a blind date for dinner. She would not shut up. All she talked about was that she had gotten a kitten for her 2 daughters. She told me about the cat crapping in the house and litter box. Dinner lasted more than 2 hrs of torture.
She gave me graphic details.

I could barely eat anything.

After dinner she wanted to go for drinks. No way that was happening. I ditched the nutjob and went out for drinks by myself.
After I was able to drown the images of cat turd with booze I ate dinner.

I have had women talk thru movies or sports events.

If you have found a secret to get women' to shut up outside the bedroom please let me know.

Thank you
Bond

[ontopher469]

Hey Gusord,

I think what your wife needs is some great oral sex to make her talk!!

Your wife will talk up a storm if you give her oral sex on her clitoris! On her clitoris virtually guarantees her to have a massive orgasm! Sounds like your wife has never had an orgasm.