Finding 'Hands-On' Help

[RedRockx]

My wife and I have been making progress, slowly, toward restoring the great sex life we enjoyed for a long time. Pills, shots, sex toys and porn have all helped. But the bottom line for me has always been to be able to get my wife really turned on, because that's what has always been my biggest turn on. We feed off each other's arousal. Since women are always physically able to have sex, it is really critical to get her mentally aroused for her to enjoy sex as before.

Anyway, as with most marriages (I'm really out on a limb here...lol), us guys are willing to try any damn thing that will get us laid. But having fun with a 10 inch dildo and some German group sex porn just ain't gonna happen until the wife signs off on the deal, right? But if she's into it, you know you're in for a heck of a good ride....

All this is to explain my posting here today. My wife wants to see how having an erotic massage will help us in the bedroom. Of course, she didn't even have to ask before I was on board with the idea. A sanctioned threesome, what sane guy would not be interested? My dick may be unreliable, but my brain works just fine.

So, how do I find a smoking-hot, Angelina Jolie clone, who will offer her 'therapeutic skills' to help Little Elvis stand up and salute again? My wife just told me that I'm kidding about the Angelina Jolie part, and also about the 'smoking hot' part -- the wife calls them deal breakers (go figure?), but I'd settle for a lot less.

My brothers, this is the time for some good ideas, OK? No Craig's List, escort services, or anything a wife would find 'sleazy' (whatever that is).

I'm really thanking you guys in advance.

Redrockx

[antelope]

Dude, maybe what your wife has in mind for #3 is a Brad Pitt type. Maybe you should ask....

[RedRockx]

Don't think it didn't cross my mind.....

[hockey]

RedRockx:
I will not pretend to judge.

If I (with all my problems) even brought something like that up I would just be out on my rear, I might even wake up dead!

It is just something that never enters my mind.

Best of luck to you and the Mrs.

[MIDBOB293]

RedRockX
Check the Members Only spot for my reply.
Bob

[Genome]

I would think this through carerfully. Long-term....does this have the potential to open a door you may wish was closed. Does this have any potential for coming between you. Could it ever be a source of jealousy or resentment or regret? Be careful.

[dtwarren1942]

When I first started experiencing ED, I ordered several "sex improvement CDs, which were narrated by a board certified sex therapist and the director of the sexual dysfunction unit at Duke University. I would recommend you contact some professionals similar in stature to the above to discuss your plans. Perhaps, they could make some recommendations as to how best to proceed and make some recommendations regarding a licensed sexual massage therapist.