Bjones wrote: I honestly get nothing from giving oral sex..I can make the woman moan in delight but im just meh..does giving oral get you guys aroused/hard or other pleasure?
Yes.
For many men, sex is not just about orgasms (hers or ours), but about the gift she gives us of control over her. Some men enjoy the power of that control. A euphemism for the female orgasm is "the little death". When I give my girlfriend that ecstasy, I do get a great deal of pleasure.
It is hard to describe in words without sounding maudlin or overly sentimental, but the connection, the union, the power I feel having my penis inside her when I cum pales by comparison to the connection I feel to her as she cums. A woman having an orgasm, or multiple or a continuous orgasm is truly spectacular to behold whether it is with my penis inside her or my tongue on her clitoris and my finger(s) on her G-spot.
When she gives me the gift of surrendering her womanly power (and let's be honest here, the female orgasm is an order of magnitude more powerful than the male's), I feel honored and made more powerful by association. And yes, it can give me erections, such as they are nowadays.
I wish for you that some day you will experience the same joy.
The best sex I ever had in my life was when I left my girlfriend exhausted, dehydrated and limp as a rag doll. When she was able to talk, she asked me to carry her to the bathroom to pee because she could not stand up to walk there. I don't even remember if I had an orgasm, and don't care. Though I am sure I did some time during the experience.
Lost Sheep
