How long after prostatectomy before achieving orgasm

[radioradio]

I'm 9 weeks after RALP, and can't reach orgasm with masturbation. (Tried everything that used to work...) I may just be impatient.
Hoping when I start trimix next week this will resolve, and that I'll be having sex with my wife again and not need to take things into my own hands so much.
I'd appreciate any comments/experiences from guys who have RP.
Thanks.
Bob

[Andy425]

FWIW: I did it probably within a few weeks after surgery. And, for the first time in my life, I discovered that I could do it with a limp dick. Hooray! (not)

Also FWIW: I think this varies depending on the patient, but orgasms aren't what they used to be. Sometimes they feel decent, but usually they aren't all that great. I don't know if it's just because of the lack of semen or something more, maybe to do with the nerves.

[Bionic_by_AMS]

radioradio,
Orgasm after radical prostatectomy
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8705222
"Radical prostatectomy may have serious consequences on libido and erectile function but sometimes other important factors, such as the absence of prostate and seminal vesicle contractions, the loss of ejaculation and involuntary loss of urine, may also compromise the orgasm."

[Reggieman]

Yeah, I had trouble getting an orgasm after RP too. It took a tremendous amount of work I found Once I got on Bimix having a stiffy, even less than 100%, made it easier. I find that my penis is not as sensitive now and takes more work to masturbate. Can't orgasm via intercourse or my wife's hand (feels good but no dice). I seem to have recently found the correct spot for my injection as the erections have been consistently 90-95% and one was 95-100%. Orgasms are weak but do give relief and gets sex off my mind for a while. It seems a lot a fuss and work for little orgasms which tend to pulsate several times before I'm done. No big explosions anymore. Its nice seeing a mostly normal erection again. I don't mind the time it takes to deflate. Heck, I'd like to go and show it the neighbors. It seems that everyone's experience is different. Also like to mention that it often helps me to look at porn to get over the top. That's due to the lowered sensitivity of my penis. Its harder to get aroused sufficiently these days. I don't like going off "half cocked" if I can help it.

[bldoink]

I wouldn't worry just yet. It took me awhile too. It seems to take me longer to get off now but sometimes when I do they are 10+.

[Andy425]

Adding to my previous post: I can achieve orgasm quickly, whenever I want, but sometimes they are so lame that they are barely worth the effort.

[charlesr]

3.5 years post RP. Orgasms more intense and longer lasting. "Point of inevitability" returned, but more like the orgasms that my wife obtains where you cannot pinpoint the second of the start of the orgasm like when I ejaculated. Still, however, the peak point of the orgasm is noticeable and quite a bit longer. Plus it extends for a good 30 seconds longer than it did prior to RP.

[LMCatman]

I was a couple of months Post RP when I had my first "soft dick blow job" orgasm. During the following 2+ years my orgasms became more and more difficult to attain. Sometimes I could see it in the eyes of my 2 favorite girls... 'come on already'. One of my favorite professional girls actually "dumped" me. This led me to the implant decision.

I'm now on my third implant..... First one botched by overly confident incompetent surgeon, second one failed after almost three years, third one March 1st of this year. It took maybe four months after the first implant to achieve orgasm, two plus months after the revision, and two months and still counting after the replacement. Even without orgasms, hard dick fucking is so great. I can achieve what I call a "pseudo orgasm" where all my feelings are building to an orgasm, the orgasm doesn't actually happen and I have "post-orgasm" feelings, sometimes even throbbing. I know the fabulous post RP cowgirl orgasms are "just around the corner" and I'm more than ready for them... Good luck

[Gordon]

I had RPC in 2015. Orgasms are going to be different, but for myself and a lot of other guys I have talked to the results can be amazing. I start off with mild sensations and then have another one that is more intense than the first. If you keep going you may find that you can have multiple o's. I have found it very pleasurable and actually the orgazims are more intense than before when I could ejaculate. Just experiment and find out what works best for you. It seems for me to be more of a whole body sensation instead of my crotch area. I have uncontrollable body jerks like back arching etc. Get relaxed and take matters in your own hand at first because you know what works for you better than anyone else. After you figure it out then you can share it with someone else. Good luck.

[LMCatman]

Yesterday, (appropiately) 69 days after my most recent implant, I had an orgasm with a woman. Missionary position and a long long long orgasm complete with "Three Stooges" noises...... FINALLY!!! Possibly even more appropriately, it was with the girl referenced above who "dumped" me 4 years ago because she got tired of giving me "soft dick blowjobs"...