years of frustration about to end

[Larry10625]

new member, I didnt know how to start a post

Postby scrambledegg » Tue Apr 11, 2017 10:16 pm

Where do I start, about 1987, my super dick became a soft sentimental weenie. Prior to that, my sex life was great, well hung and built. Then I lost control of my dick, it wouldn't respond. Being military, I went to the urologist. He suggested Muse, did do anything. Then he gave me a shot of something in the side of my penis! It did nothing. He said, that's all I can do. Went to the VA, they asked if I was a sex addict and the nurse told me there are other ways to please a woman, sure there is. So the muddled through girlfriends with a semi hard dick, sometimes to soft for entry. Most of the girls cried because they assumed it was their fault. I lost a lot a self esteem and was scared my friends would find out. I think by the time I left that state, the VA was giving me 4 Viagra a month, I was supposed to cut them in half, but they never told me how to use it.
Lets say I moved to a warmer climate, went to the VA and they fixed me up with 4 Levitra, I loved them. Then they changed back to Viagra. I had several girlfriends and none of them knew I was using. My sex life was great, I crossed the border and purchased more ED drugs. Nothing could stop me, as the years passed, I needed more or a combo to get it up, called limp dick, but she loved it.
All of a sudden, I am living with someone and I can't get it up. She gives me head and I can't get it up. I left the poor girl out of fear and frustration.
Now, between Tricare and the VA, I am trying to get a penile implant. That's my last hope. Does anyone have experience using Tricare to get a PE? I met a new beautiful woman, one night we tore each others clothes off and after I went down on her, she returned the favor. But I had a limp dick, I wasn't even going to try to put it in. I wrote her a note and told her I would understand if she didn't want to see me anymore, but she is still around. I was at her place and told her the truth, she didn't mind.
Now I am trying to save my life with a PE. I can't even masturbate. Trying to get an implant now. I am 60, and most people think I am 45, but they don't know about my problem.
Any suggestions, I have tried everything.

Where in the hell did all you guys hung like horses come from? My little 5 incher would cower around your telephone poles...
Larry

[David_R]

Where in the hell did all you guys hung like horses come from? My little 5 incher would cower around your telephone poles...
Larry

But a little one that works and that is correctly used can be better than a large one that doesn't work and/or is stupidly used. Correct?

[Donnie1954]

So true. Well said.

[ShopMan]

new member, I didnt know how to start a post


Where in the hell did all you guys hung like horses come from? My little 5 incher would cower around your telephone poles...
Larry

I'm with you Larry. But I was also told a long time ago "it's not the size of the magicians wand, it's the magic that's in it.

Charlie

[joe456]

so ture 5"or 6 " hard dick is better than a 7.5 " dick that hurts the girl

[Donnie1954]

That's so true. Too big a dick can be too much, but a tool in the hands (or between the legs) of a gentle lover can be just right.
Donnie

[Larry10625]

"Most of the girls cried because they assumed it was their fault."

That part caught my attention. My wife used to really believe she was the reason I couldn't get it up or keep it up. Between my male egfo and that, really makes suffering from this so hard. No pun intended.

I think my wife still thinks that. I told her that until I get my second implant, I would be happy to service her with toys... although I think deep down, she wants that, she says she would feel guilty when I can't do anything.
Larry

[Donnie1954]

Larry,
Brother we are all praying that everything will go great. There is nothing more frustrating than a man wanting to make love and is unable too. We want to please and pleasure our mates and a good hard dick helps. Letting them know they are loved and how bad we want them is so important. We can't let our marriages die just because we can't fuck. It will be better. Everything gonna be alright!
Prayers,
Donnie

[Larry10625]

Larry,
Brother we are all praying that everything will go great. There is nothing more frustrating than a man wanting to make love and is unable too. We want to please and pleasure our mates and a good hard dick helps. Letting them know they are loved and how bad we want them is so important. We can't let our marriages die just because we can't fuck. It will be better. Everything gonna be alright!
Prayers,
Donnie

Thanks Donnie. Your support is encouraging.

[scrambledegg]

I am about one month out and still have a few stitches, minor pain and now I can sit and stand without much discomfort. I did need to do some research on mens underwear and found that Stealth makes undies with a pouch to support my package, made things more comfy.

Doc says 2 more weeks to sex and I cannot wait, thank god for this procedure and thanks for the kind words gents.