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[David_R]

Wishing all the best for you, Larry.

[Larry10625]

Wishing all the best for you, Larry.

Thanks David

[Anonymous3]

Being doing good so far.
Guys if you get a little over zealous and stray from the rules DO NOT blast Larry in public. Responded to him private therere is no need to be ugly and nasty. Th8nk of Larry as the cop for the forum.

If you get stopped by a cop do you get nasty and ugly with him, I hope not.
We are all grown men and some are very passionate about our common problem.

One other thing I might add when you respond to a post stop and ask yourself, should a dr be answering the question or is it a support type thing of been that done that. If it is a question that a dr should answer then state that in your answer.

The legal ramifications of you giving medical advise even if unintentional could be huge. Your state/provincence/territory could prosacute you for pratic8ng medicine without a licence. If the person is injured or worse dies from your advise you could face a personal libility or wrongfull death law suite

[Larry10625]

Being doing good so far.
Guys if you get a little over zealous and stray from the rules DO NOT blast Larry in public. Responded to him private therere is no need to be ugly and nasty. Th8nk of Larry as the cop for the forum.

If you get stopped by a cop do you get nasty and ugly with him, I hope not.
We are all grown men and some are very passionate about our common problem.

One other thing I might add when you respond to a post stop and ask yourself, should a dr be answering the question or is it a support type thing of been that done that. If it is a question that a dr should answer then state that in your answer.

The legal ramifications of you giving medical advise even if unintentional could be huge. Your state/provincence/territory could prosacute you for pratic8ng medicine without a licence. If the person is injured or worse dies from your advise you could face a personal libility or wrongfull death law suite

Thanks Hugh. This cop would rather not have to pull anyone over. I guess the biggest thing is to respect the members enough on here to hash out your differences in private. The members, especially the new ones, don't want to read two grown men argue over how to calculate how big someone's unit is.

Larry

[Anonymous3]

Being doing good so far.
Guys if you get a little over zealous and stray from the rules DO NOT blast Larry in public. Responded to him private therere is no need to be ugly and nasty. Th8nk of Larry as the cop for the forum.

If you get stopped by a cop do you get nasty and ugly with him, I hope not.
We are all grown men and some are very passionate about our common problem.

One other thing I might add when you respond to a post stop and ask yourself, should a dr be answering the question or is it a support type thing of been that done that. If it is a question that a dr should answer then state that in your answer.

The legal ramifications of you giving medical advise even if unintentional could be huge. Your state/provincence/territory could prosacute you for pratic8ng medicine without a licence. If the person is injured or worse dies from your advise you could face a personal libility or wrongfull death law suite

Thanks Hugh. This cop would rather not have to pull anyone over. I guess the biggest thing is to respect the members enough on here to hash out your differences in private. The members, especially the new ones, don't want to read two grown men argue over how to calculate how big someone's unit is.

Larry

I have found the Foe button to be a great tool. When the bs starts use it you no longer see their post unless someone quotes it

[Larry10625]

Being doing good so far.
Guys if you get a little over zealous and stray from the rules DO NOT blast Larry in public. Responded to him private therere is no need to be ugly and nasty. Th8nk of Larry as the cop for the forum.

If you get stopped by a cop do you get nasty and ugly with him, I hope not.
We are all grown men and some are very passionate about our common problem.

One other thing I might add when you respond to a post stop and ask yourself, should a dr be answering the question or is it a support type thing of been that done that. If it is a question that a dr should answer then state that in your answer.

The legal ramifications of you giving medical advise even if unintentional could be huge. Your state/provincence/territory could prosacute you for pratic8ng medicine without a licence. If the person is injured or worse dies from your advise you could face a personal libility or wrongfull death law suite

Thanks Hugh. This cop would rather not have to pull anyone over. I guess the biggest thing is to respect the members enough on here to hash out your differences in private. The members, especially the new ones, don't want to read two grown men argue over how to calculate how big someone's unit is.

Larry

I have found the Foe button to be a great tool. When the bs starts use it you no longer see their post unless someone quotes it

Well, that sounds like a great little tool.

Larry

[jmaqQK]

Hi from new Member, jmaqQK (63 y/o single guy that dates younger ladies ) - thanks for accepting my registration application - great site...been suffering from ED since late 40s (due to spinal injury from motorcycle injury in my youth), and just had an AMS 700 LGX (21cm + 1cm RTE) a week ago in GNH Hospital in New Dehli, with Dr. Tanwar...all going well now with little discomfort now (no pain meds now at all) - back there in 2 weeks for full activation process...on a 'journey' now with big learning curve I am expecting, and just so reassuring having this help chain online now....

[Anonymous3]

Your follow up maybe just to start cycling the pump. Activation is cleared for sex. Some have done in as little 14 days, some 4 weeks, most ar 6 weeks or longer.

It takes months to completely heal
Be patient

[David_R]

Welcome, jmaqQK! This is a great site. I have the same model implant you do, and my wife and I love it. I hope things continue going smoothly for you.

[Rmezgo1025]

Greetings everyone,

I come to you man to man, humbly seeking
advice for my ED battle and hope to help a few
guys on the way with my story. I am 56 years old
and have been battling this for the past 5 years.
I have tried a multitude of 'T' supplements and
have also tried viagra and cialis without success.
I've read that ED triggers anxiety after the first
episode and that level of anxiety can multiply GREATLY
every time I even anticipate having sex with my wife...
Really?? How can I stop this viscous circle??
My wife told me that she can feel my anxiety
In bed now... Now we are both anxious before sex!!
This sucks.
I'm in relatively good shape for my age although
could lose 15-20 pounds and trying to focus more
on my core.
About 18 months ago I had lumbar fusion on three
vertabraes in my low back about a year ago.
Prior to the surgery I was on 50 of mg oxycodone
for about 5 months to control pain; while I was
still working. I completed the surgery and after a
VERY painful 12 week recovery I returned to work
completely off ALL pain meds!! I've never taken
a lot of medication. I now only take nexium for
acid reflux.
Realizing that stress and anxiety can trigger ED
I started daily weight training with mild cardio
to get in better physical shape and control stress.
My wife is beautiful and very attractive.
Now she blames her self for my inability to get or
maintain a strong erection like I did less than five
years ago. We talked recently and I explained to
her that this was entirely an issue of my own and
only asked her for her patience and support to
help me identify the problem and seek some answers.
My wife is very supportive but always blames
herself over time. Like most couples suffering with
ED, 'We only want to get our sex life back!'
Even half as strong and frequent would be satisfactory!!
Before my surgery, I discussed my ED issues with my
family doctor. We ran labs and he told me my T levels
were normal for my age (300?) but my blood pressure
was bordering high. He basically told me I was fine
and in great physical health and that I needed to to
stop worrying so much... Really doc??
I've also read that a lot of literature on blood flow
to the penis, the small penile arteries, blockage,
etc. In relation, I also read that there could be
heart related issues and related arteries that
could be blocked, causing blood flow issues
throughout, etc. sheesh...
NOW, all this said, I am now preparing to get
a second medical opinion from another family
Doctor and also getting new labs, and scheduling
to see a Urologist. I will also see a cardiologist
Just for safe measure. I AM DESEPERATE for an
answer to my ED! My wife is sweet and supportive
although this problem has brought a lot of question
In to our relationship. I simply cannot, WILL NOT
back down until I have found a healthy solution.

I am open to any comments. Fire away and thanks
for having the courage to open this MUCH NEEDED
forum! Sorry for the novel...

Rmez